Relationship Spread #1

Relationship Spread #1

 

 

Difficulty: Easy

This tarot spread is easy to read, like a convenient chart. In this spread, court cards generally indicate actual people with the same characteristics. Knights (or corresponding princes, but not kings) and queens are meant to represent actual men and women in this tarot spread. Look for patterns in the cards as always.

Card #1 is the overall significator of the relationship. The two columns on either side of the significator characterise each individual's role in the relationship. The relationship does not have to be romantic. In fact, it could be a relationship between a person and a group, or even how two groups relate.

The top row, cards #7 & #2, is about the conscious thoughts of each person, or what they think about the relationship and likewise how they view their partner.

The middle row, cards #6 & #3, reveals the way each individual feels about the other. Emotional awareness corresponds to a person's unconscious thoughts that run deep, affecting a person in ways he or she is not fully aware of.

The bottom row, cards #5 & #4, represents the way each person behaves, in other words the stance taken regarding the relationship. The way a person acts may be genuine, but sometimes people are phony and manipulative, so it is best to weigh this card against the other person's cards to determine how they match up.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Your Relationship #1 Reading

  You   Other Person
Thought             
The Sun
(Le Soleil)
              
Seven of Batons
Emotion             
The Lovers
(L'Amoureux)
The Significator

Valet of Coins
            
Deuce of Batons
External Stance             
Knight of Cups
              
Six of Cups

 

 

 

 

The Significator

Valet of Coins

Symbolism:
The Valet of Coins holds a single coin, gazing at it with curiosity or reverence, symbolising the pursuit of knowledge and potential in material matters. The figure's youthful demeanour reflects themes of learning, new opportunities, and the beginning stages of financial or practical growth.

Meaning:
The Valet of Coins represents curiosity and the pursuit of knowledge in the material world. It signifies a willingness to learn and grow in financial or practical matters. This card urges exploration of new opportunities, particularly in the areas of career, studies, or investments, and highlights the importance of diligence in taking the first steps toward prosperity.

In relationships, it suggests new beginnings based on mutual growth and shared ambitions. Spiritually, it reflects the eager pursuit of knowledge that leads to material success.

Keywords:
Curiosity, learning, practicality, opportunities, growth, ambition, diligence, exploration, material world, new beginnings.

 

 

 

 

The Querent's Thoughts

The Sun
(Le Soleil)

Symbolism:
The Sun shines brightly over two joyful children, symbolising innocence and vitality. A wall represents protection and growth. The radiant light of the sun signifies clarity, success, and the life force itself.

Meaning:
The Sun represents joy, success, and illumination. It heralds a period of clarity, achievement, and fulfilment. This card encourages positivity, optimism, and self-expression, reminding you to celebrate life's blessings.

In relationships, the Sun signifies warmth, harmony, and mutual happiness. Spiritually, it points to enlightenment and connection with divine light.

Keywords:
Joy, success, clarity, vitality, positivity, enlightenment, achievement, growth, warmth, celebration.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's Thoughts

Seven of Batons

Symbolism:
Seven batons intersect in a slightly irregular pattern, with fresh leaves sprouting at their joints, suggesting perseverance amidst challenges. The imagery conveys determination, resilience, and the courage to stand one's ground.

Meaning:
The Seven of Batons represents defending your position, standing firm against opposition, and asserting yourself amidst challenges. It emphasises courage and persistence in maintaining your beliefs or goals, even when faced with adversity. This card highlights the importance of self-confidence and holding your ground.

In relationships, it can indicate overcoming external pressures or standing together in unity. Spiritually, it reflects the need to remain steadfast on your path despite doubts or criticism.

Keywords:
Defiance, resilience, courage, perseverance, self-defence, opposition, determination, conviction, assertiveness, strength.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Querent's Emotions

The Lovers
(L'Amoureux)

Symbolism:
The Lovers card depicts a man standing between two women, with Cupid above aiming an arrow. The scene suggests a choice or a union, with the women often representing opposing influences. In some interpretations, the figures are Adam and Eve, symbolising the duality of earthly and spiritual love.

Meaning:
The Lovers represent connection, harmony, and the power of choice. This card speaks to deep relationships, whether romantic or platonic, and the alignment of values and goals. However, it also highlights the necessity of making meaningful decisions, often at a crossroads where the heart and mind must collaborate.

In relationships, the Lovers symbolise love, commitment, and mutual respect. Spiritually, they encourage balancing the dualities within yourself and finding unity in diversity.

Keywords:
Love, harmony, connection, choice, duality, relationships, unity, attraction, alignment, crossroads.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's Emotions

Deuce of Batons

Symbolism:
The Deuce of Batons in the Marseille Tarot depicts two crossed wooden batons adorned with leaves, symbolising growth, balance, and potential. The design conveys a sense of stability and duality, reflecting the initial stages of collaboration, decision-making, or planning.

Meaning:
The Two of Batons represents planning, decision-making, and the initial steps toward a goal. It emphasises the need to assess opportunities and weigh options before taking action. This card encourages foresight and a bold approach to achieving your ambitions.

In relationships, it suggests evaluating the potential for growth. Spiritually, it invites you to consider how your actions align with your higher purpose.

Keywords:
Planning, decisions, foresight, potential, ambition, exploration, preparation, boldness, vision, strategy.

 

 

 

 

The Querent's External Stance

Knight of Cups

Symbolism:
The Cavalier of Cups is shown riding a steady horse, holding a cup as if offering or presenting it, symbolising emotional pursuit and romantic ideals. The card reflects themes of charm, devotion, and the quest for emotional or creative fulfilment.

Meaning:
The Knight of Cups represents romance, charm, and the pursuit of emotional or artistic goals. It suggests taking action based on intuition and feelings, but warns against overidealizing or being overly passive.

In relationships, it indicates a romantic approach or a deepening of emotional bonds. Spiritually, it highlights the importance of aligning your actions with your heart's desires.

Keywords:
Romance, charm, idealism, emotional pursuit, creativity, intuition, action, inspiration, deepening bonds, heartfelt journeys.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's External Stance

Six of Cups

Symbolism:
Six cups are symmetrically aligned, interwoven with flourishing leaves or flowers, signifying nostalgia and harmonious emotions. The imagery suggests a return to past joys, innocence, or the exchange of heartfelt kindness.

Meaning:
The Six of Cups symbolises nostalgia, innocence, and the joy of revisiting the past. It reflects happy memories, generosity, and the simplicity of pure emotional connections. This card encourages embracing the wisdom of your past while staying present.

In relationships, it may suggest a bond rooted in history or the rekindling of old connections. Spiritually, it calls for a return to childlike wonder and openness.

Keywords:
Nostalgia, innocence, joy, generosity, childhood, memories, emotional connection, simplicity, kindness, openness.

 

 

 

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