Relationship Spread #1

Relationship Spread #1

 

 

Difficulty: Easy

This tarot spread is easy to read, like a convenient chart. In this spread, court cards generally indicate actual people with the same characteristics. Knights (or corresponding princes, but not kings) and queens are meant to represent actual men and women in this tarot spread. Look for patterns in the cards as always.

Card #1 is the overall significator of the relationship. The two columns on either side of the significator characterise each individual's role in the relationship. The relationship does not have to be romantic. In fact, it could be a relationship between a person and a group, or even how two groups relate.

The top row, cards #7 & #2, is about the conscious thoughts of each person, or what they think about the relationship and likewise how they view their partner.

The middle row, cards #6 & #3, reveals the way each individual feels about the other. Emotional awareness corresponds to a person's unconscious thoughts that run deep, affecting a person in ways he or she is not fully aware of.

The bottom row, cards #5 & #4, represents the way each person behaves, in other words the stance taken regarding the relationship. The way a person acts may be genuine, but sometimes people are phony and manipulative, so it is best to weigh this card against the other person's cards to determine how they match up.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Your Relationship #1 Reading

  You   Other Person
Thought             
Three of Swords
              
Eight of Swords
Emotion             
VII. The Chariot
The Significator

XXI. The World
            
Nine of Cups
External Stance             
XVII. The Star
              
Eight of Cups

 

 

 

 

The Significator

XXI. The World

Reversed
Symbolism:
The World depicts a powerful figure standing within a glowing circle of blood-red roses, symbolizing completion and unity. The four corners of the card feature elemental creatures: a bat, a wolf, a raven, and a serpent, representing balance and harmony among all forces. A starry night sky stretches infinitely behind the figure, while they hold a silver orb and a golden key, symbolizing mastery and fulfillment.

Meaning:
The World represents completion, fulfillment, and the achievement of long-term goals. It signifies harmony, wholeness, and the realization of your place in the greater tapestry of existence. This card often marks the end of a significant journey, celebrating your success and inviting you to share your gifts with others.

Reversed, the World suggests delays, unfinished business, or feelings of incompleteness. It may indicate the need to tie up loose ends before moving forward.

Keywords:
Reversed: Delays, lack of closure, incompletion, stagnation, unfinished business, imbalance.

 

 

 

 

The Querent's Thoughts

Three of Swords

Reversed
Symbolism:
Three swords pierce a heart, and darkness looms in the background, indicating sorrow, emotional pain, and heartbreak.

Meaning:
The Three of Swords signifies emotional pain, heartbreak, and mental suffering. It points to grief, loss, and the pain of separation. It suggests that painful truths are being faced or that an emotional wound is still raw. It is a card of sorrow, regret, and mental anguish.

Reversed, it signals recovery from emotional turmoil or a lesser degree of pain. Alternatively, it may represent denial or avoidance of the emotional truth, preventing full healing.

Keywords:
Reversed: Recovery, emotional release, confusion, disorder.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's Thoughts

Eight of Swords

Reversed
Symbolism:
A young woman lies motionless, stabbed from both the front and the back by swords. Unlike a self-inflicted fate, the wounds reveal a betrayal or attack from all sides, symbolizing entrapment and the powerlessness that stems from external forces.

Meaning:
The Eight of Swords signifies mental entrapment, limitation, and the feeling of being cornered. It highlights the power of negative thoughts or external pressures that leave you paralyzed. However, the card reminds you that escape is often possible if you change your mindset or perspective.

Reversed, the Eight of Swords reflects the breaking of these mental or emotional chains. It suggests newfound freedom, clarity, or the chance to overcome previously overwhelming challenges. However, it may also point to unexpected disasters or lingering traps yet to be avoided.

Keywords:
Reversed: Release, freedom, clarity, resolution, unforeseen disaster.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Querent's Emotions

VII. The Chariot

Symbolism:
The Chariot is a sinister yet majestic vehicle drawn by two spectral horses, one black and one white, representing opposing forces. A Nosferatu figure stands at its helm, cloaked in shadows, holding a whip of shadowy tendrils. The chariot races through a mist-laden nightscape, its wheels crushing fallen leaves and brittle bones, symbolizing the journey's sacrifices and challenges.

Meaning:
The Chariot signifies determination, control, and the will to overcome obstacles. It calls for focused effort and harnessing conflicting energies to achieve a goal. This card often appears when decisive action and self-discipline are needed to navigate a complex situation. It encourages you to take charge of your direction and steer with purpose.

Keywords:
Upright: Determination, control, focus, discipline, willpower, triumph, direction.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's Emotions

Nine of Cups

Symbolism:
A male vampire sits at the peak of drunken contentment, a symbol of ultimate satisfaction and indulgence. The cups around him represent the emotional fulfillment that results from victory and excess.

Meaning:
The Nine of Cups represents emotional satisfaction, contentment, and fulfillment. It indicates that your desires are being met and that you are experiencing joy in its fullest form. It can also be a sign of physical satisfaction or emotional abundance, often linked to wishes being granted.

Keywords:
Upright: Contentment, fulfillment, satisfaction, emotional success, victory.

 

 

 

 

The Querent's External Stance

XVII. The Star

Reversed
Symbolism:
The Star depicts a luminous vampire bathing in a moonlit pool, her pale skin shimmering with starlight. She pours blood from a goblet into the water, symbolizing renewal and the cycle of life. Above her, a constellation forms the shape of a chalice, representing hope and inspiration. The night sky is clear, and the surrounding landscape, though desolate, begins to show signs of new growth.

Meaning:
The Star embodies hope, inspiration, and spiritual renewal. It encourages you to trust in the universe and your own inner light, even during challenging times. This card often appears after a period of struggle, signaling healing, clarity, and the promise of brighter days ahead.

Reversed, the Star warns of doubt, pessimism, or a loss of direction. It may suggest the need to reconnect with your dreams or rekindle your faith in the future.

Keywords:
Reversed: Doubt, despair, loss of faith, disconnection, hopelessness, lack of direction.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's External Stance

Eight of Cups

Reversed
Symbolism:
Eight cups filled with life-giving sustenance fuel the party at dusk, urging the participants to break through to a new experience. The card reflects the need for a transformative journey.

Meaning:
The Eight of Cups signals a turning point, where something needs to be left behind in order to move toward new emotional growth. It often signifies the need to leave behind past emotional attachments to make room for new experiences. It can also point to personal growth and a desire to transcend superficial satisfaction.

Reversed, it suggests a period of emotional abundance, joy, and fulfillment. It may also represent staying in a comfort zone when it's time to move forward.

Keywords:
Reversed: Abundance, contentment, staying in comfort, fulfillment, joy.