Relationship Spread #1

Difficulty: Easy

This tarot spread is easy to read, like a convenient chart. In this spread, court cards generally indicate actual people with the same characteristics. Knights (or corresponding princes, but not kings) and queens are meant to represent actual men and women in this tarot spread. Look for patterns in the cards as always.

Card #1 is the overall significator of the relationship. The two columns on either side of the significator characterise each individual's role in the relationship. The relationship does not have to be romantic. In fact, it could be a relationship between a person and a group, or even how two groups relate.

The top row, cards #7 & #2, is about the conscious thoughts of each person, or what they think about the relationship and likewise how they view their partner.

The middle row, cards #6 & #3, reveals the way each individual feels about the other. Emotional awareness corresponds to a person's unconscious thoughts that run deep, affecting a person in ways he or she is not fully aware of.

The bottom row, cards #5 & #4, represents the way each person behaves, in other words the stance taken regarding the relationship. The way a person acts may be genuine, but sometimes people are phony and manipulative, so it is best to weigh this card against the other person's cards to determine how they match up.

Your Relationship #1 Reading

	You		Other Person
Thought	The Emperor (L'Empereur)		Six of Swords
Emotion	Death (La Mort)	The Significator Four of Cups	Nine of Swords
External Stance	Four of Swords		Seven of Swords

Symbolism:
Four cups form a stable square, often surrounded by simpler decorative elements, representing introspection and emotional stability. The symmetry suggests contemplation or a period of emotional stagnation, urging reflection.

Meaning:
The Four of Cups represents introspection, apathy, or dissatisfaction. It suggests a need to re-evaluate your emotional state and consider opportunities you may be ignoring. This card warns against closing yourself off due to disillusionment or complacency.

In relationships, it reflects emotional distance or the need to reconnect. Spiritually, it calls for mindfulness and gratitude to rediscover meaning and purpose.

Keywords:
Introspection, apathy, discontent, emotional re-evaluation, opportunity, mindfulness, detachment, dissatisfaction, contemplation, stagnation.

Symbolism:
The Emperor sits firmly on a throne adorned with symbols of strength and authority. His scepter and orb signify dominion over the material world, while his armour beneath the robes suggests readiness to defend his position. The rocky landscape at his feet symbolises stability and enduring power.

Meaning:
The Emperor represents structure, discipline, and the establishment of order. He embodies the qualities of leadership and protection, encouraging you to take charge of your circumstances with clarity and determination. This card often points to the need for planning, responsibility, and stability.

In relationships, the Emperor stresses respect, loyalty, and shared goals. Spiritually, he reminds you that boundaries and structure are essential for growth.

Keywords:
Authority, structure, discipline, stability, leadership, protection, responsibility, planning, boundaries, foundation.

Symbolism:
Six swords are symmetrically aligned, creating a sense of motion and balance, often softened by decorative flourishes. The card symbolises transition, progress, and moving away from difficulties toward calmer waters.

Meaning:
The Six of Swords represents transition, recovery, and moving away from difficulties. It signifies a journey—physical, emotional, or mental—toward calmer circumstances. This card encourages leaving behind what no longer serves you.

In relationships, it may indicate healing and moving on together or apart. Spiritually, it reflects the process of releasing burdens for personal growth.

Keywords:
Transition, recovery, moving on, healing, journey, progress, leaving difficulties, calm, relief, personal growth.

Symbolism:
A skeletal figure wielding a scythe moves through a barren landscape. Heads, hands, and flowers lie beneath the scythe, symbolising the inevitable end of all things. Despite its grim imagery, the card signifies renewal and the promise of rebirth.

Meaning:
Death represents transformation, endings, and the clearing away of the old to make space for the new. This card doesn't predict physical death but rather signifies a profound shift or transition. It invites you to release attachments and embrace the inevitability of change.

In relationships, Death can mark the end of a phase, whether through growth or closure. Spiritually, it emphasises rebirth, renewal, and the cycles of life.

Keywords:
Transformation, endings, rebirth, change, renewal, transition, letting go, closure, release, metamorphosis.

Symbolism:
Nine swords are arranged densely, often creating an oppressive visual effect, with minimal decorative relief. The design symbolises anxiety, worry, and the weight of mental burdens, urging introspection for resolution.

Meaning:
The Nine of Swords symbolises worry, guilt, or anguish. It reflects a mind overwhelmed by fears or regrets, often magnified by isolation. This card urges you to confront your anxieties directly and seek perspective to regain peace.

In relationships, it can indicate stress or emotional distance caused by overthinking. Spiritually, it calls for releasing inner turmoil and cultivating self-compassion.

Keywords:
Anxiety, guilt, fear, regret, mental anguish, overthinking, isolation, nightmares, perspective, self-compassion.

Symbolism:
Four swords are arranged symmetrically, often forming a square or cross-like pattern, symbolising rest and reflection. The imagery suggests a pause for recuperation, stability, and the need for introspection before moving forward.

Meaning:
The Four of Swords symbolises the need for rest, reflection, and recovery. It encourages taking time to recharge after challenges and to prepare for future endeavours. This card highlights the importance of mental clarity through stillness.

In relationships, it may indicate a pause or need for space. Spiritually, it represents retreating into contemplation to find peace.

Keywords:
Rest, recovery, introspection, stillness, clarity, pause, preparation, healing, reflection, mental rejuvenation.

Symbolism:
Seven swords are arranged in a slightly chaotic or uneven configuration, emphasising complexity and strategy. The design suggests themes of cunning, deception, and the need for careful planning.

Meaning:
The Seven of Swords represents strategy, deception, or avoiding confrontation. It suggests a need to act carefully, but warns against dishonesty or taking shortcuts. This card encourages cleverness but with integrity.

In relationships, it may indicate secrecy or mistrust. Spiritually, it suggests the importance of facing the truth rather than evading it.

Keywords:
Strategy, cunning, deception, avoidance, stealth, dishonesty, planning, mistrust, cleverness, truth-seeking.