Relationship Spread #1

Difficulty: Easy
This tarot spread is easy to read, like a convenient chart. In this spread, court cards generally indicate actual people with the same characteristics. Knights (or corresponding princes, but not kings) and queens are meant to represent actual men and women in this tarot spread. Look for patterns in the cards as always.
Card #1 is the overall significator of the relationship. The two columns on either side of the significator characterise each individual's role in the relationship. The relationship does not have to be romantic. In fact, it could be a relationship between a person and a group, or even how two groups relate.
The top row, cards #7 & #2, is about the conscious thoughts of each person, or what they think about the relationship and likewise how they view their partner.
The middle row, cards #6 & #3, reveals the way each individual feels about the other. Emotional awareness corresponds to a person's unconscious thoughts that run deep, affecting a person in ways he or she is not fully aware of.
The bottom row, cards #5 & #4, represents the way each person behaves, in other words the stance taken regarding the relationship. The way a person acts may be genuine, but sometimes people are phony and manipulative, so it is best to weigh this card against the other person's cards to determine how they match up.
Your Relationship #1 Reading
| You | Other Person | ||
| Thought | ![]() Page of Stakes |
![]() Eight of Cups |
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| Emotion | ![]() Three of Swords |
The Significator![]() Six of Pentagrams |
![]() Page of Pentagrams |
| External Stance | ![]() X. The Wheel of Fortune |
![]() Queen of Stakes |
The Significator
Six of Pentagrams
Reversed
Symbolism:Two men beg a seductive vampire, one drained, the other eager for his turn. This scene represents generosity, power dynamics, and the exchange of resources—both material and emotional.
Meaning:
The Six of Pentagrams signifies giving and receiving, with a focus on generosity and balance in exchanges. It may indicate a time when you are helping others or receiving aid, and it highlights the importance of fairness and reciprocity. It suggests prosperity through kindness, vigilance, and prudence.
Reversed, it suggests imbalance or exploitation in relationships. It may point to envy, rivalry, or one-sided exchanges where one party feels drained or exploited.
Keywords:
Reversed: Exploitation, imbalance, envy, rivalry, one-sidedness.
The Querent's Thoughts
Page of Stakes
Reversed
Symbolism:
A zombified female vampire emerges from her slumber, her gaze hungry and purposeful. She represents curiosity, the thirst for knowledge, and the energy of youthful ambition. The dark tones hint at naivety and the dangers of unbridled enthusiasm.
Meaning:
The Page of Stakes embodies curiosity, enthusiasm, and the beginning of new ventures. This card encourages you to embrace your creativity and explore opportunities with an open mind. It may also signify a message or news that sparks inspiration.
Reversed, it warns of indecision, bad news, or anxiety about taking the next step. It may also represent immaturity or impulsive actions.
Keywords:
Reversed: Indecision, anxiety, bad news, impulsiveness, immaturity.
The Other Person's Thoughts
Eight of Cups
Symbolism:
Eight cups filled with life-giving sustenance fuel the party at dusk, urging the participants to break through to a new experience. The card reflects the need for a transformative journey.
Meaning:
The Eight of Cups signals a turning point, where something needs to be left behind in order to move toward new emotional growth. It often signifies the need to leave behind past emotional attachments to make room for new experiences. It can also point to personal growth and a desire to transcend superficial satisfaction.
Keywords:
Upright: Emotional transition, leaving the past behind, personal growth, transformation.
The Querent's Emotions
Three of Swords
Reversed
Symbolism:
Three swords pierce a heart, and darkness looms in the background, indicating sorrow, emotional pain, and heartbreak.
Meaning:
The Three of Swords signifies emotional pain, heartbreak, and mental suffering. It points to grief, loss, and the pain of separation. It suggests that painful truths are being faced or that an emotional wound is still raw. It is a card of sorrow, regret, and mental anguish.
Reversed, it signals recovery from emotional turmoil or a lesser degree of pain. Alternatively, it may represent denial or avoidance of the emotional truth, preventing full healing.
Keywords:
Reversed: Recovery, emotional release, confusion, disorder.
The Other Person's Emotions
Page of Pentagrams
Reversed
Symbolism:
A young man clasps a pentagram, recognizing that he holds the power to shape his own destiny. This card represents potential and the beginning of a journey towards material or intellectual success.
Meaning:
The Page of Pentagrams signifies learning, new beginnings, and opportunities to grow. It points to a time when you are focused on laying the groundwork for future success. This card encourages you to be practical and take small, deliberate steps toward your goals.
Reversed, it suggests that you are squandering opportunities or mismanaging your resources. It may point to a lack of direction or focus, causing you to miss out on important chances.
Keywords:
Reversed: Missed opportunities, lack of direction, squandering resources.
The Querent's External Stance
X. The Wheel of Fortune
Reversed
Symbolism:
The Wheel of Fortune appears as a rotating wheel carved from black obsidian, inscribed with arcane runes glowing faintly in red and gold. Around the wheel, shadowy figures—some triumphant, others despairing—are caught in its orbit, symbolizing the cyclical nature of fate. At its center, a single, unblinking eye peers outward, embodying the watchful presence of destiny and the unpredictable forces that govern life.
Meaning:
The Wheel of Fortune represents cycles, change, and the influence of fate. It reminds you that life is constantly shifting between highs and lows, and adaptability is key to navigating these changes. When this card appears, it often signals a turning point, a shift in fortune, or the hand of destiny at work. It encourages you to seize opportunities while being mindful of the bigger picture.
Reversed, the Wheel warns of resistance to change, misfortune, or feeling stuck in a negative cycle. It suggests learning from setbacks to break free and regain control.
Keywords:
Reversed: Stagnation, resistance, bad luck, missed opportunities, instability, lack of control.
The Other Person's External Stance
Queen of Stakes
Reversed
Symbolism:
The Queen of Stakes stands proudly, her fangs bared in defiance. The impaled victims behind her serve as a stark reminder of her strength and resolve. She is both nurturing and fierce, embodying the duality of creation and destruction.
Meaning:
The Queen of Stakes symbolizes independence, confidence, and the ability to lead with compassion and strength. She encourages you to harness your inner power and remain true to yourself. This card often indicates success in business or personal endeavors.
Reversed, the Queen warns of jealousy, deceit, or opposition. It may also suggest a lack of self-confidence or struggles with balancing emotions.
Keywords:
Reversed: Jealousy, deceit, insecurity, opposition, imbalance.
