Relationship Spread #1

Relationship Spread #1

 

 

Difficulty: Easy

This tarot spread is easy to read, like a convenient chart. In this spread, court cards generally indicate actual people with the same characteristics. Knights (or corresponding princes, but not kings) and queens are meant to represent actual men and women in this tarot spread. Look for patterns in the cards as always.

Card #1 is the overall significator of the relationship. The two columns on either side of the significator characterise each individual's role in the relationship. The relationship does not have to be romantic. In fact, it could be a relationship between a person and a group, or even how two groups relate.

The top row, cards #7 & #2, is about the conscious thoughts of each person, or what they think about the relationship and likewise how they view their partner.

The middle row, cards #6 & #3, reveals the way each individual feels about the other. Emotional awareness corresponds to a person's unconscious thoughts that run deep, affecting a person in ways he or she is not fully aware of.

The bottom row, cards #5 & #4, represents the way each person behaves, in other words the stance taken regarding the relationship. The way a person acts may be genuine, but sometimes people are phony and manipulative, so it is best to weigh this card against the other person's cards to determine how they match up.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Your Relationship #1 Reading

  You   Other Person
Thought             
VIII. Strength
              
Five of Pentagrams
Emotion             
Two of Swords
The Significator

Ace of Stakes
            
Five of Stakes
External Stance             
XX. Judgement
              
XIV. Temperance

 

 

 

 

The Significator

Ace of Stakes

Reversed
Symbolism:
A gruesome image of a wand protruding violently from a man's gory mouth speaks of an unsettling birth of new energy. The blood and horror in the scene hint at the raw, primal force of creation and the sometimes destructive nature of beginnings. The Ace of Stakes is imbued with potential and an uncontainable spark of energy, emphasizing both opportunity and the challenges of harnessing such power.

Meaning:
The Ace of Stakes represents the genesis of an idea, a bold new venture, or the start of a passionate endeavor. It speaks to raw energy, inspiration, and an awakening of latent talents. This card calls on you to seize opportunities with courage and creativity, even if they feel daunting or chaotic. It's a card of new beginnings, enterprise, and the ability to transform challenges into strengths.

Reversed, the Ace warns of missed opportunities, destructive impulses, or stagnation. It may suggest that a new venture lacks foundation, or that the energy of creation is being misused or blocked.

Keywords:
Reversed: Missed opportunities, recklessness, misdirected energy, stagnation.

 

 

 

 

The Querent's Thoughts

VIII. Strength

Reversed
Symbolism:
Strength is portrayed as a vampiric figure gently taming a feral wolf under the light of a crescent moon. The figure's touch is both commanding and tender, symbolizing the balance of power and compassion. The wolf, once a creature of wild aggression, now gazes at its tamer with loyalty and calm. Around them, thorny vines twist, a reminder of the challenges inherent in mastering one's inner beasts.

Meaning:
Strength embodies courage, inner power, and the triumph of compassion over brute force. It urges you to face challenges with patience and resilience, relying on your inner calm to overcome fear and adversity. This card often signals the need to master emotions, demonstrating that true strength lies in self-control and grace.

Reversed, Strength warns of self-doubt, impulsiveness, or being overwhelmed by your emotions. It may suggest a lack of confidence or reliance on force over finesse.

Keywords:
Reversed: Self-doubt, impulsiveness, overwhelm, lack of discipline, fear, imbalance.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's Thoughts

Five of Pentagrams

Symbolism:
Outside of the devil's church, a vampire lies in a heap of his own vomit, symbolizing excess, indulgence, and the consequences of material excess. The scene reflects the dangers of overindulgence and losing control.

Meaning:
The Five of Pentagrams represents material loss, poverty, and hardship. It signifies a time of struggle, where one may feel destitute or faced with overwhelming financial or personal challenges. It warns of consequences from reckless decisions and suggests that emotional support or help may be needed to overcome this period.

Keywords:
Upright: Loss, poverty, hardship, crisis, vulnerability.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Querent's Emotions

Two of Swords

Symbolism:
A woman stands holding two crossed swords, her eyes veiled. This imagery reflects a difficult choice or mental conflict, where decisions are held at bay. The crossed swords suggest that balance and equanimity are required, but the veiled eyes hint at hesitation or avoidance.

Meaning:
The Two of Swords represents a situation where you are facing a decision but may be avoiding it. The veil over the woman's eyes suggests a mental block, where the truth is not being seen or acknowledged. It calls for careful contemplation to find balance and make a choice, urging you to confront your indecision.

Keywords:
Upright: Decision, mental conflict, balance, choices, indecision.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's Emotions

Five of Stakes

Symbolism:
A man trapped in a pit, impaled by five stakes, fights against overwhelming odds. The struggle is real and relentless, representing competition, ambition, and the challenges faced in the pursuit of success. His tattered state hints at the toll such pursuits can take on one's spirit.

Meaning:
The Five of Stakes represents conflict, rivalry, and the test of one's determination. It reflects the spirited competition and the drive to rise above challenges. While the fight may be strenuous, it also forges resilience and sharpens your focus. This card encourages perseverance despite obstacles.

Keywords:
Upright: Competition, rivalry, ambition, perseverance, resilience.

 

 

 

 

The Querent's External Stance

XX. Judgement

Symbolism:
Judgment depicts a haunting scene of the dead rising from crypts bathed in an eerie, silvery glow. A vampire angel hovers above, blowing a trumpet, its sound visible as luminous, curling waves. The figures below lift their arms skyward, drawn by the call to awakening. A massive, ancient tree stands in the background, its roots tangled with bones, symbolizing the cyclical nature of life and death.

Meaning:
Judgment signifies renewal, self-assessment, and a call to rise above the past. It asks you to confront your actions, choices, and truths, encouraging accountability and forgiveness. This card often appears during moments of profound transition, marking the opportunity to shed old burdens and embrace a higher purpose.

Keywords:
Upright: Awakening, renewal, self-assessment, reckoning, forgiveness, rebirth, transformation.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's External Stance

XIV. Temperance

Symbolism:
Temperance is represented by a vampiric figure gracefully pouring a stream of crimson liquid from one chalice into another, symbolizing balance and harmony. She stands with one foot in a dark pool and the other on solid ground, representing the interplay between emotion and reason. Her wings are half-feathered, half-batlike, indicating the union of opposing forces. The background shifts between twilight and dawn, underscoring equilibrium.

Meaning:
Temperance embodies balance, moderation, and the harmonious blending of opposites. It encourages patience and the careful integration of different aspects of your life. This card often suggests the need for self-restraint, collaboration, or finding common ground in a situation.

Keywords:
Upright: Balance, harmony, moderation, patience, integration, adaptability, calm.

 

 

 

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