Relationship Spread #1

Difficulty: Easy
This tarot spread is easy to read, like a convenient chart. In this spread, court cards generally indicate actual people with the same characteristics. Knights (or corresponding princes, but not kings) and queens are meant to represent actual men and women in this tarot spread. Look for patterns in the cards as always.
Card #1 is the overall significator of the relationship. The two columns on either side of the significator characterise each individual's role in the relationship. The relationship does not have to be romantic. In fact, it could be a relationship between a person and a group, or even how two groups relate.
The top row, cards #7 & #2, is about the conscious thoughts of each person, or what they think about the relationship and likewise how they view their partner.
The middle row, cards #6 & #3, reveals the way each individual feels about the other. Emotional awareness corresponds to a person's unconscious thoughts that run deep, affecting a person in ways he or she is not fully aware of.
The bottom row, cards #5 & #4, represents the way each person behaves, in other words the stance taken regarding the relationship. The way a person acts may be genuine, but sometimes people are phony and manipulative, so it is best to weigh this card against the other person's cards to determine how they match up.
Your Relationship #1 Reading
| You | Other Person | ||
| Thought | ![]() XVI. The Tower |
![]() XIV. Temperance |
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| Emotion | ![]() Seven of Pentagrams |
The Significator![]() II. The Priestess |
![]() King of Swords |
| External Stance | ![]() Queen of Stakes |
![]() Ace of Swords |
The Significator
II. The Priestess
Symbolism:
The High Priestess holds a luminous sphere of power close to her womb, symbolizing the nurturing of secrets and inner knowledge. She is cloaked in flowing robes of dark and silvery hues, blending shadow and light to represent duality and balance. Behind her, the faint outline of a moonlit landscape hints at the cycles of nature and the mysteries of the subconscious. Her gaze is serene yet penetrating, as though she sees through to the core of truth.
Meaning:
The High Priestess signifies intuition, hidden wisdom, and the power of stillness. She encourages introspection and the pursuit of knowledge that lies beneath the surface. This card often appears when it is time to listen to your inner voice and trust the subtle cues of your environment. It may suggest secrets yet to be revealed or a need to delve deeper into your own emotions and spirituality.
Keywords:
Upright: Intuition, mystery, inner wisdom, reflection, subconscious, patience, hidden truths.
The Querent's Thoughts
XVI. The Tower
Symbolism:
The Tower is shown as a crumbling gothic spire, struck by lightning and engulfed in flames. Figures are seen falling from the heights, their faces contorted in shock and despair. The dark sky above swirls with storm clouds, while the ground below splits open, exposing molten lava. Amid the destruction, a single raven perches on the rubble, symbolizing the potential for renewal through upheaval.
Meaning:
The Tower represents sudden upheaval, revelation, and the breaking down of false structures. It signals a dramatic, often unexpected event that shakes the foundations of your life, forcing you to confront harsh truths. While challenging, this card ultimately clears the way for genuine growth and transformation.
Keywords:
Upright: Upheaval, revelation, chaos, destruction, truth, transformation, awakening.
The Other Person's Thoughts
XIV. Temperance
Symbolism:
Temperance is represented by a vampiric figure gracefully pouring a stream of crimson liquid from one chalice into another, symbolizing balance and harmony. She stands with one foot in a dark pool and the other on solid ground, representing the interplay between emotion and reason. Her wings are half-feathered, half-batlike, indicating the union of opposing forces. The background shifts between twilight and dawn, underscoring equilibrium.
Meaning:
Temperance embodies balance, moderation, and the harmonious blending of opposites. It encourages patience and the careful integration of different aspects of your life. This card often suggests the need for self-restraint, collaboration, or finding common ground in a situation.
Keywords:
Upright: Balance, harmony, moderation, patience, integration, adaptability, calm.
The Querent's Emotions
Seven of Pentagrams
Reversed
Symbolism:
A gravedigger stands proudly, posing for a photograph while covering his tracks. This card speaks to the satisfaction derived from one's labor, but also hints at the pride that can arise from success.
Meaning:
The Seven of Pentagrams represents work well done, success in business, and careful management of resources. It highlights the importance of planning, trade, and the use of one's skills in order to reap the benefits of hard work. It invites a reflection on the value of patience and long-term effort.
Reversed, it warns against bad deals, financial anxiety, or arguments over resources. It may suggest a failed business venture or dishonesty in financial exchanges.
Keywords:
Reversed: Bad deals, financial strain, dishonesty, anxiety.
The Other Person's Emotions
King of Swords
Reversed
Symbolism:
The King of Swords sits on his throne, holding two swords of justice crossed in front of him. His gaze is piercing and authoritative, reflecting a mastery of reason and balance. The environment around him is austere, emphasizing his focus on logic, law, and the pursuit of truth. His presence radiates power, intellect, and discipline.
Meaning:
The King of Swords symbolizes authority, rationality, and the power of thought. He embodies clarity, fair judgment, and leadership, urging you to approach situations with logic and integrity. This card often appears when strong leadership or impartiality is needed to resolve a conflict or make a critical decision.
Reversed, the King of Swords suggests abuse of power, cruelty, or arrogance. It may indicate someone who uses intellect or authority for selfish or harmful purposes. This card warns against being overly rigid, manipulative, or detached in your interactions.
Keywords:
Reversed: Abuse of power, arrogance, cruelty, manipulation, rigidity, dishonesty.
The Querent's External Stance
Queen of Stakes
Symbolism:
The Queen of Stakes stands proudly, her fangs bared in defiance. The impaled victims behind her serve as a stark reminder of her strength and resolve. She is both nurturing and fierce, embodying the duality of creation and destruction.
Meaning:
The Queen of Stakes symbolizes independence, confidence, and the ability to lead with compassion and strength. She encourages you to harness your inner power and remain true to yourself. This card often indicates success in business or personal endeavors.
Keywords:
Upright: Confidence, independence, strength, leadership, success, compassion.
The Other Person's External Stance
Ace of Swords
Symbolism:
A hand emerges from the clouds, gripping a freshly used sword. The sword gleams with power, representing intellectual triumph and clarity that has recently been achieved. The imagery suggests that a great mental breakthrough has just occurred or is about to.
Meaning:
The Ace of Swords symbolizes a surge of clarity, a breakthrough, or a new intellectual beginning. It represents the power of the mind and clear communication. This card marks the moment when confusion is cut through, and truth is revealed. It signifies victory through rationality, logic, and truth.
Keywords:
Upright: Clarity, new beginnings, breakthroughs, intellectual power, truth.
