Relationship Spread #1

Difficulty: Easy
This tarot spread is easy to read, like a convenient chart. In this spread, court cards generally indicate actual people with the same characteristics. Knights (or corresponding princes, but not kings) and queens are meant to represent actual men and women in this tarot spread. Look for patterns in the cards as always.
Card #1 is the overall significator of the relationship. The two columns on either side of the significator characterise each individual's role in the relationship. The relationship does not have to be romantic. In fact, it could be a relationship between a person and a group, or even how two groups relate.
The top row, cards #7 & #2, is about the conscious thoughts of each person, or what they think about the relationship and likewise how they view their partner.
The middle row, cards #6 & #3, reveals the way each individual feels about the other. Emotional awareness corresponds to a person's unconscious thoughts that run deep, affecting a person in ways he or she is not fully aware of.
The bottom row, cards #5 & #4, represents the way each person behaves, in other words the stance taken regarding the relationship. The way a person acts may be genuine, but sometimes people are phony and manipulative, so it is best to weigh this card against the other person's cards to determine how they match up.
Your Relationship #1 Reading
| You | Other Person | ||
| Thought | ![]() XV. The Devil |
![]() Ten of Pentagrams |
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| Emotion | ![]() Seven of Swords |
The Significator![]() Ten of Swords |
![]() XVI. The Tower |
| External Stance | ![]() Eight of Pentagrams |
![]() Five of Cups |
The Significator
Ten of Swords
Reversed
Symbolism:
A male figure lies lifeless, his body pierced by ten swords. The brutality of the scene mirrors the infamous murder of the Black Dahlia, evoking themes of ultimate betrayal and victimization. Blood pools beneath him, symbolizing the depth of his suffering and the irreversible nature of the event.
Meaning:
The Ten of Swords represents total defeat, betrayal, and hopelessness. It signifies the end of a cycle or the culmination of pain, where there is no further descent. Despite its grim nature, the card also holds the promise of new beginnings, as the worst has already passed.
Reversed, this card suggests recovery, triumph over adversity, or the ability to rise again after hitting rock bottom. It reflects newfound strength and the potential for victory through resilience and sheer determination.
Keywords:
Reversed: Recovery, resilience, triumph, power, victory after struggle.
The Querent's Thoughts
XV. The Devil
Reversed
Symbolism:
The Devil is portrayed as a towering, horned figure shrouded in shadow, with glowing crimson eyes and skeletal bat wings. Chains dangle from its outstretched hands, tethered to two figures who appear entranced rather than distressed, symbolizing voluntary bondage. A fiery pit burns at its feet, while the moon above is obscured by dark clouds, representing ignorance and illusion. Behind the Devil, a cracked mirror reflects hidden desires and fears.
Meaning:
The Devil signifies temptation, materialism, and self-imposed limitations. It highlights the darker aspects of human nature, such as obsession, addiction, or unhealthy attachments. This card often serves as a wake-up call to recognize and confront these influences, reclaiming your power and freedom.
Reversed, the Devil suggests breaking free from negative patterns or regaining control over impulses. It may indicate the first steps toward liberation or an awakening from illusion.
Keywords:
Reversed: Freedom, release, awareness, breaking cycles, regaining power, self-determination.
The Other Person's Thoughts
Ten of Pentagrams
Symbolism:
An exotic dancer raises the energy of her audience, clasping pentagrams in hand. This scene represents the completion of a cycle, where comfort, security, and family are at the forefront of life.
Meaning:
The Ten of Pentagrams signifies family, wealth, and long-term security. It reflects a period of contentment, with all your material and emotional needs met. This card highlights the importance of legacy, home, and lasting success.
Keywords:
Upright: Family, wealth, legacy, security, completion.
The Querent's Emotions
Seven of Swords
Reversed
Symbolism:
A cunning thief is shown stealing five of seven swords, his movements calculated and deliberate. He takes only what he can carry, leaving just enough behind to avoid detection. This image portrays strategy, cleverness, and moral ambiguity, reflecting the complexity of navigating difficult situations.
Meaning:
The Seven of Swords represents strategy, cunning, and the courage to take calculated risks. It suggests that bold action may be necessary to achieve your goals, even if it challenges conventional ethics. The card also highlights the importance of discretion and planning in overcoming obstacles.
Reversed, the Seven of Swords warns of dangerous plans that may fail or expose you to harm. It can indicate quarrels, deceit, or gossip that undermines trust. This card urges caution and vigilance in the face of potential betrayal or missteps.
Keywords:
Reversed: Failure, exposure, betrayal, quarrels, gossip, danger.
The Other Person's Emotions
XVI. The Tower
Reversed
Symbolism:
The Tower is shown as a crumbling gothic spire, struck by lightning and engulfed in flames. Figures are seen falling from the heights, their faces contorted in shock and despair. The dark sky above swirls with storm clouds, while the ground below splits open, exposing molten lava. Amid the destruction, a single raven perches on the rubble, symbolizing the potential for renewal through upheaval.
Meaning:
The Tower represents sudden upheaval, revelation, and the breaking down of false structures. It signals a dramatic, often unexpected event that shakes the foundations of your life, forcing you to confront harsh truths. While challenging, this card ultimately clears the way for genuine growth and transformation.
Reversed, the Tower suggests avoiding necessary change or clinging to unstable circumstances. It may warn of delayed consequences or a refusal to face reality.
Keywords:
Reversed: Resistance, avoidance, delayed change, denial, suppressed upheaval, lingering instability.
The Querent's External Stance
Eight of Pentagrams
Reversed
Symbolism:
An exotic dancer adorned in pentagrams performs, her act representing craftsmanship and skill. She embodies the dedication to her craft, with a focus on discipline and mastery.
Meaning:
The Eight of Pentagrams speaks to hard work, craftsmanship, and the pursuit of excellence. It suggests a time of preparation and dedication to one's skills. Whether in a professional or personal capacity, this card encourages you to continue honing your abilities and remain committed to your goals.
Reversed, it may indicate unfulfilled ambition, vanity, or the exploitation of one's skills for selfish gain. It warns against focusing on appearance over substance or engaging in unethical practices.
Keywords:
Reversed: Vanity, exploitation, unethical behavior, unfulfilled ambition.
The Other Person's External Stance
Five of Cups
Reversed
Symbolism:
Five toppled cups form a pentagram, with something undiscernible at the center. The destruction and loss are apparent, yet the hidden element suggests that something valuable might still remain.
Meaning:
The Five of Cups represents loss, grief, and emotional upset. It suggests the need to process and mourn a loss, be it personal or emotional. This card encourages you to acknowledge your sorrow while being open to healing. It is also a reminder to focus not just on what has been lost but on what remains.
Reversed, it indicates recovery, the return of what was lost, or the resolution of past grief. It may also point to false hope or unresolved emotional baggage that still lingers.
Keywords:
Reversed: Recovery, resolution, overcoming grief, false hope, emotional baggage.
