Relationship Spread #1

Relationship Spread #1

 

 

Difficulty: Easy

This tarot spread is easy to read, like a convenient chart. In this spread, court cards generally indicate actual people with the same characteristics. Knights (or corresponding princes, but not kings) and queens are meant to represent actual men and women in this tarot spread. Look for patterns in the cards as always.

Card #1 is the overall significator of the relationship. The two columns on either side of the significator characterise each individual's role in the relationship. The relationship does not have to be romantic. In fact, it could be a relationship between a person and a group, or even how two groups relate.

The top row, cards #7 & #2, is about the conscious thoughts of each person, or what they think about the relationship and likewise how they view their partner.

The middle row, cards #6 & #3, reveals the way each individual feels about the other. Emotional awareness corresponds to a person's unconscious thoughts that run deep, affecting a person in ways he or she is not fully aware of.

The bottom row, cards #5 & #4, represents the way each person behaves, in other words the stance taken regarding the relationship. The way a person acts may be genuine, but sometimes people are phony and manipulative, so it is best to weigh this card against the other person's cards to determine how they match up.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Your Relationship #1 Reading

  You   Other Person
Thought             
The Wheel of Fortune
(La Roue de Fo
              
Seven of Coins
Emotion             
The Hermit
(L'Hermite)
The Significator

The Devil
(Le Diable)
            
Six of Cups
External Stance             
Knight of Coins
              
Three of Swords

 

 

 

 

The Significator

The Devil
(Le Diable)

Symbolism:
The Devil is portrayed as a horned figure with two chained human figures below, representing bondage to materialism or desires. The chains are loose, suggesting self-imposed limitations. Their animalistic features symbolise the materialism and polarity of nature.

Meaning:
The Devil represents temptation, materialism, and the shadow side of human nature. It highlights unhealthy attachments, addictions, or fears that may be holding you back. This card calls for awareness and the courage to break free from self-imposed limitations.

In relationships, it warns of codependency or power imbalances. Spiritually, the Devil challenges you to confront and integrate your shadow self.

Keywords:
Temptation, bondage, materialism, addiction, fear, control, power, shadow self, self-awareness, liberation.

 

 

 

 

The Querent's Thoughts

The Wheel of Fortune
(La Roue de Fo

Symbolism:
The Wheel of Fortune depicts a large wheel with figures ascending and descending its sides. It symbolises fate, luck, and the cycles of life. The turning motion suggests impermanence and change.

Meaning:
The Wheel of Fortune represents the ever-turning cycles of life, where fortune can rise or fall unexpectedly. This card signals change, opportunity, and the need to adapt. It reminds you to embrace the flow of events and trust in the greater pattern.

In relationships, it can indicate changes or new phases. Spiritually, it highlights the interconnectedness of life and the importance of surrendering to destiny's rhythms while remaining attuned to opportunities that arise.

Keywords:
Change, cycles, destiny, luck, opportunity, karma, adaptability, transition, impermanence, evolution.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's Thoughts

Seven of Coins

Symbolism:
Seven coins are arranged in a slightly uneven yet intentional pattern, adorned with budding leaves, symbolising patience and growth. This card represents long-term investment, reflection on progress, and the anticipation of rewards.

Meaning:
The Seven of Coins represents patience and evaluation of progress. It suggests taking a step back to assess whether one's efforts have been fruitful. There may be a sense of waiting or uncertainty about the outcomes of hard work, but this card encourages perseverance and trusting in the process. It also warns against impatience or becoming too disillusioned with the slow pace of progress.

In relationships, it can signify reassessing the dynamics and questioning whether efforts are being reciprocated. Spiritually, it represents patience and the wisdom of understanding that results take time to manifest.

Keywords:
Patience, evaluation, progress, effort, assessment, perseverance, growth, waiting, dissatisfaction, long-term rewards.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Querent's Emotions

The Hermit
(L'Hermite)

Symbolism:
The Hermit is an elderly figure carrying a lantern and a staff. The lantern symbolises inner wisdom and guidance, while the staff represents support and stability. His cloak signifies introspection, reflecting the solitude of his journey.

Meaning:
The Hermit represents introspection, wisdom, and solitude. He invites you to step back from external distractions and seek answers within. This card often appears during periods of self-discovery, encouraging you to listen to your inner voice.

In relationships, the Hermit may indicate a need for personal space or reflection. Spiritually, it highlights the quest for enlightenment and the value of solitary contemplation.

Keywords:
Wisdom, introspection, solitude, guidance, reflection, self-discovery, enlightenment, patience, inner truth, retreat.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's Emotions

Six of Cups

Symbolism:
Six cups are symmetrically aligned, interwoven with flourishing leaves or flowers, signifying nostalgia and harmonious emotions. The imagery suggests a return to past joys, innocence, or the exchange of heartfelt kindness.

Meaning:
The Six of Cups symbolises nostalgia, innocence, and the joy of revisiting the past. It reflects happy memories, generosity, and the simplicity of pure emotional connections. This card encourages embracing the wisdom of your past while staying present.

In relationships, it may suggest a bond rooted in history or the rekindling of old connections. Spiritually, it calls for a return to childlike wonder and openness.

Keywords:
Nostalgia, innocence, joy, generosity, childhood, memories, emotional connection, simplicity, kindness, openness.

 

 

 

 

The Querent's External Stance

Knight of Coins

Symbolism:
The Cavalier of Coins is a steadfast figure on a sturdy horse, holding a coin firmly in hand, symbolising dedication and determination. The imagery conveys patience, responsibility, and a methodical approach to achieving goals.

Meaning:
The Knight of Coins represents reliability, diligence, and steady progress. He embodies the energy of persistence, ensuring that all tasks are completed with care and attention to detail. This card speaks to the need for patience and hard work in achieving long-term goals and financial stability.

In relationships, it suggests a reliable partner or a steady, consistent approach to commitment. Spiritually, it reflects the importance of persistence in achieving one's goals, whether material or otherwise.

Keywords:
Reliability, diligence, patience, responsibility, steady progress, methodical, persistence, commitment, work ethic, grounded.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's External Stance

Three of Swords

Symbolism:
Three swords intersect, forming a dynamic triangular arrangement, often accompanied by minimal decoration. This design represents conflict, heartache, or the challenging growth that follows emotional or mental pain.

Meaning:
The Three of Swords signifies heartache, betrayal, or grief. It is a card of emotional pain but also serves as a reminder of the healing and growth that follow. This card encourages you to confront and process your pain to move forward.

In relationships, it reflects loss, separation, or betrayal. Spiritually, it emphasises the transformative power of overcoming emotional trials.

Keywords:
Heartbreak, sorrow, betrayal, grief, emotional pain, healing, loss, separation, growth, transformation.

 

 

 

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