Relationship Spread #1

Relationship Spread #1

 

 

Difficulty: Easy

This tarot spread is easy to read, like a convenient chart. In this spread, court cards generally indicate actual people with the same characteristics. Knights (or corresponding princes, but not kings) and queens are meant to represent actual men and women in this tarot spread. Look for patterns in the cards as always.

Card #1 is the overall significator of the relationship. The two columns on either side of the significator characterise each individual's role in the relationship. The relationship does not have to be romantic. In fact, it could be a relationship between a person and a group, or even how two groups relate.

The top row, cards #7 & #2, is about the conscious thoughts of each person, or what they think about the relationship and likewise how they view their partner.

The middle row, cards #6 & #3, reveals the way each individual feels about the other. Emotional awareness corresponds to a person's unconscious thoughts that run deep, affecting a person in ways he or she is not fully aware of.

The bottom row, cards #5 & #4, represents the way each person behaves, in other words the stance taken regarding the relationship. The way a person acts may be genuine, but sometimes people are phony and manipulative, so it is best to weigh this card against the other person's cards to determine how they match up.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Your Relationship #1 Reading

  You   Other Person
Thought             
Three of Pentagrams
              
Knight of Swords
Emotion             
Queen of Stakes
The Significator

Four of Swords
            
I. The Magician
External Stance             
Five of Pentagrams
              
Seven of Pentagrams

 

 

 

 

The Significator

Four of Swords

Reversed
Symbolism:
An effigy of a knight lies in a meditation pose upon his tomb, suggesting rest, retreat, or a time for inner reflection.

Meaning:
The Four of Swords indicates a need for rest, recuperation, and reflection. It suggests taking a step back to heal, recover, or regain mental clarity. It may represent a period of retreat or silence, where one needs to recharge before moving forward.

Reversed, this card could indicate the inability to take a break, exhaustion, or a failure to properly reflect before making decisions. It can also point to reluctance to rest or the postponement of necessary action.

Keywords:
Reversed: Exhaustion, mental fatigue, inability to rest, missed opportunities.

 

 

 

 

The Querent's Thoughts

Three of Pentagrams

Reversed
Symbolism:
Three upright coffins sit in a dungeon, each holding a sleeping vampire. This scene symbolizes craftsmanship, mastery, and recognition. The coffins represent the culmination of skilled labor, each one a testament to work well done and renown earned.

Meaning:
The Three of Pentagrams speaks to skill, artistry, and the recognition of one's talents. It suggests that your hard work is being acknowledged, and you are on the path to success through dedication and mastery. This card can point to collaboration and the value of teamwork in achieving greater things.

Reversed, it may indicate a lack of recognition, mediocrity, or a situation where your talents are not being fully utilized. It warns against falling into complacency or settling for less than your true potential.

Keywords:
Reversed: Mediocrity, underachievement, lack of recognition, missed opportunities.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's Thoughts

Knight of Swords

Symbolism:
A pale Knight rides a dark horse at breakneck speed, his face etched with fear. It is not fear of the world, but fear of the destructive potential he knows lies within himself. The stormy skies around him reflect the chaos and intensity of his internal conflict.

Meaning:
The Knight of Swords represents swift action, bravery, and the pursuit of truth or justice. It signifies decisiveness, energy, and the willingness to confront challenges head-on. This card often appears during moments of intense effort or when boldness is required.

Keywords:
Upright: Bravery, action, decisiveness, skill, pursuit of justice, boldness.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Querent's Emotions

Queen of Stakes

Reversed
Symbolism:
The Queen of Stakes stands proudly, her fangs bared in defiance. The impaled victims behind her serve as a stark reminder of her strength and resolve. She is both nurturing and fierce, embodying the duality of creation and destruction.

Meaning:
The Queen of Stakes symbolizes independence, confidence, and the ability to lead with compassion and strength. She encourages you to harness your inner power and remain true to yourself. This card often indicates success in business or personal endeavors.

Reversed, the Queen warns of jealousy, deceit, or opposition. It may also suggest a lack of self-confidence or struggles with balancing emotions.

Keywords:
Reversed: Jealousy, deceit, insecurity, opposition, imbalance.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's Emotions

I. The Magician

Reversed
Symbolism:
The Magician is depicted as a Nosferatu vampire standing in a commanding pose, a sphere of influence hovering above his outstretched hand. This sphere glows with an otherworldly light, symbolizing his power to manipulate unseen forces. His posture exudes confidence, and the tools of his craft—representing the elements—are subtly embedded in the imagery, hinting at his mastery over earth, air, fire, and water. The shadows around him pulse with potential, representing untapped energy and possibility.

Meaning:
The Magician embodies willpower, creativity, and the ability to manifest one's desires. He is the ultimate initiator, reminding you that you have the power within to transform ideas into reality. This card urges action and focus, calling upon the seeker to harness their innate talents and take charge of their destiny. In situations requiring ingenuity or problem-solving, the Magician assures you that all the tools you need are at your disposal.

Reversed, this card warns of misuse of power, manipulation, or deceit. It may suggest self-doubt, a lack of clarity, or misguided actions that backfire due to overconfidence or ill intentions.

Keywords:
Reversed: Manipulation, deception, power misuse, lack of direction, overconfidence, self-doubt.

 

 

 

 

The Querent's External Stance

Five of Pentagrams

Symbolism:
Outside of the devil's church, a vampire lies in a heap of his own vomit, symbolizing excess, indulgence, and the consequences of material excess. The scene reflects the dangers of overindulgence and losing control.

Meaning:
The Five of Pentagrams represents material loss, poverty, and hardship. It signifies a time of struggle, where one may feel destitute or faced with overwhelming financial or personal challenges. It warns of consequences from reckless decisions and suggests that emotional support or help may be needed to overcome this period.

Keywords:
Upright: Loss, poverty, hardship, crisis, vulnerability.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's External Stance

Seven of Pentagrams

Reversed
Symbolism:
A gravedigger stands proudly, posing for a photograph while covering his tracks. This card speaks to the satisfaction derived from one's labor, but also hints at the pride that can arise from success.

Meaning:
The Seven of Pentagrams represents work well done, success in business, and careful management of resources. It highlights the importance of planning, trade, and the use of one's skills in order to reap the benefits of hard work. It invites a reflection on the value of patience and long-term effort.

Reversed, it warns against bad deals, financial anxiety, or arguments over resources. It may suggest a failed business venture or dishonesty in financial exchanges.

Keywords:
Reversed: Bad deals, financial strain, dishonesty, anxiety.

 

 

 

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