Relationship Spread #1

Relationship Spread #1

 

 

Difficulty: Easy

This tarot spread is easy to read, like a convenient chart. In this spread, court cards generally indicate actual people with the same characteristics. Knights (or corresponding princes, but not kings) and queens are meant to represent actual men and women in this tarot spread. Look for patterns in the cards as always.

Card #1 is the overall significator of the relationship. The two columns on either side of the significator characterise each individual's role in the relationship. The relationship does not have to be romantic. In fact, it could be a relationship between a person and a group, or even how two groups relate.

The top row, cards #7 & #2, is about the conscious thoughts of each person, or what they think about the relationship and likewise how they view their partner.

The middle row, cards #6 & #3, reveals the way each individual feels about the other. Emotional awareness corresponds to a person's unconscious thoughts that run deep, affecting a person in ways he or she is not fully aware of.

The bottom row, cards #5 & #4, represents the way each person behaves, in other words the stance taken regarding the relationship. The way a person acts may be genuine, but sometimes people are phony and manipulative, so it is best to weigh this card against the other person's cards to determine how they match up.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Your Relationship #1 Reading

  You   Other Person
Thought             
III. The Empress
              
Six of Stakes
Emotion             
V. The Hierophant
The Significator

Nine of Pentagrams
            
Three of Cups
External Stance             
Two of Stakes
              
Five of Stakes

 

 

 

 

The Significator

Nine of Pentagrams

Reversed
Symbolism:
A voluptuous woman with her familiar in hand prepares for astral travel, representing accomplishment and the ability to reach higher realms. She symbolizes wisdom and the ability to manifest one's desires through focused intent.

Meaning:
The Nine of Pentagrams represents success, accomplishment, and the manifestation of your goals. It signifies that you have worked hard to achieve security and comfort and that your efforts are beginning to bear fruit. This card encourages confidence and a sense of accomplishment.

Reversed, it warns against vanity, insecurity, or unfulfilled projects. It may indicate that your success is threatened by your own egotism or a lack of confidence in your abilities.

Keywords:
Reversed: Vanity, insecurity, missed opportunities, egotism.

 

 

 

 

The Querent's Thoughts

III. The Empress

Reversed
Symbolism:
The Empress sits upon her throne, her presence commanding yet nurturing. She holds the Hand of Glory, a macabre artifact symbolizing her power to claim whatever she desires. Her surroundings are lush and fertile, with dark roses blooming amidst the decay—symbols of beauty and abundance arising from even the grimmest conditions. Her expression is one of calm authority, radiating life-giving energy.

Meaning:
The Empress represents creation, fertility, and the nurturing aspects of life. She signifies abundance and the ability to bring ideas, projects, or relationships to fruition. This card invites you to connect with your creative or maternal instincts and embrace the cycles of growth and renewal. It may also point to emotional or physical abundance and a celebration of life's pleasures.

Reversed, the Empress warns of stagnation, overbearing tendencies, or emotional imbalance. It may point to neglect, smothering, or difficulties in manifesting creativity.

Keywords:
Reversed: Stagnation, neglect, overbearing, creative block, emotional imbalance.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's Thoughts

Six of Stakes

Reversed
Symbolism:
A female cadaver, suspended by six stakes, serves as a macabre warning to all who pass. The stakes are arranged as a barrier, both defensive and triumphant, symbolizing victory achieved at a great cost. The ominous scene speaks of hard-won triumphs and the fulfillment of one's ambitions, albeit shadowed by loss.

Meaning:
The Six of Stakes signifies triumph and recognition. It represents a well-earned victory and the satisfaction of achieving goals through perseverance and hard work. This card heralds positive news and fulfillment of long-held desires. It also reminds you to remain humble and grateful in success.

Reversed, the Six warns of delays, paranoia, or feelings of insecurity despite external achievements. It can also point to betrayal or fear of losing one's position.

Keywords:
Reversed: Delays, fear, betrayal, disloyalty, insecurity.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Querent's Emotions

V. The Hierophant

Reversed
Symbolism:
The Hierophant stands in a candlelit crypt, robed in dark ceremonial attire. His face is obscured by a mask resembling a skull, emphasizing his role as a mediator between the living and the dead. In his hands, he holds an ancient grimoire, its pages glowing faintly as if infused with sacred knowledge. Behind him, shadowy figures bow in reverence, symbolizing tradition and the transfer of esoteric teachings.

Meaning:
The Hierophant represents tradition, spiritual guidance, and conformity to established systems of belief. He serves as a bridge between the divine and the mundane, reminding you to honor time-tested wisdom and moral values. This card often calls for introspection about your relationship with tradition and how it shapes your choices. It may also suggest seeking counsel or mentorship from someone with greater experience or spiritual authority.

Reversed, the Hierophant challenges the rigidity of traditions, encouraging independent thought and nonconformity. It warns against blind faith in systems that may no longer serve you.

Keywords:
Reversed: Nonconformity, rebellion, outdated beliefs, spiritual doubt, dogmatism.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's Emotions

Three of Cups

Reversed
Symbolism:
Two overturned cups are washed clean, and a third toppled cup spills its all-seeing contents. The imagery suggests the end of a cycle, with emotions spilling over, marking a time for reflection, conclusion, and understanding.

Meaning:
The Three of Cups signifies celebration, community, and emotional fulfillment. It represents joyous reunions, friendship, and collective happiness. This card often points to success in group efforts or the enjoyment of time spent with loved ones, signaling an end to struggles and a period of peace.

Reversed, it points to excessive indulgence, gossip, or a disconnection from others. It warns of an unhealthy focus on physical pleasures over emotional well-being.

Keywords:
Reversed: Excess, gossip, overindulgence, disconnection, unhealthy focus.

 

 

 

 

The Querent's External Stance

Two of Stakes

Symbolism:
A vampire spews forth the life force he has consumed, a dramatic display of surprise and chaotic energy. The heart, pierced by a stake, symbolizes duality—an ending and a new possibility, the destruction of one path to illuminate another. The overflowing energy represents the unpredictability of partnership and cooperation.

Meaning:
The Two of Stakes signals a crossroads where choices must be made. It is a card of balance and partnership, representing the potential for collaboration or conflict. This card urges careful consideration and planning before proceeding, as your choices now will shape your future path. It can signify unexpected surprises, wonder, and a touch of enchantment that transforms your perspective.

Keywords:
Upright: Balance, decision-making, partnership, surprises, wonder, potential.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's External Stance

Five of Stakes

Reversed
Symbolism:
A man trapped in a pit, impaled by five stakes, fights against overwhelming odds. The struggle is real and relentless, representing competition, ambition, and the challenges faced in the pursuit of success. His tattered state hints at the toll such pursuits can take on one's spirit.

Meaning:
The Five of Stakes represents conflict, rivalry, and the test of one's determination. It reflects the spirited competition and the drive to rise above challenges. While the fight may be strenuous, it also forges resilience and sharpens your focus. This card encourages perseverance despite obstacles.

Reversed, the card warns of deceit, disputes, or challenges born from misunderstandings. It calls for honesty and clarity in your actions.

Keywords:
Reversed: Disputes, deception, confusion, hypocrisy.

 

 

 

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