Relationship Spread #1

Difficulty: Easy
This tarot spread is easy to read, like a convenient chart. In this spread, court cards generally indicate actual people with the same characteristics. Knights (or corresponding princes, but not kings) and queens are meant to represent actual men and women in this tarot spread. Look for patterns in the cards as always.
Card #1 is the overall significator of the relationship. The two columns on either side of the significator characterise each individual's role in the relationship. The relationship does not have to be romantic. In fact, it could be a relationship between a person and a group, or even how two groups relate.
The top row, cards #7 & #2, is about the conscious thoughts of each person, or what they think about the relationship and likewise how they view their partner.
The middle row, cards #6 & #3, reveals the way each individual feels about the other. Emotional awareness corresponds to a person's unconscious thoughts that run deep, affecting a person in ways he or she is not fully aware of.
The bottom row, cards #5 & #4, represents the way each person behaves, in other words the stance taken regarding the relationship. The way a person acts may be genuine, but sometimes people are phony and manipulative, so it is best to weigh this card against the other person's cards to determine how they match up.
Your Relationship #1 Reading
| You | Other Person | ||
| Thought | ![]() Four of Stakes |
![]() Knight of Stakes |
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| Emotion | ![]() XIX. The Sun |
The Significator![]() Two of Pentagrams |
![]() Three of Stakes |
| External Stance | ![]() Three of Swords |
![]() Two of Cups |
The Significator
Two of Pentagrams
Symbolism:
A young female vampire holds two pentagrams in her hands while seated in her dungeon. She appears to be balancing both objects, a representation of adaptability and change. The setting suggests a careful juggling of duties, with an eye on the future and a mind on the present.
Meaning:
The Two of Pentagrams is a card of adaptability, change, and managing multiple responsibilities. It suggests that you may be juggling different aspects of your life—finances, work, relationships—and must find balance to avoid becoming overwhelmed. It invites flexibility and encourages you to embrace change rather than resist it.
Keywords:
Upright: Balance, adaptability, change, flexibility, resourcefulness.
The Querent's Thoughts
Four of Stakes
Symbolism:
A nude figure hangs suspended mid-air by four bloody stakes. This haunting tableau evokes themes of rest, stability, and a grim sense of harmony. The stakes form a secure structure, suggesting that even amidst horror, there can be moments of peace and reprieve.
Meaning:
The Four of Stakes symbolizes a haven or moment of stability amidst chaos. It represents harmony, home, and the celebration of achieved milestones. This card is a reminder to cherish moments of peace and recognize the beauty in completion. It signifies prosperity and contentment within your personal or professional life.
Keywords:
Upright: Stability, harmony, home, celebration, peace, completion.
The Other Person's Thoughts
Knight of Stakes
Reversed
Symbolism:
A pale knight rides a black horse, embodying contrast and duality. His determined expression and swift movement suggest ambition and change, while the dark tones hint at the risks associated with bold actions.
Meaning:
The Knight of Stakes represents action, change, and determination. It signifies movement, whether physical or metaphorical, and encourages you to embrace transformation with courage. This card often appears when major changes or decisions are on the horizon.
Reversed, it warns of discord, hasty decisions, or separation. It may also suggest being overly impulsive or struggling to adapt to change.
Keywords:
Reversed: Discord, haste, separation, impulsiveness, resistance to change.
The Querent's Emotions
XIX. The Sun
Symbolism:
The Sun features a radiant figure standing atop a stone altar, their outstretched arms ablaze with golden light. Behind them, a massive blood-red sun dominates the sky, casting warm, revitalizing rays over a once-shadowed landscape. Sunflowers bloom vibrantly in the foreground, representing vitality and joy. A golden wolf stands beside the figure, symbolizing loyalty and enlightenment.
Meaning:
The Sun represents joy, success, and clarity. It heralds a period of positivity, growth, and accomplishment, reminding you to embrace life with enthusiasm and gratitude. This card suggests that challenges are behind you, and a brighter path lies ahead.
Keywords:
Upright: Joy, success, clarity, vitality, growth, positivity, accomplishment.
The Other Person's Emotions
Three of Stakes
Symbolism:
Three stakes pierce a human figure's neck, transforming them into a grotesque scarecrow. The haunting scene evokes the toil and sacrifice required to achieve one's ambitions. The stakes symbolize strength in numbers and the effort needed to succeed, even when the journey feels grueling.
Meaning:
The Three of Stakes represents teamwork, effort, and the establishment of solid foundations. It is a card of growth and progress, highlighting the importance of collaboration and persistence in achieving long-term goals. This card encourages you to rely on allies and work together to achieve success in endeavors involving commerce, trade, or creative ventures.
Keywords:
Upright: Collaboration, progress, teamwork, enterprise, success, foundation.
The Querent's External Stance
Three of Swords
Symbolism:
Three swords pierce a heart, set against a backdrop of dark, foreboding clouds. The heart bleeds, symbolizing the deep pain of betrayal and heartbreak. The ominous sky reinforces the emotional intensity and the sorrow attached to this card.
Meaning:
The Three of Swords is a card of emotional pain, heartbreak, and grief. It represents suffering from loss, betrayal, or separation. The heart pierced by swords highlights the emotional wound, urging you to confront the pain to begin healing.
Keywords:
Upright: Heartbreak, sorrow, grief, emotional pain, loss.
The Other Person's External Stance
Two of Cups
Symbolism:
A young, nude female chained to a dungeon wall is drained of her life force, which fills two cups symbolic of a master's love for bloodlust. The connection between the figures emphasizes emotional entanglement, power dynamics, and the intertwined nature of love and suffering.
Meaning:
The Two of Cups is a card of deep emotional connection, partnership, and harmony. It signifies love, mutual respect, and the bonding between two individuals, whether in a romantic or platonic context. It is the union of two hearts, often indicating the beginning of a significant relationship or partnership.
Keywords:
Upright: Love, partnership, harmony, mutual respect, emotional connection.
