Relationship Spread #1

Relationship Spread #1

 

 

Difficulty: Easy

This tarot spread is easy to read, like a convenient chart. In this spread, court cards generally indicate actual people with the same characteristics. Knights (or corresponding princes, but not kings) and queens are meant to represent actual men and women in this tarot spread. Look for patterns in the cards as always.

Card #1 is the overall significator of the relationship. The two columns on either side of the significator characterise each individual's role in the relationship. The relationship does not have to be romantic. In fact, it could be a relationship between a person and a group, or even how two groups relate.

The top row, cards #7 & #2, is about the conscious thoughts of each person, or what they think about the relationship and likewise how they view their partner.

The middle row, cards #6 & #3, reveals the way each individual feels about the other. Emotional awareness corresponds to a person's unconscious thoughts that run deep, affecting a person in ways he or she is not fully aware of.

The bottom row, cards #5 & #4, represents the way each person behaves, in other words the stance taken regarding the relationship. The way a person acts may be genuine, but sometimes people are phony and manipulative, so it is best to weigh this card against the other person's cards to determine how they match up.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Your Relationship #1 Reading

  You   Other Person
Thought             
Six of Stakes
              
XVI. The Tower
Emotion             
Seven of Swords
The Significator

Eight of Stakes
            
Ace of Cups
External Stance             
Five of Stakes
              
Page of Swords

 

 

 

 

The Significator

Eight of Stakes

Symbolism:
A woman impaled by stakes showcases the cruel extremes of humanity. The stakes, angled as if in motion, represent swiftness and urgency. The scene hints at a world in constant flux, with events moving at an uncontrollable pace.

Meaning:
The Eight of Stakes represents rapid movement, action, and the culmination of efforts. It suggests that things are falling into place, and progress is accelerating toward your goals. This card encourages you to stay focused and prepared for opportunities that arise swiftly. It may also indicate travel, communication, or the arrival of significant news.

Keywords:
Upright: Speed, progress, opportunity, communication, movement, momentum.

 

 

 

 

The Querent's Thoughts

Six of Stakes

Reversed
Symbolism:
A female cadaver, suspended by six stakes, serves as a macabre warning to all who pass. The stakes are arranged as a barrier, both defensive and triumphant, symbolizing victory achieved at a great cost. The ominous scene speaks of hard-won triumphs and the fulfillment of one's ambitions, albeit shadowed by loss.

Meaning:
The Six of Stakes signifies triumph and recognition. It represents a well-earned victory and the satisfaction of achieving goals through perseverance and hard work. This card heralds positive news and fulfillment of long-held desires. It also reminds you to remain humble and grateful in success.

Reversed, the Six warns of delays, paranoia, or feelings of insecurity despite external achievements. It can also point to betrayal or fear of losing one's position.

Keywords:
Reversed: Delays, fear, betrayal, disloyalty, insecurity.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's Thoughts

XVI. The Tower

Reversed
Symbolism:
The Tower is shown as a crumbling gothic spire, struck by lightning and engulfed in flames. Figures are seen falling from the heights, their faces contorted in shock and despair. The dark sky above swirls with storm clouds, while the ground below splits open, exposing molten lava. Amid the destruction, a single raven perches on the rubble, symbolizing the potential for renewal through upheaval.

Meaning:
The Tower represents sudden upheaval, revelation, and the breaking down of false structures. It signals a dramatic, often unexpected event that shakes the foundations of your life, forcing you to confront harsh truths. While challenging, this card ultimately clears the way for genuine growth and transformation.

Reversed, the Tower suggests avoiding necessary change or clinging to unstable circumstances. It may warn of delayed consequences or a refusal to face reality.

Keywords:
Reversed: Resistance, avoidance, delayed change, denial, suppressed upheaval, lingering instability.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Querent's Emotions

Seven of Swords

Reversed
Symbolism:
A cunning thief is shown stealing five of seven swords, his movements calculated and deliberate. He takes only what he can carry, leaving just enough behind to avoid detection. This image portrays strategy, cleverness, and moral ambiguity, reflecting the complexity of navigating difficult situations.

Meaning:
The Seven of Swords represents strategy, cunning, and the courage to take calculated risks. It suggests that bold action may be necessary to achieve your goals, even if it challenges conventional ethics. The card also highlights the importance of discretion and planning in overcoming obstacles.

Reversed, the Seven of Swords warns of dangerous plans that may fail or expose you to harm. It can indicate quarrels, deceit, or gossip that undermines trust. This card urges caution and vigilance in the face of potential betrayal or missteps.

Keywords:
Reversed: Failure, exposure, betrayal, quarrels, gossip, danger.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's Emotions

Ace of Cups

Reversed
Symbolism:
A pale hand drains the life force out of a female who has sacrificed herself to fill an unholy grail. This act of devotion and consumption illustrates the intense, transformative power of emotional energy. The grail symbolizes the heart, while the act of sacrifice represents the giving and receiving of love, both nourishing and consuming.

Meaning:
The Ace of Cups represents new beginnings in matters of the heart, overflowing with emotional potential. It is a card of love, joy, and emotional fulfillment, suggesting the start of a fresh emotional journey or a deepened connection with others. It signifies a time of abundance, where feelings of happiness, empathy, and compassion can fill your life.

Reversed, it warns of emotional instability, deceit, or manipulation. It can signal that emotional needs are being ignored or that love has been tainted by false intentions.

Keywords:
Reversed: Emotional instability, deceit, unfulfilled emotions, manipulation.

 

 

 

 

The Querent's External Stance

Five of Stakes

Reversed
Symbolism:
A man trapped in a pit, impaled by five stakes, fights against overwhelming odds. The struggle is real and relentless, representing competition, ambition, and the challenges faced in the pursuit of success. His tattered state hints at the toll such pursuits can take on one's spirit.

Meaning:
The Five of Stakes represents conflict, rivalry, and the test of one's determination. It reflects the spirited competition and the drive to rise above challenges. While the fight may be strenuous, it also forges resilience and sharpens your focus. This card encourages perseverance despite obstacles.

Reversed, the card warns of deceit, disputes, or challenges born from misunderstandings. It calls for honesty and clarity in your actions.

Keywords:
Reversed: Disputes, deception, confusion, hypocrisy.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's External Stance

Page of Swords

Symbolism:
A young Page stands vigilant, holding his sword balanced with its tip pointed earthward. His posture conveys readiness, alertness, and a cautious approach to potential threats. Though at rest, his eyes scan the horizon, reflecting curiosity and a hunger for knowledge.

Meaning:
The Page of Swords represents curiosity, observation, and a keen intellect. It suggests a time for learning, exploration, or gathering information before acting. This card often represents someone who is eager to uncover truths or defend their beliefs with determination.

Keywords:
Upright: Vigilance, observation, curiosity, intellect, communication, preparation.

 

 

 

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