Relationship Spread #1
Difficulty: Easy
This tarot spread is easy to read, like a convenient chart. In this spread, court cards generally indicate actual people with the same characteristics. Knights (or corresponding princes, but not kings) and queens are meant to represent actual men and women in this tarot spread. Look for patterns in the cards as always.
Card #1 is the overall significator of the relationship. The two columns on either side of the significator characterise each individual's role in the relationship. The relationship does not have to be romantic. In fact, it could be a relationship between a person and a group, or even how two groups relate.
The top row, cards #7 & #2, is about the conscious thoughts of each person, or what they think about the relationship and likewise how they view their partner.
The middle row, cards #6 & #3, reveals the way each individual feels about the other. Emotional awareness corresponds to a person's unconscious thoughts that run deep, affecting a person in ways he or she is not fully aware of.
The bottom row, cards #5 & #4, represents the way each person behaves, in other words the stance taken regarding the relationship. The way a person acts may be genuine, but sometimes people are phony and manipulative, so it is best to weigh this card against the other person's cards to determine how they match up.
Your Relationship #1 Reading
You | Other Person | ||
Thought | ![]() Strength (La Force) |
![]() Ace of Cups |
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Emotion | ![]() Eight of Cups |
The Significator![]() The World (Le Monde) |
![]() The Emperor (L'Empereur) |
External Stance | ![]() Ten of Cups |
![]() Deuce of Coins |

The Significator
The World
(Le Monde)
Symbolism:
Symbolism:
A dancing figure surrounded by a wreath occupies the center, representing completion and harmony. The four corners of the card feature symbols of the elements or the four cherubs, signifying unity. The figure holds wands or batons, symbolising mastery and balance.
Meaning:
The World signifies completion, fulfilment, and wholeness. It represents the successful culmination of a journey and the integration of all aspects of your life. This card invites you to celebrate your achievements while embracing the interconnectedness of existence. It heralds a time of balance, unity, and alignment with your purpose. The World also indicates readiness for new adventures following the conclusion of one phase.
In relationships, it signifies harmony and mutual understanding. Spiritually, it reflects enlightenment and integration with the cosmos.
Keywords:
Completion, fulfilment, harmony, unity, wholeness, success, integration, achievement, enlightenment, new beginnings.

The Querent's Thoughts
Strength
(La Force)
Symbolism:
A serene figure, often a woman, gently tames a lion by holding its jaws open. Her calm demeanour contrasts with the lion's ferocity, symbolising mastery of inner strength. Above her head, the infinity symbol signifies limitless power and spiritual resilience. The image evokes vitality and harmony with nature.
Meaning:
Strength represents courage, compassion, and the balance between force and gentleness. This card embodies inner fortitude, suggesting that true power comes from patience, understanding, and self-discipline rather than brute force. It often appears in situations requiring emotional resilience or the taming of one's impulses.
In relationships, it signifies the power of kindness and understanding. Spiritually, Strength encourages connecting with your inner courage and finding peace amidst challenges.
Keywords:
Inner strength, courage, patience, compassion, resilience, self-discipline, confidence, harmony, emotional balance, fortitude.

The Other Person's Thoughts
Ace of Cups
Symbolism:
A single, ornate cup stands at the centre, often crowned with a flowing fountain or delicate embellishments, symbolising abundance and divine inspiration. The card radiates themes of emotional renewal, spiritual connection, and the beginning of fulfilling relationships.
Meaning:
The Ace of Cups represents emotional abundance, new beginnings in relationships, and the outpouring of love and compassion. It signals the birth of deep emotional connections, healing, and a time to open your heart to joy and creativity. This card encourages you to embrace vulnerability and allow emotions to flow freely.
In relationships, it signifies profound intimacy and love. Spiritually, it symbolises divine inspiration and the awakening of the soul to universal love.
Keywords:
Love, new beginnings, emotional abundance, compassion, intimacy, healing, joy, vulnerability, creativity, spiritual awakening.

The Querent's Emotions
Eight of Cups
Symbolism:
Eight cups form a balanced yet slightly sparse arrangement, with minimal embellishments suggesting a turning point. This card reflects themes of emotional detachment, moving on, and seeking deeper fulfilment.
Meaning:
The Eight of Cups represents leaving behind something once fulfilling but no longer serving your emotional or spiritual growth. It signifies a turning point—a time to seek deeper meaning and embark on a journey of self-discovery. This card encourages courage in releasing attachments and pursuing higher aspirations.
In relationships, it may indicate the need to move on from stagnation or an unsatisfying situation. Spiritually, it represents a quest for truth and enlightenment.
Keywords:
Departure, self-discovery, transition, letting go, seeking truth, emotional growth, solitude, moving on, courage, higher aspirations.

The Other Person's Emotions
The Emperor
(L'Empereur)
Symbolism:
The Emperor sits firmly on a throne adorned with symbols of strength and authority. His scepter and orb signify dominion over the material world, while his armour beneath the robes suggests readiness to defend his position. The rocky landscape at his feet symbolises stability and enduring power.
Meaning:
The Emperor represents structure, discipline, and the establishment of order. He embodies the qualities of leadership and protection, encouraging you to take charge of your circumstances with clarity and determination. This card often points to the need for planning, responsibility, and stability.
In relationships, the Emperor stresses respect, loyalty, and shared goals. Spiritually, he reminds you that boundaries and structure are essential for growth.
Keywords:
Authority, structure, discipline, stability, leadership, protection, responsibility, planning, boundaries, foundation.

The Querent's External Stance
Ten of Cups
Symbolism:
Ten cups create a vibrant, overflowing arrangement, often adorned with lush flowers or intricate patterns, radiating harmony and joy. The image conveys the pinnacle of emotional achievement, lasting happiness, and the fulfilment of familial or communal bonds.
Meaning:
The Ten of Cups represents ultimate emotional fulfilment, family harmony, and a deep sense of belonging. It is the pinnacle of emotional achievement, signifying lasting happiness, unconditional love, and shared joy.
In relationships, it reflects a profound and harmonious bond. Spiritually, it represents alignment with universal love and the interconnectedness of all things.
Keywords:
Happiness, fulfilment, harmony, family, love, community, connection, gratitude, abundance, shared joy, emotional success.

The Other Person's External Stance
Deuce of Coins
Symbolism:
Two coins are positioned symmetrically, often linked by a ribbon or floral decoration, suggesting balance and flow. The design reflects themes of adaptability, resource management, and the harmonious juggling of priorities.
Meaning:
The Two of Coins symbolises balance and adaptability. It speaks to juggling multiple priorities or resources, and the ability to maintain equilibrium in a time of change. This card encourages flexibility in managing material or financial matters, as well as maintaining a healthy balance between work and personal life.
In relationships, it may indicate the need for balance between personal and professional responsibilities. Spiritually, it represents the flow of energy and learning how to maintain harmony amid life's challenges.
Keywords:
Balance, adaptability, flexibility, duality, priorities, change, harmony, juggling, management, resourcefulness.