Relationship Spread #1

Difficulty: Easy
This tarot spread is easy to read, like a convenient chart. In this spread, court cards generally indicate actual people with the same characteristics. Knights (or corresponding princes, but not kings) and queens are meant to represent actual men and women in this tarot spread. Look for patterns in the cards as always.
Card #1 is the overall significator of the relationship. The two columns on either side of the significator characterise each individual's role in the relationship. The relationship does not have to be romantic. In fact, it could be a relationship between a person and a group, or even how two groups relate.
The top row, cards #7 & #2, is about the conscious thoughts of each person, or what they think about the relationship and likewise how they view their partner.
The middle row, cards #6 & #3, reveals the way each individual feels about the other. Emotional awareness corresponds to a person's unconscious thoughts that run deep, affecting a person in ways he or she is not fully aware of.
The bottom row, cards #5 & #4, represents the way each person behaves, in other words the stance taken regarding the relationship. The way a person acts may be genuine, but sometimes people are phony and manipulative, so it is best to weigh this card against the other person's cards to determine how they match up.
Your Relationship #1 Reading
| You | Other Person | ||
| Thought | ![]() XX. Judgement |
![]() XIV. Temperance |
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| Emotion | ![]() Seven of Cups |
The Significator![]() Seven of Stakes |
![]() Queen of Cups |
| External Stance | ![]() Five of Cups |
![]() Two of Stakes |
The Significator
Seven of Stakes
Symbolism:
Seven stakes hold yet another of Vlad's impaled victims, a stark message to those who would challenge his authority. The grim imagery portrays valor and defiance in the face of overwhelming odds. The stakes symbolize both the challenges and the power of standing one's ground.
Meaning:
The Seven of Stakes is a card of courage and determination. It urges you to stand your ground and defend your beliefs, even when faced with opposition. Success is possible, but it requires resilience and confidence in your convictions. This card often appears when there is competition or conflict, serving as a reminder to hold firm.
Keywords:
Upright: Valor, perseverance, defiance, determination, strength.
The Querent's Thoughts
XX. Judgement
Symbolism:
Judgment depicts a haunting scene of the dead rising from crypts bathed in an eerie, silvery glow. A vampire angel hovers above, blowing a trumpet, its sound visible as luminous, curling waves. The figures below lift their arms skyward, drawn by the call to awakening. A massive, ancient tree stands in the background, its roots tangled with bones, symbolizing the cyclical nature of life and death.
Meaning:
Judgment signifies renewal, self-assessment, and a call to rise above the past. It asks you to confront your actions, choices, and truths, encouraging accountability and forgiveness. This card often appears during moments of profound transition, marking the opportunity to shed old burdens and embrace a higher purpose.
Keywords:
Upright: Awakening, renewal, self-assessment, reckoning, forgiveness, rebirth, transformation.
The Other Person's Thoughts
XIV. Temperance
Symbolism:
Temperance is represented by a vampiric figure gracefully pouring a stream of crimson liquid from one chalice into another, symbolizing balance and harmony. She stands with one foot in a dark pool and the other on solid ground, representing the interplay between emotion and reason. Her wings are half-feathered, half-batlike, indicating the union of opposing forces. The background shifts between twilight and dawn, underscoring equilibrium.
Meaning:
Temperance embodies balance, moderation, and the harmonious blending of opposites. It encourages patience and the careful integration of different aspects of your life. This card often suggests the need for self-restraint, collaboration, or finding common ground in a situation.
Keywords:
Upright: Balance, harmony, moderation, patience, integration, adaptability, calm.
The Querent's Emotions
Seven of Cups
Symbolism:
An unfortunate vampire has run out of the “good stuff” and must now rely on less desirable means. The card hints at illusions and unattainable desires, emphasizing the fantasy of having everything.
Meaning:
The Seven of Cups is a card of illusions, choices, and confusion. It represents the overwhelming number of options or fantasies that may lead to unrealistic expectations. This card calls for discernment and clarity, urging you to focus on what truly matters rather than being distracted by distractions or fleeting desires.
Keywords:
Upright: Illusions, choices, confusion, unrealistic expectations, desire.
The Other Person's Emotions
Queen of Cups
Reversed
Symbolism:
The beautiful Queen of Cups toasts to the abundance of victims willing to sacrifice themselves for the vampires' pleasure. The Queen embodies nurturing energy but also the darker, seductive side of emotional power.
Meaning:
The Queen of Cups represents emotional wisdom, intuition, and nurturing. She is deeply connected to her emotions and offers guidance in matters of the heart. This card symbolizes compassion, empathy, and the ability to heal through love. The Queen also represents a woman who has a strong emotional presence and offers emotional support to those around her.
Reversed, the Queen of Cups may indicate emotional manipulation, dishonesty, or perversion of nurturing energy. It could point to a woman who is overly controlling, emotionally unstable, or unable to trust her instincts.
Keywords:
Reversed: Emotional manipulation, instability, dishonesty, emotional imbalance.
The Querent's External Stance
Five of Cups
Symbolism:
Five toppled cups form a pentagram, with something undiscernible at the center. The destruction and loss are apparent, yet the hidden element suggests that something valuable might still remain.
Meaning:
The Five of Cups represents loss, grief, and emotional upset. It suggests the need to process and mourn a loss, be it personal or emotional. This card encourages you to acknowledge your sorrow while being open to healing. It is also a reminder to focus not just on what has been lost but on what remains.
Keywords:
Upright: Loss, grief, sorrow, reflection, healing, emotional challenges.
The Other Person's External Stance
Two of Stakes
Symbolism:
A vampire spews forth the life force he has consumed, a dramatic display of surprise and chaotic energy. The heart, pierced by a stake, symbolizes duality—an ending and a new possibility, the destruction of one path to illuminate another. The overflowing energy represents the unpredictability of partnership and cooperation.
Meaning:
The Two of Stakes signals a crossroads where choices must be made. It is a card of balance and partnership, representing the potential for collaboration or conflict. This card urges careful consideration and planning before proceeding, as your choices now will shape your future path. It can signify unexpected surprises, wonder, and a touch of enchantment that transforms your perspective.
Keywords:
Upright: Balance, decision-making, partnership, surprises, wonder, potential.
