Relationship Spread #1

Relationship Spread #1

 

 

Difficulty: Easy

This tarot spread is easy to read, like a convenient chart. In this spread, court cards generally indicate actual people with the same characteristics. Knights (or corresponding princes, but not kings) and queens are meant to represent actual men and women in this tarot spread. Look for patterns in the cards as always.

Card #1 is the overall significator of the relationship. The two columns on either side of the significator characterise each individual's role in the relationship. The relationship does not have to be romantic. In fact, it could be a relationship between a person and a group, or even how two groups relate.

The top row, cards #7 & #2, is about the conscious thoughts of each person, or what they think about the relationship and likewise how they view their partner.

The middle row, cards #6 & #3, reveals the way each individual feels about the other. Emotional awareness corresponds to a person's unconscious thoughts that run deep, affecting a person in ways he or she is not fully aware of.

The bottom row, cards #5 & #4, represents the way each person behaves, in other words the stance taken regarding the relationship. The way a person acts may be genuine, but sometimes people are phony and manipulative, so it is best to weigh this card against the other person's cards to determine how they match up.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Your Relationship #1 Reading

  You   Other Person
Thought             
Two of Pentagrams
              
King of Cups
Emotion             
Ten of Swords
The Significator

Four of Pentagrams
            
Five of Cups
External Stance             
XVIII. The Moon
              
XX. Judgement

 

 

 

 

The Significator

Four of Pentagrams

Reversed
Symbolism:
A beautiful female vampire sits calmly, working her magic during the witching hour. She holds a pentagram close to her chest, representing control and possession over her material world. Her aura suggests a deep connection to both wealth and personal power.

Meaning:
The Four of Pentagrams signifies possessiveness, control, and the need to protect what has been earned. It speaks to holding onto resources, whether material or emotional, and the desire for stability and security. While this card suggests financial or emotional strength, it may also point to an unhealthy attachment to these possessions.

Reversed, it highlights the dangers of obsession, hoarding, and the fear of losing what you have. It warns against stubbornness, emotional repression, and excessive materialism.

Keywords:
Reversed: Obsession, hoarding, fear, repression, wastefulness.

 

 

 

 

The Querent's Thoughts

Two of Pentagrams

Symbolism:
A young female vampire holds two pentagrams in her hands while seated in her dungeon. She appears to be balancing both objects, a representation of adaptability and change. The setting suggests a careful juggling of duties, with an eye on the future and a mind on the present.

Meaning:
The Two of Pentagrams is a card of adaptability, change, and managing multiple responsibilities. It suggests that you may be juggling different aspects of your life—finances, work, relationships—and must find balance to avoid becoming overwhelmed. It invites flexibility and encourages you to embrace change rather than resist it.

Keywords:
Upright: Balance, adaptability, change, flexibility, resourcefulness.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's Thoughts

King of Cups

Reversed
Symbolism:
Seated upon his throne, the King clasps a full chalice in hand. The King embodies emotional mastery, wisdom, and balance, symbolizing the ability to rule over emotions and guide others with compassion.

Meaning:
The King of Cups represents emotional maturity, control, and wisdom. He is a master of his feelings and uses his emotional intelligence to guide others. This card signifies someone who is emotionally stable, compassionate, and deeply understanding. The King offers counsel, support, and emotional protection to others and is often a symbol of balance in relationships and emotional wellbeing.

Reversed, the King of Cups can signify emotional dishonesty, manipulation, or a lack of self-control. It points to someone who uses emotions to manipulate others, or it may indicate emotional repression or being emotionally unavailable.

Keywords:
Reversed: Emotional dishonesty, manipulation, emotional repression, instability.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Querent's Emotions

Ten of Swords

Symbolism:
A male figure lies lifeless, his body pierced by ten swords. The brutality of the scene mirrors the infamous murder of the Black Dahlia, evoking themes of ultimate betrayal and victimization. Blood pools beneath him, symbolizing the depth of his suffering and the irreversible nature of the event.

Meaning:
The Ten of Swords represents total defeat, betrayal, and hopelessness. It signifies the end of a cycle or the culmination of pain, where there is no further descent. Despite its grim nature, the card also holds the promise of new beginnings, as the worst has already passed.

Keywords:
Upright: Betrayal, victimization, despair, emotional devastation, endings, hopelessness.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's Emotions

Five of Cups

Reversed
Symbolism:
Five toppled cups form a pentagram, with something undiscernible at the center. The destruction and loss are apparent, yet the hidden element suggests that something valuable might still remain.

Meaning:
The Five of Cups represents loss, grief, and emotional upset. It suggests the need to process and mourn a loss, be it personal or emotional. This card encourages you to acknowledge your sorrow while being open to healing. It is also a reminder to focus not just on what has been lost but on what remains.

Reversed, it indicates recovery, the return of what was lost, or the resolution of past grief. It may also point to false hope or unresolved emotional baggage that still lingers.

Keywords:
Reversed: Recovery, resolution, overcoming grief, false hope, emotional baggage.

 

 

 

 

The Querent's External Stance

XVIII. The Moon

Symbolism:
The Moon is depicted as a blood-red orb casting an eerie glow over a desolate landscape. Two wolves—one dark and one light—howl at the moon, representing instinct and duality. A twisted, thorn-covered path winds between them, leading into a dense forest shrouded in mist. Shadows shift and twist unnaturally, suggesting the illusions and fears that dwell in the subconscious.

Meaning:
The Moon symbolizes intuition, dreams, and the realm of the subconscious. It warns of illusions, hidden truths, or fears clouding your judgment. This card encourages trusting your instincts and exploring your inner world to uncover what lies beneath the surface.

Keywords:
Upright: Intuition, dreams, subconscious, illusion, mystery, emotions, uncertainty.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's External Stance

XX. Judgement

Symbolism:
Judgment depicts a haunting scene of the dead rising from crypts bathed in an eerie, silvery glow. A vampire angel hovers above, blowing a trumpet, its sound visible as luminous, curling waves. The figures below lift their arms skyward, drawn by the call to awakening. A massive, ancient tree stands in the background, its roots tangled with bones, symbolizing the cyclical nature of life and death.

Meaning:
Judgment signifies renewal, self-assessment, and a call to rise above the past. It asks you to confront your actions, choices, and truths, encouraging accountability and forgiveness. This card often appears during moments of profound transition, marking the opportunity to shed old burdens and embrace a higher purpose.

Keywords:
Upright: Awakening, renewal, self-assessment, reckoning, forgiveness, rebirth, transformation.

 

 

 

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