Relationship Spread #1

Relationship Spread #1

 

 

Difficulty: Easy

This tarot spread is easy to read, like a convenient chart. In this spread, court cards generally indicate actual people with the same characteristics. Knights (or corresponding princes, but not kings) and queens are meant to represent actual men and women in this tarot spread. Look for patterns in the cards as always.

Card #1 is the overall significator of the relationship. The two columns on either side of the significator characterise each individual's role in the relationship. The relationship does not have to be romantic. In fact, it could be a relationship between a person and a group, or even how two groups relate.

The top row, cards #7 & #2, is about the conscious thoughts of each person, or what they think about the relationship and likewise how they view their partner.

The middle row, cards #6 & #3, reveals the way each individual feels about the other. Emotional awareness corresponds to a person's unconscious thoughts that run deep, affecting a person in ways he or she is not fully aware of.

The bottom row, cards #5 & #4, represents the way each person behaves, in other words the stance taken regarding the relationship. The way a person acts may be genuine, but sometimes people are phony and manipulative, so it is best to weigh this card against the other person's cards to determine how they match up.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Your Relationship #1 Reading

  You   Other Person
Thought             
Ten of Pentagrams
              
XX. Judgement
Emotion             
Four of Swords
The Significator

Ten of Cups
            
Seven of Stakes
External Stance             
Five of Stakes
              
Ace of Swords

 

 

 

 

The Significator

Ten of Cups

Symbolism:
Ten used cups sit in storage, while a skull watches over them. The imagery suggests a sense of completion, fulfillment, and the closing of a chapter, but also a reminder that all things come to an end.

Meaning:
The Ten of Cups represents emotional fulfillment, contentment, and happiness in relationships. It is the ultimate expression of emotional satisfaction, often symbolizing harmony in family life, long-lasting love, or the completion of an emotional journey. It suggests a sense of peace and joy, where all emotions align, and dreams come true.

Keywords:
Upright: Emotional fulfillment, harmony, happiness, peace, contentment, family unity.

 

 

 

 

The Querent's Thoughts

Ten of Pentagrams

Reversed
Symbolism:
An exotic dancer raises the energy of her audience, clasping pentagrams in hand. This scene represents the completion of a cycle, where comfort, security, and family are at the forefront of life.

Meaning:
The Ten of Pentagrams signifies family, wealth, and long-term security. It reflects a period of contentment, with all your material and emotional needs met. This card highlights the importance of legacy, home, and lasting success.

Reversed, it may indicate loss, risk, or a breakdown in familial or financial security. It warns against deception or mismanagement of resources, which can lead to loss or instability.

Keywords:
Reversed: Loss, risk, instability, mismanagement, deception.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's Thoughts

XX. Judgement

Reversed
Symbolism:
Judgment depicts a haunting scene of the dead rising from crypts bathed in an eerie, silvery glow. A vampire angel hovers above, blowing a trumpet, its sound visible as luminous, curling waves. The figures below lift their arms skyward, drawn by the call to awakening. A massive, ancient tree stands in the background, its roots tangled with bones, symbolizing the cyclical nature of life and death.

Meaning:
Judgment signifies renewal, self-assessment, and a call to rise above the past. It asks you to confront your actions, choices, and truths, encouraging accountability and forgiveness. This card often appears during moments of profound transition, marking the opportunity to shed old burdens and embrace a higher purpose.

Reversed, Judgment warns of self-doubt, avoidance, or fear of change. It suggests a resistance to growth or ignoring the need for reflection.

Keywords:
Reversed: Self-doubt, avoidance, fear of change, lack of reflection, denial, stagnation.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Querent's Emotions

Four of Swords

Reversed
Symbolism:
An effigy of a knight lies in a meditation pose upon his tomb, suggesting rest, retreat, or a time for inner reflection.

Meaning:
The Four of Swords indicates a need for rest, recuperation, and reflection. It suggests taking a step back to heal, recover, or regain mental clarity. It may represent a period of retreat or silence, where one needs to recharge before moving forward.

Reversed, this card could indicate the inability to take a break, exhaustion, or a failure to properly reflect before making decisions. It can also point to reluctance to rest or the postponement of necessary action.

Keywords:
Reversed: Exhaustion, mental fatigue, inability to rest, missed opportunities.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's Emotions

Seven of Stakes

Reversed
Symbolism:
Seven stakes hold yet another of Vlad's impaled victims, a stark message to those who would challenge his authority. The grim imagery portrays valor and defiance in the face of overwhelming odds. The stakes symbolize both the challenges and the power of standing one's ground.

Meaning:
The Seven of Stakes is a card of courage and determination. It urges you to stand your ground and defend your beliefs, even when faced with opposition. Success is possible, but it requires resilience and confidence in your convictions. This card often appears when there is competition or conflict, serving as a reminder to hold firm.

Reversed, the card warns of indecision, confusion, or embarrassment. It may also signal an overreaction to perceived threats, leading to unnecessary conflict.

Keywords:
Reversed: Indecision, confusion, overreaction, fear, uncertainty.

 

 

 

 

The Querent's External Stance

Five of Stakes

Reversed
Symbolism:
A man trapped in a pit, impaled by five stakes, fights against overwhelming odds. The struggle is real and relentless, representing competition, ambition, and the challenges faced in the pursuit of success. His tattered state hints at the toll such pursuits can take on one's spirit.

Meaning:
The Five of Stakes represents conflict, rivalry, and the test of one's determination. It reflects the spirited competition and the drive to rise above challenges. While the fight may be strenuous, it also forges resilience and sharpens your focus. This card encourages perseverance despite obstacles.

Reversed, the card warns of deceit, disputes, or challenges born from misunderstandings. It calls for honesty and clarity in your actions.

Keywords:
Reversed: Disputes, deception, confusion, hypocrisy.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's External Stance

Ace of Swords

Symbolism:
A hand emerges from the clouds, gripping a freshly used sword. The sword gleams with power, representing intellectual triumph and clarity that has recently been achieved. The imagery suggests that a great mental breakthrough has just occurred or is about to.

Meaning:
The Ace of Swords symbolizes a surge of clarity, a breakthrough, or a new intellectual beginning. It represents the power of the mind and clear communication. This card marks the moment when confusion is cut through, and truth is revealed. It signifies victory through rationality, logic, and truth.

Keywords:
Upright: Clarity, new beginnings, breakthroughs, intellectual power, truth.

 

 

 

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