Relationship Spread #1

Relationship Spread #1

 

 

Difficulty: Easy

This tarot spread is easy to read, like a convenient chart. In this spread, court cards generally indicate actual people with the same characteristics. Knights (or corresponding princes, but not kings) and queens are meant to represent actual men and women in this tarot spread. Look for patterns in the cards as always.

Card #1 is the overall significator of the relationship. The two columns on either side of the significator characterise each individual's role in the relationship. The relationship does not have to be romantic. In fact, it could be a relationship between a person and a group, or even how two groups relate.

The top row, cards #7 & #2, is about the conscious thoughts of each person, or what they think about the relationship and likewise how they view their partner.

The middle row, cards #6 & #3, reveals the way each individual feels about the other. Emotional awareness corresponds to a person's unconscious thoughts that run deep, affecting a person in ways he or she is not fully aware of.

The bottom row, cards #5 & #4, represents the way each person behaves, in other words the stance taken regarding the relationship. The way a person acts may be genuine, but sometimes people are phony and manipulative, so it is best to weigh this card against the other person's cards to determine how they match up.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Your Relationship #1 Reading

  You   Other Person
Thought             
Nine of Stakes
              
XVIII. The Moon
Emotion             
XX. Judgement
The Significator

VIII. Strength
            
Seven of Pentagrams
External Stance             
Eight of Stakes
              
Ten of Cups

 

 

 

 

The Significator

VIII. Strength

Symbolism:
Strength is portrayed as a vampiric figure gently taming a feral wolf under the light of a crescent moon. The figure's touch is both commanding and tender, symbolizing the balance of power and compassion. The wolf, once a creature of wild aggression, now gazes at its tamer with loyalty and calm. Around them, thorny vines twist, a reminder of the challenges inherent in mastering one's inner beasts.

Meaning:
Strength embodies courage, inner power, and the triumph of compassion over brute force. It urges you to face challenges with patience and resilience, relying on your inner calm to overcome fear and adversity. This card often signals the need to master emotions, demonstrating that true strength lies in self-control and grace.

Keywords:
Upright: Inner strength, courage, resilience, patience, self-control, compassion, calm.

 

 

 

 

The Querent's Thoughts

Nine of Stakes

Symbolism:
A grotesque figure hangs upside down, pierced by nine stakes in a horrific display of defiance and suffering. The unsettling scene illustrates the resilience required to endure opposition and remain steadfast in the face of challenges.

Meaning:
The Nine of Stakes is a card of resilience and strength under pressure. It symbolizes the final push before success, encouraging you to persevere despite fatigue or hardship. This card warns of challenges but assures you that your determination will see you through.

Keywords:
Upright: Resilience, determination, endurance, courage, final challenge.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's Thoughts

XVIII. The Moon

Symbolism:
The Moon is depicted as a blood-red orb casting an eerie glow over a desolate landscape. Two wolves—one dark and one light—howl at the moon, representing instinct and duality. A twisted, thorn-covered path winds between them, leading into a dense forest shrouded in mist. Shadows shift and twist unnaturally, suggesting the illusions and fears that dwell in the subconscious.

Meaning:
The Moon symbolizes intuition, dreams, and the realm of the subconscious. It warns of illusions, hidden truths, or fears clouding your judgment. This card encourages trusting your instincts and exploring your inner world to uncover what lies beneath the surface.

Keywords:
Upright: Intuition, dreams, subconscious, illusion, mystery, emotions, uncertainty.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Querent's Emotions

XX. Judgement

Symbolism:
Judgment depicts a haunting scene of the dead rising from crypts bathed in an eerie, silvery glow. A vampire angel hovers above, blowing a trumpet, its sound visible as luminous, curling waves. The figures below lift their arms skyward, drawn by the call to awakening. A massive, ancient tree stands in the background, its roots tangled with bones, symbolizing the cyclical nature of life and death.

Meaning:
Judgment signifies renewal, self-assessment, and a call to rise above the past. It asks you to confront your actions, choices, and truths, encouraging accountability and forgiveness. This card often appears during moments of profound transition, marking the opportunity to shed old burdens and embrace a higher purpose.

Keywords:
Upright: Awakening, renewal, self-assessment, reckoning, forgiveness, rebirth, transformation.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's Emotions

Seven of Pentagrams

Reversed
Symbolism:
A gravedigger stands proudly, posing for a photograph while covering his tracks. This card speaks to the satisfaction derived from one's labor, but also hints at the pride that can arise from success.

Meaning:
The Seven of Pentagrams represents work well done, success in business, and careful management of resources. It highlights the importance of planning, trade, and the use of one's skills in order to reap the benefits of hard work. It invites a reflection on the value of patience and long-term effort.

Reversed, it warns against bad deals, financial anxiety, or arguments over resources. It may suggest a failed business venture or dishonesty in financial exchanges.

Keywords:
Reversed: Bad deals, financial strain, dishonesty, anxiety.

 

 

 

 

The Querent's External Stance

Eight of Stakes

Reversed
Symbolism:
A woman impaled by stakes showcases the cruel extremes of humanity. The stakes, angled as if in motion, represent swiftness and urgency. The scene hints at a world in constant flux, with events moving at an uncontrollable pace.

Meaning:
The Eight of Stakes represents rapid movement, action, and the culmination of efforts. It suggests that things are falling into place, and progress is accelerating toward your goals. This card encourages you to stay focused and prepared for opportunities that arise swiftly. It may also indicate travel, communication, or the arrival of significant news.

Reversed, the card points to inner turmoil, quarrels, or jealousy disrupting progress. It may also indicate delays or an inability to move forward due to unresolved issues.

Keywords:
Reversed: Delays, jealousy, conflict, stasis, miscommunication.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's External Stance

Ten of Cups

Reversed
Symbolism:
Ten used cups sit in storage, while a skull watches over them. The imagery suggests a sense of completion, fulfillment, and the closing of a chapter, but also a reminder that all things come to an end.

Meaning:
The Ten of Cups represents emotional fulfillment, contentment, and happiness in relationships. It is the ultimate expression of emotional satisfaction, often symbolizing harmony in family life, long-lasting love, or the completion of an emotional journey. It suggests a sense of peace and joy, where all emotions align, and dreams come true.

Reversed, this card warns of emotional disconnection or the end of a previously harmonious situation. It may indicate broken relationships, family conflicts, or feelings of dissatisfaction despite outward appearances.

Keywords:
Reversed: Disconnection, broken relationships, emotional dissatisfaction, family conflicts.

 

 

 

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