Relationship Spread #1

Relationship Spread #1

 

 

Difficulty: Easy

This tarot spread is easy to read, like a convenient chart. In this spread, court cards generally indicate actual people with the same characteristics. Knights (or corresponding princes, but not kings) and queens are meant to represent actual men and women in this tarot spread. Look for patterns in the cards as always.

Card #1 is the overall significator of the relationship. The two columns on either side of the significator characterise each individual's role in the relationship. The relationship does not have to be romantic. In fact, it could be a relationship between a person and a group, or even how two groups relate.

The top row, cards #7 & #2, is about the conscious thoughts of each person, or what they think about the relationship and likewise how they view their partner.

The middle row, cards #6 & #3, reveals the way each individual feels about the other. Emotional awareness corresponds to a person's unconscious thoughts that run deep, affecting a person in ways he or she is not fully aware of.

The bottom row, cards #5 & #4, represents the way each person behaves, in other words the stance taken regarding the relationship. The way a person acts may be genuine, but sometimes people are phony and manipulative, so it is best to weigh this card against the other person's cards to determine how they match up.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Your Relationship #1 Reading

  You   Other Person
Thought             
The Hanged Man
(Le Pendu)
              
The Fool
(Le Mat)
Emotion             
Death
(La Mort)
The Significator

King of Coins
            
Eight of Swords
External Stance             
The Devil
(Le Diable)
              
The Moon
(La Lune)

 

 

 

 

The Significator

King of Coins

Symbolism:
The Roy of Coins is a regal figure seated on a throne, holding a coin casually, conveying wealth and stability. This card embodies mastery over material resources, leadership in financial matters, and the wisdom to build and sustain long-term success.

Meaning:
The King of Coins represents mastery over the material world. He embodies financial security, success, and the ability to manage wealth and resources effectively. This card signifies achievement and stability, as well as the wisdom that comes with long-term success.

In relationships, it suggests a reliable, prosperous partner who offers security and stability. Spiritually, it reflects the mastery of the material world and the ability to use wealth for the benefit of both oneself and others.

Keywords:
Mastery, wealth, financial security, success, stability, resources, prosperity, achievement, leadership, responsibility.

 

 

 

 

The Querent's Thoughts

The Hanged Man
(Le Pendu)

Symbolism:
The Hanged Man is shown suspended upside-down by one foot from a live tree, with his free leg bent to form a cross-like shape. His serene expression suggests surrender rather than distress. This represents enlightenment gained through sacrifice or altered perspective. The tree may symbolise the axis mundi, a bridge between worlds.

Meaning:
The Hanged Man symbolises surrender, letting go, and viewing situations from a different perspective. It suggests a pause or suspension of action, encouraging reflection and patience. This card often appears when you need to relinquish control or embrace sacrifice to gain deeper understanding.

In relationships, it can signal a need for a fresh outlook or willingness to adapt. Spiritually, it points to awakening through non-resistance and the acceptance of higher truths.

Keywords:
Surrender, perspective, patience, sacrifice, reflection, letting go, enlightenment, suspension, adaptation, non-resistance.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's Thoughts

The Fool
(Le Mat)

Symbolism:
A carefree figure, often carrying a small bag or bundle, walks toward the unknown with a dog nipping at their heels, symbolising the risks of new beginnings. Their gaze is upward, indicating innocence and trust, while their attire features bright, mismatched colours, emphasising their unconventional nature.

Meaning:
The Fool represents new beginnings, spontaneity, and the embrace of life's uncertainties. This card encourages stepping into the unknown with optimism and trust, even if the path ahead seems uncertain or risky. It speaks to freedom, potential, and the ability to approach life with a beginner's mind.

In relationships, the Fool may suggest a fresh start or a need for openness and vulnerability. Spiritually, it represents a journey of self-discovery and the willingness to trust the universe.

Keywords:
New beginnings, spontaneity, innocence, freedom, potential, adventure, risk, trust, exploration, unconventionality.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Querent's Emotions

Death
(La Mort)

Symbolism:
A skeletal figure wielding a scythe moves through a barren landscape. Heads, hands, and flowers lie beneath the scythe, symbolising the inevitable end of all things. Despite its grim imagery, the card signifies renewal and the promise of rebirth.

Meaning:
Death represents transformation, endings, and the clearing away of the old to make space for the new. This card doesn't predict physical death but rather signifies a profound shift or transition. It invites you to release attachments and embrace the inevitability of change.

In relationships, Death can mark the end of a phase, whether through growth or closure. Spiritually, it emphasises rebirth, renewal, and the cycles of life.

Keywords:
Transformation, endings, rebirth, change, renewal, transition, letting go, closure, release, metamorphosis.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's Emotions

Eight of Swords

Symbolism:
Eight swords form a restrictive and intricate pattern, evoking a sense of entrapment or limitation. The imagery reflects mental constraints, self-imposed boundaries, and the need for clarity to break free.

Meaning:
The Eight of Swords symbolises mental entrapment, self-doubt, or feeling stuck. It suggests that limitations are often self-imposed and can be overcome with clarity and courage. This card encourages you to reclaim your power and break free.

In relationships, it may reflect feelings of being trapped or misunderstood. Spiritually, it invites introspection to break free from limiting beliefs.

Keywords:
Restriction, self-doubt, entrapment, mental barriers, fear, powerlessness, clarity, courage, breaking free, introspection.

 

 

 

 

The Querent's External Stance

The Devil
(Le Diable)

Symbolism:
The Devil is portrayed as a horned figure with two chained human figures below, representing bondage to materialism or desires. The chains are loose, suggesting self-imposed limitations. Their animalistic features symbolise the materialism and polarity of nature.

Meaning:
The Devil represents temptation, materialism, and the shadow side of human nature. It highlights unhealthy attachments, addictions, or fears that may be holding you back. This card calls for awareness and the courage to break free from self-imposed limitations.

In relationships, it warns of codependency or power imbalances. Spiritually, the Devil challenges you to confront and integrate your shadow self.

Keywords:
Temptation, bondage, materialism, addiction, fear, control, power, shadow self, self-awareness, liberation.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's External Stance

The Moon
(La Lune)

Symbolism:
The Moon hangs high in the sky, casting a dim, mysterious light over a landscape. A dog and a wolf howl at the moon, representing instincts and the untamed subconscious. A pool sits between two towers, suggesting the unknown. A crayfish crawls out of it, symbolising hidden emotions emerging.

Meaning:
The Moon represents intuition, mystery, and the subconscious. It suggests a time of uncertainty where not everything is as it seems. This card invites you to trust your instincts and explore hidden depths. It also warns against illusion or confusion, urging clarity.

In relationships, it can indicate emotional complexity or hidden dynamics. Spiritually, it calls for embracing intuition and the mysteries of the psyche.

Keywords:
Intuition, mystery, subconscious, illusion, uncertainty, emotions, dreams, instincts, exploration, hidden truths.

 

 

 

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