Relationship Spread #1

Relationship Spread #1

 

 

Difficulty: Easy

This tarot spread is easy to read, like a convenient chart. In this spread, court cards generally indicate actual people with the same characteristics. Knights (or corresponding princes, but not kings) and queens are meant to represent actual men and women in this tarot spread. Look for patterns in the cards as always.

Card #1 is the overall significator of the relationship. The two columns on either side of the significator characterise each individual's role in the relationship. The relationship does not have to be romantic. In fact, it could be a relationship between a person and a group, or even how two groups relate.

The top row, cards #7 & #2, is about the conscious thoughts of each person, or what they think about the relationship and likewise how they view their partner.

The middle row, cards #6 & #3, reveals the way each individual feels about the other. Emotional awareness corresponds to a person's unconscious thoughts that run deep, affecting a person in ways he or she is not fully aware of.

The bottom row, cards #5 & #4, represents the way each person behaves, in other words the stance taken regarding the relationship. The way a person acts may be genuine, but sometimes people are phony and manipulative, so it is best to weigh this card against the other person's cards to determine how they match up.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Your Relationship #1 Reading

  You   Other Person
Thought             
Seven of Swords
              
Nine of Swords
Emotion             
Deuce of Swords
The Significator

Four of Batons
            
Knight of Cups
External Stance             
The High Priestess
(La Papesse)
              
The Sun
(Le Soleil)

 

 

 

 

The Significator

Four of Batons

Symbolism:
Four batons form a stable, rectangular frame adorned with budding leaves, signifying balance and structure. This card represents a foundation of support and a sense of accomplishment in one's endeavours.

Meaning:
The Four of Batons represents celebration, stability, and harmony. It marks a time to pause and appreciate achievements or milestones. This card often symbolises community, shared joy, and the fulfilment of goals.

In relationships, it indicates harmony, commitment, or joyful gatherings. Spiritually, it reflects alignment with your surroundings and a sense of belonging.

Keywords:
Celebration, harmony, stability, joy, milestones, unity, achievement, community, gratitude, fulfilment.

 

 

 

 

The Querent's Thoughts

Seven of Swords

Symbolism:
Seven swords are arranged in a slightly chaotic or uneven configuration, emphasising complexity and strategy. The design suggests themes of cunning, deception, and the need for careful planning.

Meaning:
The Seven of Swords represents strategy, deception, or avoiding confrontation. It suggests a need to act carefully, but warns against dishonesty or taking shortcuts. This card encourages cleverness but with integrity.

In relationships, it may indicate secrecy or mistrust. Spiritually, it suggests the importance of facing the truth rather than evading it.

Keywords:
Strategy, cunning, deception, avoidance, stealth, dishonesty, planning, mistrust, cleverness, truth-seeking.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's Thoughts

Nine of Swords

Symbolism:
Nine swords are arranged densely, often creating an oppressive visual effect, with minimal decorative relief. The design symbolises anxiety, worry, and the weight of mental burdens, urging introspection for resolution.

Meaning:
The Nine of Swords symbolises worry, guilt, or anguish. It reflects a mind overwhelmed by fears or regrets, often magnified by isolation. This card urges you to confront your anxieties directly and seek perspective to regain peace.

In relationships, it can indicate stress or emotional distance caused by overthinking. Spiritually, it calls for releasing inner turmoil and cultivating self-compassion.

Keywords:
Anxiety, guilt, fear, regret, mental anguish, overthinking, isolation, nightmares, perspective, self-compassion.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Querent's Emotions

Deuce of Swords

Symbolism:
Two crossed swords create a balanced yet tense composition, often adorned with small floral elements to soften the imagery. The card suggests duality, decision-making, and the need to find equilibrium amidst opposing forces.

Meaning:
The Two of Swords represents a choice or dilemma requiring balance and thought. It suggests being caught between opposing forces or avoiding a decision. This card encourages you to confront the truth and rely on logic and intuition to find resolution.

In relationships, it highlights communication blockages or an emotional impasse. Spiritually, it urges you to find balance within opposing energies.

Keywords:
Indecision, stalemate, balance, choice, reflection, mental conflict, neutrality, avoidance, logic, resolution.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's Emotions

Knight of Cups

Symbolism:
The Cavalier of Cups is shown riding a steady horse, holding a cup as if offering or presenting it, symbolising emotional pursuit and romantic ideals. The card reflects themes of charm, devotion, and the quest for emotional or creative fulfilment.

Meaning:
The Knight of Cups represents romance, charm, and the pursuit of emotional or artistic goals. It suggests taking action based on intuition and feelings, but warns against overidealizing or being overly passive.

In relationships, it indicates a romantic approach or a deepening of emotional bonds. Spiritually, it highlights the importance of aligning your actions with your heart's desires.

Keywords:
Romance, charm, idealism, emotional pursuit, creativity, intuition, action, inspiration, deepening bonds, heartfelt journeys.

 

 

 

 

The Querent's External Stance

The High Priestess
(La Papesse)

Symbolism:
The High Priestess is shown seated, holding an open book, signifying hidden knowledge and mysteries. She is flanked by two pillars (sometimes black and white), representing duality and balance. Her veil hints at the separation between the conscious and subconscious. Her serene expression reflects her mastery of the inner world and her connection to divine intuition.

Meaning:
The High Priestess embodies mystery, wisdom, and the power of intuition. She encourages stillness and reflection, guiding you to trust your inner voice over external noise. This card often appears when something hidden needs to be uncovered, whether it's a secret, a truth, or a deeper understanding of oneself.

In relationships, the High Priestess may suggest emotional depth or hidden dynamics. Spiritually, she symbolises the gateway to higher knowledge, urging you to explore the realms of dreams and symbols to uncover your truth.

Keywords:
Intuition, mystery, inner wisdom, reflection, subconscious, hidden knowledge, spirituality, patience, introspection, stillness.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's External Stance

The Sun
(Le Soleil)

Symbolism:
The Sun shines brightly over two joyful children, symbolising innocence and vitality. A wall represents protection and growth. The radiant light of the sun signifies clarity, success, and the life force itself.

Meaning:
The Sun represents joy, success, and illumination. It heralds a period of clarity, achievement, and fulfilment. This card encourages positivity, optimism, and self-expression, reminding you to celebrate life's blessings.

In relationships, the Sun signifies warmth, harmony, and mutual happiness. Spiritually, it points to enlightenment and connection with divine light.

Keywords:
Joy, success, clarity, vitality, positivity, enlightenment, achievement, growth, warmth, celebration.

 

 

 

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