Relationship Spread #1

Difficulty: Easy
This tarot spread is easy to read, like a convenient chart. In this spread, court cards generally indicate actual people with the same characteristics. Knights (or corresponding princes, but not kings) and queens are meant to represent actual men and women in this tarot spread. Look for patterns in the cards as always.
Card #1 is the overall significator of the relationship. The two columns on either side of the significator characterise each individual's role in the relationship. The relationship does not have to be romantic. In fact, it could be a relationship between a person and a group, or even how two groups relate.
The top row, cards #7 & #2, is about the conscious thoughts of each person, or what they think about the relationship and likewise how they view their partner.
The middle row, cards #6 & #3, reveals the way each individual feels about the other. Emotional awareness corresponds to a person's unconscious thoughts that run deep, affecting a person in ways he or she is not fully aware of.
The bottom row, cards #5 & #4, represents the way each person behaves, in other words the stance taken regarding the relationship. The way a person acts may be genuine, but sometimes people are phony and manipulative, so it is best to weigh this card against the other person's cards to determine how they match up.
Your Relationship #1 Reading
| You | Other Person | ||
| Thought | ![]() Seven of Cups |
![]() The Fool (Le Mat) |
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| Emotion | ![]() Four of Swords |
The Significator![]() Three of Cups |
![]() Nine of Batons |
| External Stance | ![]() The Emperor (L'Empereur) |
![]() Eight of Swords |
The Significator
Three of Cups
Symbolism:
Three cups are arranged in a triangular pattern, adorned with flowers or vines to evoke celebration and abundance. The image suggests themes of friendship, shared joy, and communal achievements.
Meaning:
The Three of Cups represents celebration, community, and shared joy. It suggests coming together with others to honour achievements or simply enjoy the present moment. This card encourages connection, gratitude, and the recognition of shared blessings.
In relationships, it reflects harmony and support within friendships or groups. Spiritually, it emphasises the importance of shared rituals and collective growth.
Keywords:
Celebration, community, joy, friendship, gratitude, support, connection, abundance, festivity, shared blessings.
The Querent's Thoughts
Seven of Cups
Symbolism:
Seven cups are arranged in an intricate and slightly asymmetrical pattern, surrounded by flourishing floral designs, hinting at dreams and desires. The card represents choices, imagination, and the allure of possibilities, some of which may be illusory.
Meaning:
The Seven of Cups represents imagination, options, and the challenge of discerning between reality and illusion. It signifies the allure of possibilities and warns against becoming overwhelmed by fantasies or unrealistic expectations.
In relationships, it suggests idealisation or confusion about choices. Spiritually, it reflects the need to ground your aspirations in practicality while staying connected to your vision.
Keywords:
Imagination, options, illusion, temptation, choice, fantasy, dreams, discernment, creativity, vision.
The Other Person's Thoughts
The Fool
(Le Mat)
Symbolism:
A carefree figure, often carrying a small bag or bundle, walks toward the unknown with a dog nipping at their heels, symbolising the risks of new beginnings. Their gaze is upward, indicating innocence and trust, while their attire features bright, mismatched colours, emphasising their unconventional nature.
Meaning:
The Fool represents new beginnings, spontaneity, and the embrace of life's uncertainties. This card encourages stepping into the unknown with optimism and trust, even if the path ahead seems uncertain or risky. It speaks to freedom, potential, and the ability to approach life with a beginner's mind.
In relationships, the Fool may suggest a fresh start or a need for openness and vulnerability. Spiritually, it represents a journey of self-discovery and the willingness to trust the universe.
Keywords:
New beginnings, spontaneity, innocence, freedom, potential, adventure, risk, trust, exploration, unconventionality.
The Querent's Emotions
Four of Swords
Symbolism:
Four swords are arranged symmetrically, often forming a square or cross-like pattern, symbolising rest and reflection. The imagery suggests a pause for recuperation, stability, and the need for introspection before moving forward.
Meaning:
The Four of Swords symbolises the need for rest, reflection, and recovery. It encourages taking time to recharge after challenges and to prepare for future endeavours. This card highlights the importance of mental clarity through stillness.
In relationships, it may indicate a pause or need for space. Spiritually, it represents retreating into contemplation to find peace.
Keywords:
Rest, recovery, introspection, stillness, clarity, pause, preparation, healing, reflection, mental rejuvenation.
The Other Person's Emotions
Nine of Batons
Symbolism:
Nine batons are intricately arranged, with leaves flourishing despite their dense configuration, reflecting endurance and protection. The design suggests a moment of pause before completion, highlighting strength and resilience.
Meaning:
The Nine of Batons represents perseverance, resilience, and the ability to endure despite setbacks. It reflects a period of testing and the need to protect what you've built. This card encourages vigilance and inner strength, reminding you that the final stretch of a challenge often feels the most difficult.
In relationships, it suggests enduring hardships together or remaining cautious. Spiritually, it calls for faith in your ability to withstand trials.
Keywords:
Perseverance, resilience, endurance, defence, vigilance, struggle, inner strength, caution, determination, resolve.
The Querent's External Stance
The Emperor
(L'Empereur)
Symbolism:
The Emperor sits firmly on a throne adorned with symbols of strength and authority. His scepter and orb signify dominion over the material world, while his armour beneath the robes suggests readiness to defend his position. The rocky landscape at his feet symbolises stability and enduring power.
Meaning:
The Emperor represents structure, discipline, and the establishment of order. He embodies the qualities of leadership and protection, encouraging you to take charge of your circumstances with clarity and determination. This card often points to the need for planning, responsibility, and stability.
In relationships, the Emperor stresses respect, loyalty, and shared goals. Spiritually, he reminds you that boundaries and structure are essential for growth.
Keywords:
Authority, structure, discipline, stability, leadership, protection, responsibility, planning, boundaries, foundation.
The Other Person's External Stance
Eight of Swords
Symbolism:
Eight swords form a restrictive and intricate pattern, evoking a sense of entrapment or limitation. The imagery reflects mental constraints, self-imposed boundaries, and the need for clarity to break free.
Meaning:
The Eight of Swords symbolises mental entrapment, self-doubt, or feeling stuck. It suggests that limitations are often self-imposed and can be overcome with clarity and courage. This card encourages you to reclaim your power and break free.
In relationships, it may reflect feelings of being trapped or misunderstood. Spiritually, it invites introspection to break free from limiting beliefs.
Keywords:
Restriction, self-doubt, entrapment, mental barriers, fear, powerlessness, clarity, courage, breaking free, introspection.
