Relationship Spread #1

Relationship Spread #1

 

 

Difficulty: Easy

This tarot spread is easy to read, like a convenient chart. In this spread, court cards generally indicate actual people with the same characteristics. Knights (or corresponding princes, but not kings) and queens are meant to represent actual men and women in this tarot spread. Look for patterns in the cards as always.

Card #1 is the overall significator of the relationship. The two columns on either side of the significator characterise each individual's role in the relationship. The relationship does not have to be romantic. In fact, it could be a relationship between a person and a group, or even how two groups relate.

The top row, cards #7 & #2, is about the conscious thoughts of each person, or what they think about the relationship and likewise how they view their partner.

The middle row, cards #6 & #3, reveals the way each individual feels about the other. Emotional awareness corresponds to a person's unconscious thoughts that run deep, affecting a person in ways he or she is not fully aware of.

The bottom row, cards #5 & #4, represents the way each person behaves, in other words the stance taken regarding the relationship. The way a person acts may be genuine, but sometimes people are phony and manipulative, so it is best to weigh this card against the other person's cards to determine how they match up.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Your Relationship #1 Reading

  You   Other Person
Thought             
Judgement
(Le Jugement)
              
Eight of Cups
Emotion             
The Wheel of Fortune
(La Roue de Fo
The Significator

Deuce of Cups
            
Six of Cups
External Stance             
Eight of Coins
              
Seven of Cups

 

 

 

 

The Significator

Deuce of Cups

Symbolism:
Two elegant cups face one another, often connected by floral motifs or a shared ornament, symbolising harmony and partnership. The balanced arrangement reflects unity, mutual understanding, and the joy of connection.

Meaning:
The Two of Cups symbolises partnerships, unity, and mutual respect. It highlights emotional and spiritual connections, often in the form of love, friendship, or collaboration. This card suggests balance and equality, emphasising the importance of giving and receiving in harmony.

In relationships, it signifies a deep bond, often romantic but not exclusively. Spiritually, it reflects the balance between inner and outer worlds or the union of opposing forces.

Keywords:
Union, partnership, love, harmony, balance, connection, mutual respect, cooperation, intimacy, equality.

 

 

 

 

The Querent's Thoughts

Judgement
(Le Jugement)

Symbolism:
An angel blows a trumpet as figures rise from coffins below, symbolising resurrection and awakening. The praying hands of the figures reflect surrender and acceptance. The bright light of the angel signifies divine calling and revelation, while the mountains in the background represent challenges overcome.

Meaning:
Judgement represents awakening, self-assessment, and rebirth. It signals a time to evaluate your past and make amends, preparing for a new chapter. This card often appears when you are called to align with your higher purpose and embrace transformation.

In relationships, it suggests healing, forgiveness, or a new beginning. Spiritually, it encourages connection with your true calling.

Keywords:
Awakening, transformation, rebirth, judgement, self-assessment, forgiveness, redemption, clarity, divine calling, renewal.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's Thoughts

Eight of Cups

Symbolism:
Eight cups form a balanced yet slightly sparse arrangement, with minimal embellishments suggesting a turning point. This card reflects themes of emotional detachment, moving on, and seeking deeper fulfilment.

Meaning:
The Eight of Cups represents leaving behind something once fulfilling but no longer serving your emotional or spiritual growth. It signifies a turning point—a time to seek deeper meaning and embark on a journey of self-discovery. This card encourages courage in releasing attachments and pursuing higher aspirations.

In relationships, it may indicate the need to move on from stagnation or an unsatisfying situation. Spiritually, it represents a quest for truth and enlightenment.

Keywords:
Departure, self-discovery, transition, letting go, seeking truth, emotional growth, solitude, moving on, courage, higher aspirations.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Querent's Emotions

The Wheel of Fortune
(La Roue de Fo

Symbolism:
The Wheel of Fortune depicts a large wheel with figures ascending and descending its sides. It symbolises fate, luck, and the cycles of life. The turning motion suggests impermanence and change.

Meaning:
The Wheel of Fortune represents the ever-turning cycles of life, where fortune can rise or fall unexpectedly. This card signals change, opportunity, and the need to adapt. It reminds you to embrace the flow of events and trust in the greater pattern.

In relationships, it can indicate changes or new phases. Spiritually, it highlights the interconnectedness of life and the importance of surrendering to destiny's rhythms while remaining attuned to opportunities that arise.

Keywords:
Change, cycles, destiny, luck, opportunity, karma, adaptability, transition, impermanence, evolution.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's Emotions

Six of Cups

Symbolism:
Six cups are symmetrically aligned, interwoven with flourishing leaves or flowers, signifying nostalgia and harmonious emotions. The imagery suggests a return to past joys, innocence, or the exchange of heartfelt kindness.

Meaning:
The Six of Cups symbolises nostalgia, innocence, and the joy of revisiting the past. It reflects happy memories, generosity, and the simplicity of pure emotional connections. This card encourages embracing the wisdom of your past while staying present.

In relationships, it may suggest a bond rooted in history or the rekindling of old connections. Spiritually, it calls for a return to childlike wonder and openness.

Keywords:
Nostalgia, innocence, joy, generosity, childhood, memories, emotional connection, simplicity, kindness, openness.

 

 

 

 

The Querent's External Stance

Eight of Coins

Symbolism:
Eight coins form a structured, methodical arrangement, often decorated with symmetrical flourishes, symbolising diligence and skill. The imagery suggests focused effort, mastery, and dedication to refining one's craft.

Meaning:
The Eight of Coins represents hard work, diligence, and skill development. It reflects a period of focused effort where progress is made through consistent attention to detail. This card encourages honing one's craft, perfecting skills, and continuing to learn and grow, even if the rewards seem distant.

In relationships, it may indicate the need to put in the effort to build a lasting connection. Spiritually, it speaks to dedication and continuous improvement, emphasising that mastery is achieved through commitment and practice.

Keywords:
Hard work, skill, dedication, mastery, craft, focus, attention to detail, improvement, practice, perseverance.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's External Stance

Seven of Cups

Symbolism:
Seven cups are arranged in an intricate and slightly asymmetrical pattern, surrounded by flourishing floral designs, hinting at dreams and desires. The card represents choices, imagination, and the allure of possibilities, some of which may be illusory.

Meaning:
The Seven of Cups represents imagination, options, and the challenge of discerning between reality and illusion. It signifies the allure of possibilities and warns against becoming overwhelmed by fantasies or unrealistic expectations.

In relationships, it suggests idealisation or confusion about choices. Spiritually, it reflects the need to ground your aspirations in practicality while staying connected to your vision.

Keywords:
Imagination, options, illusion, temptation, choice, fantasy, dreams, discernment, creativity, vision.

 

 

 

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