Relationship Spread #1
Difficulty: Easy
This tarot spread is easy to read, like a convenient chart. In this spread, court cards generally indicate actual people with the same characteristics. Knights (or corresponding princes, but not kings) and queens are meant to represent actual men and women in this tarot spread. Look for patterns in the cards as always.
Card #1 is the overall significator of the relationship. The two columns on either side of the significator characterise each individual's role in the relationship. The relationship does not have to be romantic. In fact, it could be a relationship between a person and a group, or even how two groups relate.
The top row, cards #7 & #2, is about the conscious thoughts of each person, or what they think about the relationship and likewise how they view their partner.
The middle row, cards #6 & #3, reveals the way each individual feels about the other. Emotional awareness corresponds to a person's unconscious thoughts that run deep, affecting a person in ways he or she is not fully aware of.
The bottom row, cards #5 & #4, represents the way each person behaves, in other words the stance taken regarding the relationship. The way a person acts may be genuine, but sometimes people are phony and manipulative, so it is best to weigh this card against the other person's cards to determine how they match up.
Your Relationship #1 Reading
You | Other Person | ||
Thought | ![]() Ace of Pentagrams |
![]() XIV. Temperance |
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Emotion | ![]() Three of Swords |
The Significator![]() King of Pentagrams |
![]() Eight of Stakes |
External Stance | ![]() III. The Empress |
![]() Knight of Pentagrams |

The Significator
King of Pentagrams
Reversed
Symbolism:
A wise king adorned with a large pentagram holds his reign in a posture of strength and control. He represents mastery over material resources and the ability to wield power with integrity and wisdom.
Meaning:
The King of Pentagrams signifies success, mastery, and the completion of a journey towards wealth and stability. This card speaks to practical wisdom, resourcefulness, and the ability to create long-lasting success. It encourages you to embody leadership and strategic thinking in your endeavors.
Reversed, it suggests a misuse of power, corruption, or an unwillingness to take responsibility for your actions. It may indicate a lack of integrity or wisdom in handling resources.
Keywords:
Reversed: Corruption, misuse of power, irresponsibility, lack of integrity.

The Querent's Thoughts
Ace of Pentagrams
Symbolism:
A pentagram rests as an orb upon a sceptre, impaling a female vampire in the heart. This act is not one of violence, but of love—symbolizing a powerful force that connects creation and destruction. The pentagram, a symbol of power and balance, represents material beginnings, prosperity, and the strength that lies within one's creative or financial pursuits.
Meaning:
The Ace of Pentagrams signifies new beginnings in material or financial matters. It heralds prosperity, intelligent planning, and the initiation of creative projects. It may point to the birth of an idea that will grow into something tangible and successful. This card invites you to tap into your skills and resources to manifest your desires.
Keywords:
Upright: Prosperity, new beginnings, material success, creativity, financial opportunity.

The Other Person's Thoughts
XIV. Temperance
Reversed
Symbolism:
Temperance is represented by a vampiric figure gracefully pouring a stream of crimson liquid from one chalice into another, symbolizing balance and harmony. She stands with one foot in a dark pool and the other on solid ground, representing the interplay between emotion and reason. Her wings are half-feathered, half-batlike, indicating the union of opposing forces. The background shifts between twilight and dawn, underscoring equilibrium.
Meaning:
Temperance embodies balance, moderation, and the harmonious blending of opposites. It encourages patience and the careful integration of different aspects of your life. This card often suggests the need for self-restraint, collaboration, or finding common ground in a situation.
Reversed, Temperance warns of excess, discord, or impatience. It may indicate a lack of balance or difficulty reconciling conflicting priorities or emotions.
Keywords:
Reversed: Excess, imbalance, discord, impatience, extremes, lack of focus.

The Querent's Emotions
Three of Swords
Reversed
Symbolism:
Three swords pierce a heart, and darkness looms in the background, indicating sorrow, emotional pain, and heartbreak.
Meaning:
The Three of Swords signifies emotional pain, heartbreak, and mental suffering. It points to grief, loss, and the pain of separation. It suggests that painful truths are being faced or that an emotional wound is still raw. It is a card of sorrow, regret, and mental anguish.
Reversed, it signals recovery from emotional turmoil or a lesser degree of pain. Alternatively, it may represent denial or avoidance of the emotional truth, preventing full healing.
Keywords:
Reversed: Recovery, emotional release, confusion, disorder.

The Other Person's Emotions
Eight of Stakes
Symbolism:
A woman impaled by stakes showcases the cruel extremes of humanity. The stakes, angled as if in motion, represent swiftness and urgency. The scene hints at a world in constant flux, with events moving at an uncontrollable pace.
Meaning:
The Eight of Stakes represents rapid movement, action, and the culmination of efforts. It suggests that things are falling into place, and progress is accelerating toward your goals. This card encourages you to stay focused and prepared for opportunities that arise swiftly. It may also indicate travel, communication, or the arrival of significant news.
Keywords:
Upright: Speed, progress, opportunity, communication, movement, momentum.

The Querent's External Stance
III. The Empress
Symbolism:
The Empress sits upon her throne, her presence commanding yet nurturing. She holds the Hand of Glory, a macabre artifact symbolizing her power to claim whatever she desires. Her surroundings are lush and fertile, with dark roses blooming amidst the decay—symbols of beauty and abundance arising from even the grimmest conditions. Her expression is one of calm authority, radiating life-giving energy.
Meaning:
The Empress represents creation, fertility, and the nurturing aspects of life. She signifies abundance and the ability to bring ideas, projects, or relationships to fruition. This card invites you to connect with your creative or maternal instincts and embrace the cycles of growth and renewal. It may also point to emotional or physical abundance and a celebration of life's pleasures.
Keywords:
Upright: Fertility, abundance, creation, nurturing, beauty, growth, motherhood, diplomacy.

The Other Person's External Stance
Knight of Pentagrams
Symbolism:
A knight bearing a pentagram signals the arrival of important news, symbolizing responsibility, discipline, and service. His steady demeanor suggests that success is achieved through diligent work and careful planning.
Meaning:
The Knight of Pentagrams represents service, responsibility, and a strong work ethic. It suggests that you are in a position to fulfill your obligations and take care of important matters. This card encourages patience and diligence in your endeavors.
Keywords:
Upright: Responsibility, diligence, service, hard work, reliability.