Relationship Spread #1

Difficulty: Easy
This tarot spread is easy to read, like a convenient chart. In this spread, court cards generally indicate actual people with the same characteristics. Knights (or corresponding princes, but not kings) and queens are meant to represent actual men and women in this tarot spread. Look for patterns in the cards as always.
Card #1 is the overall significator of the relationship. The two columns on either side of the significator characterise each individual's role in the relationship. The relationship does not have to be romantic. In fact, it could be a relationship between a person and a group, or even how two groups relate.
The top row, cards #7 & #2, is about the conscious thoughts of each person, or what they think about the relationship and likewise how they view their partner.
The middle row, cards #6 & #3, reveals the way each individual feels about the other. Emotional awareness corresponds to a person's unconscious thoughts that run deep, affecting a person in ways he or she is not fully aware of.
The bottom row, cards #5 & #4, represents the way each person behaves, in other words the stance taken regarding the relationship. The way a person acts may be genuine, but sometimes people are phony and manipulative, so it is best to weigh this card against the other person's cards to determine how they match up.
Your Relationship #1 Reading
| You | Other Person | ||
| Thought | ![]() Six of Stakes |
![]() Three of Swords |
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| Emotion | ![]() Four of Swords |
The Significator![]() Page of Swords |
![]() XVIII. The Moon |
| External Stance | ![]() Page of Pentagrams |
![]() Knight of Pentagrams |
The Significator
Page of Swords
Reversed
Symbolism:
A young Page stands vigilant, holding his sword balanced with its tip pointed earthward. His posture conveys readiness, alertness, and a cautious approach to potential threats. Though at rest, his eyes scan the horizon, reflecting curiosity and a hunger for knowledge.
Meaning:
The Page of Swords represents curiosity, observation, and a keen intellect. It suggests a time for learning, exploration, or gathering information before acting. This card often represents someone who is eager to uncover truths or defend their beliefs with determination.
Reversed, the Page of Swords warns of unforeseen challenges or a lack of preparedness. It may indicate misinformation, impulsiveness, or difficulties stemming from inadequate planning or premature action.
Keywords:
Reversed: Misinformation, impulsiveness, confusion, unpreparedness, difficulty.
The Querent's Thoughts
Six of Stakes
Reversed
Symbolism:
A female cadaver, suspended by six stakes, serves as a macabre warning to all who pass. The stakes are arranged as a barrier, both defensive and triumphant, symbolizing victory achieved at a great cost. The ominous scene speaks of hard-won triumphs and the fulfillment of one's ambitions, albeit shadowed by loss.
Meaning:
The Six of Stakes signifies triumph and recognition. It represents a well-earned victory and the satisfaction of achieving goals through perseverance and hard work. This card heralds positive news and fulfillment of long-held desires. It also reminds you to remain humble and grateful in success.
Reversed, the Six warns of delays, paranoia, or feelings of insecurity despite external achievements. It can also point to betrayal or fear of losing one's position.
Keywords:
Reversed: Delays, fear, betrayal, disloyalty, insecurity.
The Other Person's Thoughts
Three of Swords
Symbolism:
Three swords pierce a heart, set against a backdrop of dark, foreboding clouds. The heart bleeds, symbolizing the deep pain of betrayal and heartbreak. The ominous sky reinforces the emotional intensity and the sorrow attached to this card.
Meaning:
The Three of Swords is a card of emotional pain, heartbreak, and grief. It represents suffering from loss, betrayal, or separation. The heart pierced by swords highlights the emotional wound, urging you to confront the pain to begin healing.
Keywords:
Upright: Heartbreak, sorrow, grief, emotional pain, loss.
The Querent's Emotions
Four of Swords
Reversed
Symbolism:
An effigy of a knight lies in a meditation pose upon his tomb, suggesting rest, retreat, or a time for inner reflection.
Meaning:
The Four of Swords indicates a need for rest, recuperation, and reflection. It suggests taking a step back to heal, recover, or regain mental clarity. It may represent a period of retreat or silence, where one needs to recharge before moving forward.
Reversed, this card could indicate the inability to take a break, exhaustion, or a failure to properly reflect before making decisions. It can also point to reluctance to rest or the postponement of necessary action.
Keywords:
Reversed: Exhaustion, mental fatigue, inability to rest, missed opportunities.
The Other Person's Emotions
XVIII. The Moon
Symbolism:
The Moon is depicted as a blood-red orb casting an eerie glow over a desolate landscape. Two wolves—one dark and one light—howl at the moon, representing instinct and duality. A twisted, thorn-covered path winds between them, leading into a dense forest shrouded in mist. Shadows shift and twist unnaturally, suggesting the illusions and fears that dwell in the subconscious.
Meaning:
The Moon symbolizes intuition, dreams, and the realm of the subconscious. It warns of illusions, hidden truths, or fears clouding your judgment. This card encourages trusting your instincts and exploring your inner world to uncover what lies beneath the surface.
Keywords:
Upright: Intuition, dreams, subconscious, illusion, mystery, emotions, uncertainty.
The Querent's External Stance
Page of Pentagrams
Symbolism:
A young man clasps a pentagram, recognizing that he holds the power to shape his own destiny. This card represents potential and the beginning of a journey towards material or intellectual success.
Meaning:
The Page of Pentagrams signifies learning, new beginnings, and opportunities to grow. It points to a time when you are focused on laying the groundwork for future success. This card encourages you to be practical and take small, deliberate steps toward your goals.
Keywords:
Upright: Learning, potential, opportunities, practicality, new beginnings.
The Other Person's External Stance
Knight of Pentagrams
Symbolism:
A knight bearing a pentagram signals the arrival of important news, symbolizing responsibility, discipline, and service. His steady demeanor suggests that success is achieved through diligent work and careful planning.
Meaning:
The Knight of Pentagrams represents service, responsibility, and a strong work ethic. It suggests that you are in a position to fulfill your obligations and take care of important matters. This card encourages patience and diligence in your endeavors.
Keywords:
Upright: Responsibility, diligence, service, hard work, reliability.
