Relationship Spread #1

Relationship Spread #1

 

 

Difficulty: Easy

This tarot spread is easy to read, like a convenient chart. In this spread, court cards generally indicate actual people with the same characteristics. Knights (or corresponding princes, but not kings) and queens are meant to represent actual men and women in this tarot spread. Look for patterns in the cards as always.

Card #1 is the overall significator of the relationship. The two columns on either side of the significator characterise each individual's role in the relationship. The relationship does not have to be romantic. In fact, it could be a relationship between a person and a group, or even how two groups relate.

The top row, cards #7 & #2, is about the conscious thoughts of each person, or what they think about the relationship and likewise how they view their partner.

The middle row, cards #6 & #3, reveals the way each individual feels about the other. Emotional awareness corresponds to a person's unconscious thoughts that run deep, affecting a person in ways he or she is not fully aware of.

The bottom row, cards #5 & #4, represents the way each person behaves, in other words the stance taken regarding the relationship. The way a person acts may be genuine, but sometimes people are phony and manipulative, so it is best to weigh this card against the other person's cards to determine how they match up.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Your Relationship #1 Reading

  You   Other Person
Thought             
VII. The Chariot
              
Two of Pentagrams
Emotion             
Nine of Swords
The Significator

XVI. The Tower
            
Queen of Pentagrams
External Stance             
Ace of Swords
              
Two of Stakes

 

 

 

 

The Significator

XVI. The Tower

Symbolism:
The Tower is shown as a crumbling gothic spire, struck by lightning and engulfed in flames. Figures are seen falling from the heights, their faces contorted in shock and despair. The dark sky above swirls with storm clouds, while the ground below splits open, exposing molten lava. Amid the destruction, a single raven perches on the rubble, symbolizing the potential for renewal through upheaval.

Meaning:
The Tower represents sudden upheaval, revelation, and the breaking down of false structures. It signals a dramatic, often unexpected event that shakes the foundations of your life, forcing you to confront harsh truths. While challenging, this card ultimately clears the way for genuine growth and transformation.

Keywords:
Upright: Upheaval, revelation, chaos, destruction, truth, transformation, awakening.

 

 

 

 

The Querent's Thoughts

VII. The Chariot

Reversed
Symbolism:
The Chariot is a sinister yet majestic vehicle drawn by two spectral horses, one black and one white, representing opposing forces. A Nosferatu figure stands at its helm, cloaked in shadows, holding a whip of shadowy tendrils. The chariot races through a mist-laden nightscape, its wheels crushing fallen leaves and brittle bones, symbolizing the journey's sacrifices and challenges.

Meaning:
The Chariot signifies determination, control, and the will to overcome obstacles. It calls for focused effort and harnessing conflicting energies to achieve a goal. This card often appears when decisive action and self-discipline are needed to navigate a complex situation. It encourages you to take charge of your direction and steer with purpose.

Reversed, the Chariot warns of recklessness, a loss of direction, or being overwhelmed by opposing forces. It may also point to a lack of confidence or an inability to move forward.

Keywords:
Reversed: Lack of control, recklessness, stagnation, self-doubt, misdirection, failure to progress.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's Thoughts

Two of Pentagrams

Reversed
Symbolism:
A young female vampire holds two pentagrams in her hands while seated in her dungeon. She appears to be balancing both objects, a representation of adaptability and change. The setting suggests a careful juggling of duties, with an eye on the future and a mind on the present.

Meaning:
The Two of Pentagrams is a card of adaptability, change, and managing multiple responsibilities. It suggests that you may be juggling different aspects of your life—finances, work, relationships—and must find balance to avoid becoming overwhelmed. It invites flexibility and encourages you to embrace change rather than resist it.

Reversed, it warns against overcommitment or being too rigid in your approach. It may indicate that you're struggling to adapt to new circumstances or that you're experiencing instability in some area of your life.

Keywords:
Reversed: Instability, overcommitment, resistance to change, imbalance.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Querent's Emotions

Nine of Swords

Symbolism:
Nine swords hang ominously on the wall, their sharp edges glinting faintly in the dim light. Below, a female vampire clutches her chest, overwhelmed by anxiety. Her surroundings are fortified excessively, reflecting her insecurities and fears of vulnerability. The scene captures a suffocating sense of dread and the heavy toll of mental anguish.

Meaning:
The Nine of Swords represents anxiety, fear, and despair. It signifies sleepless nights, obsessive thoughts, and the burden of worries that may or may not be grounded in reality. This card calls attention to the self-inflicted nature of some fears, urging reflection and perspective.

Keywords:
Upright: Anxiety, fear, despair, worry, nightmares, obsession, mental overload.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's Emotions

Queen of Pentagrams

Reversed
Symbolism:
An older woman bears a large pentagram, symbolizing wisdom, wealth, and self-awareness. She exudes authority and grace, with a deep connection to both material success and personal power.

Meaning:
The Queen of Pentagrams embodies wealth, wisdom, and self-sufficiency. She suggests that you have reached a level of maturity where you can balance both material success and personal fulfillment. This card highlights nurturing, practicality, and the importance of enjoying the fruits of your labor.

Reversed, it reflects mistrust, doubt, or fear. It may suggest that you are overly concerned with appearances or that you fear losing control over your circumstances.

Keywords:
Reversed: Mistrust, fear, lack of control, insecurity.

 

 

 

 

The Querent's External Stance

Ace of Swords

Symbolism:
A hand emerges from the clouds, gripping a freshly used sword. The sword gleams with power, representing intellectual triumph and clarity that has recently been achieved. The imagery suggests that a great mental breakthrough has just occurred or is about to.

Meaning:
The Ace of Swords symbolizes a surge of clarity, a breakthrough, or a new intellectual beginning. It represents the power of the mind and clear communication. This card marks the moment when confusion is cut through, and truth is revealed. It signifies victory through rationality, logic, and truth.

Keywords:
Upright: Clarity, new beginnings, breakthroughs, intellectual power, truth.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's External Stance

Two of Stakes

Symbolism:
A vampire spews forth the life force he has consumed, a dramatic display of surprise and chaotic energy. The heart, pierced by a stake, symbolizes duality—an ending and a new possibility, the destruction of one path to illuminate another. The overflowing energy represents the unpredictability of partnership and cooperation.

Meaning:
The Two of Stakes signals a crossroads where choices must be made. It is a card of balance and partnership, representing the potential for collaboration or conflict. This card urges careful consideration and planning before proceeding, as your choices now will shape your future path. It can signify unexpected surprises, wonder, and a touch of enchantment that transforms your perspective.

Keywords:
Upright: Balance, decision-making, partnership, surprises, wonder, potential.

 

 

 

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