Relationship Spread #1

Relationship Spread #1

 

 

Difficulty: Easy

This tarot spread is easy to read, like a convenient chart. In this spread, court cards generally indicate actual people with the same characteristics. Knights (or corresponding princes, but not kings) and queens are meant to represent actual men and women in this tarot spread. Look for patterns in the cards as always.

Card #1 is the overall significator of the relationship. The two columns on either side of the significator characterise each individual's role in the relationship. The relationship does not have to be romantic. In fact, it could be a relationship between a person and a group, or even how two groups relate.

The top row, cards #7 & #2, is about the conscious thoughts of each person, or what they think about the relationship and likewise how they view their partner.

The middle row, cards #6 & #3, reveals the way each individual feels about the other. Emotional awareness corresponds to a person's unconscious thoughts that run deep, affecting a person in ways he or she is not fully aware of.

The bottom row, cards #5 & #4, represents the way each person behaves, in other words the stance taken regarding the relationship. The way a person acts may be genuine, but sometimes people are phony and manipulative, so it is best to weigh this card against the other person's cards to determine how they match up.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Your Relationship #1 Reading

  You   Other Person
Thought             
The Tower
(La Maison Dieu)
              
Six of Batons
Emotion             
Deuce of Cups
The Significator

Ten of Cups
            
Eight of Swords
External Stance             
Judgement
(Le Jugement)
              
Four of Coins

 

 

 

 

The Significator

Ten of Cups

Symbolism:
Ten cups create a vibrant, overflowing arrangement, often adorned with lush flowers or intricate patterns, radiating harmony and joy. The image conveys the pinnacle of emotional achievement, lasting happiness, and the fulfilment of familial or communal bonds.

Meaning:
The Ten of Cups represents ultimate emotional fulfilment, family harmony, and a deep sense of belonging. It is the pinnacle of emotional achievement, signifying lasting happiness, unconditional love, and shared joy.

In relationships, it reflects a profound and harmonious bond. Spiritually, it represents alignment with universal love and the interconnectedness of all things.

Keywords:
Happiness, fulfilment, harmony, family, love, community, connection, gratitude, abundance, shared joy, emotional success.

 

 

 

 

The Querent's Thoughts

The Tower
(La Maison Dieu)

Symbolism:
A tall tower struck by lightning collapses as figures fall from its heights, symbolising sudden upheaval. Balls and debris erupt from the structure, representing destruction and chaos. However, the lightning bolt signifies divine intervention, clearing away illusions and false foundations to reveal the truth.

Meaning:
The Tower represents sudden change, upheaval, and the collapse of false structures. While the experience may be shocking or painful, it paves the way for transformation and rebuilding. This card calls for resilience and the ability to embrace new beginnings born from chaos.

In relationships, it may signal a dramatic shift or revelation. Spiritually, it urges you to let go of false beliefs and align with authenticity.

Keywords:
Upheaval, change, chaos, destruction, revelation, transformation, truth, divine intervention, awakening, rebuilding.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's Thoughts

Six of Batons

Symbolism:
Six batons are arranged in a balanced and symmetrical configuration, with flourishing leaves representing triumph and vitality. This card evokes themes of victory, recognition, and the successful culmination of efforts.

Meaning:
The Six of Batons signifies victory, recognition, and public acknowledgment of achievements. It reflects success earned through effort and encourages confidence in your abilities. This card invites you to celebrate your accomplishments while remaining humble.

In relationships, it suggests mutual support and shared success. Spiritually, it symbolises alignment with your purpose and the rewards of perseverance.

Keywords:
Victory, success, recognition, confidence, triumph, achievement, support, accomplishment, honor, celebration.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Querent's Emotions

Deuce of Cups

Symbolism:
Two elegant cups face one another, often connected by floral motifs or a shared ornament, symbolising harmony and partnership. The balanced arrangement reflects unity, mutual understanding, and the joy of connection.

Meaning:
The Two of Cups symbolises partnerships, unity, and mutual respect. It highlights emotional and spiritual connections, often in the form of love, friendship, or collaboration. This card suggests balance and equality, emphasising the importance of giving and receiving in harmony.

In relationships, it signifies a deep bond, often romantic but not exclusively. Spiritually, it reflects the balance between inner and outer worlds or the union of opposing forces.

Keywords:
Union, partnership, love, harmony, balance, connection, mutual respect, cooperation, intimacy, equality.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's Emotions

Eight of Swords

Symbolism:
Eight swords form a restrictive and intricate pattern, evoking a sense of entrapment or limitation. The imagery reflects mental constraints, self-imposed boundaries, and the need for clarity to break free.

Meaning:
The Eight of Swords symbolises mental entrapment, self-doubt, or feeling stuck. It suggests that limitations are often self-imposed and can be overcome with clarity and courage. This card encourages you to reclaim your power and break free.

In relationships, it may reflect feelings of being trapped or misunderstood. Spiritually, it invites introspection to break free from limiting beliefs.

Keywords:
Restriction, self-doubt, entrapment, mental barriers, fear, powerlessness, clarity, courage, breaking free, introspection.

 

 

 

 

The Querent's External Stance

Judgement
(Le Jugement)

Symbolism:
An angel blows a trumpet as figures rise from coffins below, symbolising resurrection and awakening. The praying hands of the figures reflect surrender and acceptance. The bright light of the angel signifies divine calling and revelation, while the mountains in the background represent challenges overcome.

Meaning:
Judgement represents awakening, self-assessment, and rebirth. It signals a time to evaluate your past and make amends, preparing for a new chapter. This card often appears when you are called to align with your higher purpose and embrace transformation.

In relationships, it suggests healing, forgiveness, or a new beginning. Spiritually, it encourages connection with your true calling.

Keywords:
Awakening, transformation, rebirth, judgement, self-assessment, forgiveness, redemption, clarity, divine calling, renewal.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's External Stance

Four of Coins

Symbolism:
Four coins form a square or balanced arrangement, surrounded by minimal decorative elements, representing stability and security. The imagery suggests a strong foundation in material matters but cautions against rigidity or hoarding.

Meaning:
The Four of Coins symbolises security, stability, and material control, but also warns against hoarding or being overly protective of one's resources. While it can signify financial stability and successful accumulation of wealth, it also warns against becoming too attached to material things, leading to stagnation or fear of change.

In relationships, it suggests possessiveness or controlling behaviour. Spiritually, it calls for letting go of attachment to material possessions and finding balance in one's relationship with the material world.

Keywords:
Security, stability, control, possession, greed, materialism, hoarding, attachment, wealth, fear of loss.

 

 

 

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