Relationship Spread #1

Relationship Spread #1

 

 

Difficulty: Easy

This tarot spread is easy to read, like a convenient chart. In this spread, court cards generally indicate actual people with the same characteristics. Knights (or corresponding princes, but not kings) and queens are meant to represent actual men and women in this tarot spread. Look for patterns in the cards as always.

Card #1 is the overall significator of the relationship. The two columns on either side of the significator characterise each individual's role in the relationship. The relationship does not have to be romantic. In fact, it could be a relationship between a person and a group, or even how two groups relate.

The top row, cards #7 & #2, is about the conscious thoughts of each person, or what they think about the relationship and likewise how they view their partner.

The middle row, cards #6 & #3, reveals the way each individual feels about the other. Emotional awareness corresponds to a person's unconscious thoughts that run deep, affecting a person in ways he or she is not fully aware of.

The bottom row, cards #5 & #4, represents the way each person behaves, in other words the stance taken regarding the relationship. The way a person acts may be genuine, but sometimes people are phony and manipulative, so it is best to weigh this card against the other person's cards to determine how they match up.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Your Relationship #1 Reading

  You   Other Person
Thought             
Eight of Batons
              
Queen of Batons
Emotion             
The Hierophant
(Le Pape)
The Significator

Three of Cups
            
Ace of Cups
External Stance             
Six of Swords
              
The Lovers
(L'Amoureux)

 

 

 

 

The Significator

Three of Cups

Symbolism:
Three cups are arranged in a triangular pattern, adorned with flowers or vines to evoke celebration and abundance. The image suggests themes of friendship, shared joy, and communal achievements.

Meaning:
The Three of Cups represents celebration, community, and shared joy. It suggests coming together with others to honour achievements or simply enjoy the present moment. This card encourages connection, gratitude, and the recognition of shared blessings.

In relationships, it reflects harmony and support within friendships or groups. Spiritually, it emphasises the importance of shared rituals and collective growth.

Keywords:
Celebration, community, joy, friendship, gratitude, support, connection, abundance, festivity, shared blessings.

 

 

 

 

The Querent's Thoughts

Eight of Batons

Symbolism:
Eight batons form a dynamic and structured alignment, their leafy growth symbolising swift movement and momentum. This card reflects rapid progress, communication, and decisive action.

Meaning:
The Eight of Batons symbolises swift movement, progress, and the culmination of efforts. It often signals that events are accelerating and reaching a conclusion. This card encourages focus and decisiveness, as opportunities may arise suddenly and require quick action.

In relationships, it suggests rapid developments or communication. Spiritually, it reflects clarity and momentum toward your purpose.

Keywords:
Speed, movement, progress, acceleration, momentum, action, opportunity, focus, resolution, decisiveness.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's Thoughts

Queen of Batons

Symbolism:
The Rayne of Batons sits gracefully on her throne, holding a baton with confidence, surrounded by symbols of growth and vitality. She embodies creativity, leadership, and the nurturing of ideas, projects, or ambitions with warmth and determination.

Meaning:
The Queen of Batons represents charisma, creativity, and leadership. She embodies warmth, confidence, and the ability to inspire others through her vision and energy. This card encourages self-expression and trust in your abilities to bring ideas to life.

In relationships, it reflects loyalty, passion, and mutual inspiration. Spiritually, it symbolises alignment with your inner fire and intuition.

Keywords:
Charisma, creativity, leadership, passion, warmth, confidence, self-expression, inspiration, vitality, intuition.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Querent's Emotions

The Hierophant
(Le Pape)

Symbolism:
The Hierophant sits between two pillars, with his hand raised in blessing and two followers kneeling before him. He holds a triple cross sceptre, symbolising his spiritual authority. The keys at his feet represent access to higher wisdom and the mysteries of life. His robe and crown emphasise tradition and institutional power.

Meaning:
The Hierophant symbolises tradition, guidance, and spiritual learning. He represents the wisdom passed down through teachings, rituals, and institutions. This card may indicate seeking guidance from a mentor, joining a community, or adhering to established norms. It also encourages you to examine your beliefs and values to ensure they align with your inner truth.

In relationships, the Hierophant suggests shared values and a strong moral foundation. Spiritually, he urges you to connect with divine teachings and the collective wisdom of humanity.

Keywords:
Tradition, guidance, spiritual learning, mentorship, wisdom, community, rituals, institutions, moral alignment, shared values.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's Emotions

Ace of Cups

Symbolism:
A single, ornate cup stands at the centre, often crowned with a flowing fountain or delicate embellishments, symbolising abundance and divine inspiration. The card radiates themes of emotional renewal, spiritual connection, and the beginning of fulfilling relationships.

Meaning:
The Ace of Cups represents emotional abundance, new beginnings in relationships, and the outpouring of love and compassion. It signals the birth of deep emotional connections, healing, and a time to open your heart to joy and creativity. This card encourages you to embrace vulnerability and allow emotions to flow freely.

In relationships, it signifies profound intimacy and love. Spiritually, it symbolises divine inspiration and the awakening of the soul to universal love.

Keywords:
Love, new beginnings, emotional abundance, compassion, intimacy, healing, joy, vulnerability, creativity, spiritual awakening.

 

 

 

 

The Querent's External Stance

Six of Swords

Symbolism:
Six swords are symmetrically aligned, creating a sense of motion and balance, often softened by decorative flourishes. The card symbolises transition, progress, and moving away from difficulties toward calmer waters.

Meaning:
The Six of Swords represents transition, recovery, and moving away from difficulties. It signifies a journey—physical, emotional, or mental—toward calmer circumstances. This card encourages leaving behind what no longer serves you.

In relationships, it may indicate healing and moving on together or apart. Spiritually, it reflects the process of releasing burdens for personal growth.

Keywords:
Transition, recovery, moving on, healing, journey, progress, leaving difficulties, calm, relief, personal growth.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's External Stance

The Lovers
(L'Amoureux)

Symbolism:
The Lovers card depicts a man standing between two women, with Cupid above aiming an arrow. The scene suggests a choice or a union, with the women often representing opposing influences. In some interpretations, the figures are Adam and Eve, symbolising the duality of earthly and spiritual love.

Meaning:
The Lovers represent connection, harmony, and the power of choice. This card speaks to deep relationships, whether romantic or platonic, and the alignment of values and goals. However, it also highlights the necessity of making meaningful decisions, often at a crossroads where the heart and mind must collaborate.

In relationships, the Lovers symbolise love, commitment, and mutual respect. Spiritually, they encourage balancing the dualities within yourself and finding unity in diversity.

Keywords:
Love, harmony, connection, choice, duality, relationships, unity, attraction, alignment, crossroads.

 

 

 

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