Relationship Spread #1

Relationship Spread #1

 

 

Difficulty: Easy

This tarot spread is easy to read, like a convenient chart. In this spread, court cards generally indicate actual people with the same characteristics. Knights (or corresponding princes, but not kings) and queens are meant to represent actual men and women in this tarot spread. Look for patterns in the cards as always.

Card #1 is the overall significator of the relationship. The two columns on either side of the significator characterise each individual's role in the relationship. The relationship does not have to be romantic. In fact, it could be a relationship between a person and a group, or even how two groups relate.

The top row, cards #7 & #2, is about the conscious thoughts of each person, or what they think about the relationship and likewise how they view their partner.

The middle row, cards #6 & #3, reveals the way each individual feels about the other. Emotional awareness corresponds to a person's unconscious thoughts that run deep, affecting a person in ways he or she is not fully aware of.

The bottom row, cards #5 & #4, represents the way each person behaves, in other words the stance taken regarding the relationship. The way a person acts may be genuine, but sometimes people are phony and manipulative, so it is best to weigh this card against the other person's cards to determine how they match up.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Your Relationship #1 Reading

  You   Other Person
Thought             
Five of Swords
              
Six of Swords
Emotion             
The Devil
(Le Diable)
The Significator

Three of Swords
            
Five of Batons
External Stance             
Six of Batons
              
Queen of Swords

 

 

 

 

The Significator

Three of Swords

Symbolism:
Three swords intersect, forming a dynamic triangular arrangement, often accompanied by minimal decoration. This design represents conflict, heartache, or the challenging growth that follows emotional or mental pain.

Meaning:
The Three of Swords signifies heartache, betrayal, or grief. It is a card of emotional pain but also serves as a reminder of the healing and growth that follow. This card encourages you to confront and process your pain to move forward.

In relationships, it reflects loss, separation, or betrayal. Spiritually, it emphasises the transformative power of overcoming emotional trials.

Keywords:
Heartbreak, sorrow, betrayal, grief, emotional pain, healing, loss, separation, growth, transformation.

 

 

 

 

The Querent's Thoughts

Five of Swords

Symbolism:
Five swords create a more irregular arrangement, their sharp points emphasising conflict or struggle. The design reflects themes of tension, competition, and the potential for discord or loss.

Meaning:
The Five of Swords represents conflict, betrayal, or hollow victories. It suggests a situation where winning comes at the expense of others or personal values. This card warns against manipulation or dishonourable actions and invites reflection on ethical choices.

In relationships, it may indicate arguments or feelings of alienation. Spiritually, it highlights the importance of integrity in the face of challenges.

Keywords:
Conflict, betrayal, hollow victory, loss, manipulation, moral ambiguity, dishonour, reflection, ethical choices, tension.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's Thoughts

Six of Swords

Symbolism:
Six swords are symmetrically aligned, creating a sense of motion and balance, often softened by decorative flourishes. The card symbolises transition, progress, and moving away from difficulties toward calmer waters.

Meaning:
The Six of Swords represents transition, recovery, and moving away from difficulties. It signifies a journey—physical, emotional, or mental—toward calmer circumstances. This card encourages leaving behind what no longer serves you.

In relationships, it may indicate healing and moving on together or apart. Spiritually, it reflects the process of releasing burdens for personal growth.

Keywords:
Transition, recovery, moving on, healing, journey, progress, leaving difficulties, calm, relief, personal growth.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Querent's Emotions

The Devil
(Le Diable)

Symbolism:
The Devil is portrayed as a horned figure with two chained human figures below, representing bondage to materialism or desires. The chains are loose, suggesting self-imposed limitations. Their animalistic features symbolise the materialism and polarity of nature.

Meaning:
The Devil represents temptation, materialism, and the shadow side of human nature. It highlights unhealthy attachments, addictions, or fears that may be holding you back. This card calls for awareness and the courage to break free from self-imposed limitations.

In relationships, it warns of codependency or power imbalances. Spiritually, the Devil challenges you to confront and integrate your shadow self.

Keywords:
Temptation, bondage, materialism, addiction, fear, control, power, shadow self, self-awareness, liberation.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's Emotions

Five of Batons

Symbolism:
Five batons cross in a dynamic pattern, with leaves sprouting at their junctions, reflecting energy and complexity. The card hints at challenges, competition, or creative conflict that can lead to growth.

Meaning:
The Five of Batons represents conflict, competition, or the struggle for dominance. It may signify challenges, but also the opportunity for growth through constructive tension. This card encourages collaboration and finding productive ways to resolve disputes.

In relationships, it can point to disagreements or the need for compromise. Spiritually, it reflects inner conflict or the process of refining your will.

Keywords:
Conflict, competition, struggle, tension, challenge, collaboration, rivalry, resolution, growth, perseverance.

 

 

 

 

The Querent's External Stance

Six of Batons

Symbolism:
Six batons are arranged in a balanced and symmetrical configuration, with flourishing leaves representing triumph and vitality. This card evokes themes of victory, recognition, and the successful culmination of efforts.

Meaning:
The Six of Batons signifies victory, recognition, and public acknowledgment of achievements. It reflects success earned through effort and encourages confidence in your abilities. This card invites you to celebrate your accomplishments while remaining humble.

In relationships, it suggests mutual support and shared success. Spiritually, it symbolises alignment with your purpose and the rewards of perseverance.

Keywords:
Victory, success, recognition, confidence, triumph, achievement, support, accomplishment, honor, celebration.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's External Stance

Queen of Swords

Symbolism:
The Rayne of Swords is seated regally, holding a sword upright in one hand, often forward with an air of clarity and focus. The card symbolises wisdom, discernment, and the ability to make fair yet firm decisions based on logic and truth.

Meaning:
The Queen of Swords embodies intellect, honesty, and independence. She advises clear communication and setting boundaries. This card encourages blending compassion with logic, and facing situations with maturity and truth.

In relationships, it reflects fairness and emotional clarity. Spiritually, it represents wisdom gained through life's challenges.

Keywords:
Wisdom, clarity, independence, honesty, discernment, boundaries, intellect, maturity, truth, fairness.