Relationship Spread #1

Relationship Spread #1

 

 

Difficulty: Easy

This tarot spread is easy to read, like a convenient chart. In this spread, court cards generally indicate actual people with the same characteristics. Knights (or corresponding princes, but not kings) and queens are meant to represent actual men and women in this tarot spread. Look for patterns in the cards as always.

Card #1 is the overall significator of the relationship. The two columns on either side of the significator characterise each individual's role in the relationship. The relationship does not have to be romantic. In fact, it could be a relationship between a person and a group, or even how two groups relate.

The top row, cards #7 & #2, is about the conscious thoughts of each person, or what they think about the relationship and likewise how they view their partner.

The middle row, cards #6 & #3, reveals the way each individual feels about the other. Emotional awareness corresponds to a person's unconscious thoughts that run deep, affecting a person in ways he or she is not fully aware of.

The bottom row, cards #5 & #4, represents the way each person behaves, in other words the stance taken regarding the relationship. The way a person acts may be genuine, but sometimes people are phony and manipulative, so it is best to weigh this card against the other person's cards to determine how they match up.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Your Relationship #1 Reading

  You   Other Person
Thought             
Two of Stakes
              
Five of Cups
Emotion             
Six of Pentagrams
The Significator

Eight of Cups
            
Four of Cups
External Stance             
Five of Pentagrams
              
Seven of Swords

 

 

 

 

The Significator

Eight of Cups

Symbolism:
Eight cups filled with life-giving sustenance fuel the party at dusk, urging the participants to break through to a new experience. The card reflects the need for a transformative journey.

Meaning:
The Eight of Cups signals a turning point, where something needs to be left behind in order to move toward new emotional growth. It often signifies the need to leave behind past emotional attachments to make room for new experiences. It can also point to personal growth and a desire to transcend superficial satisfaction.

Keywords:
Upright: Emotional transition, leaving the past behind, personal growth, transformation.

 

 

 

 

The Querent's Thoughts

Two of Stakes

Reversed
Symbolism:
A vampire spews forth the life force he has consumed, a dramatic display of surprise and chaotic energy. The heart, pierced by a stake, symbolizes duality—an ending and a new possibility, the destruction of one path to illuminate another. The overflowing energy represents the unpredictability of partnership and cooperation.

Meaning:
The Two of Stakes signals a crossroads where choices must be made. It is a card of balance and partnership, representing the potential for collaboration or conflict. This card urges careful consideration and planning before proceeding, as your choices now will shape your future path. It can signify unexpected surprises, wonder, and a touch of enchantment that transforms your perspective.

Reversed, the card warns of discord, minor disappointments, or fear of moving forward. It may reflect internal struggles or external obstacles disrupting harmony.

Keywords:
Reversed: Conflict, disappointment, delays, fear, internal struggle.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's Thoughts

Five of Cups

Reversed
Symbolism:
Five toppled cups form a pentagram, with something undiscernible at the center. The destruction and loss are apparent, yet the hidden element suggests that something valuable might still remain.

Meaning:
The Five of Cups represents loss, grief, and emotional upset. It suggests the need to process and mourn a loss, be it personal or emotional. This card encourages you to acknowledge your sorrow while being open to healing. It is also a reminder to focus not just on what has been lost but on what remains.

Reversed, it indicates recovery, the return of what was lost, or the resolution of past grief. It may also point to false hope or unresolved emotional baggage that still lingers.

Keywords:
Reversed: Recovery, resolution, overcoming grief, false hope, emotional baggage.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Querent's Emotions

Six of Pentagrams

Symbolism:
Two men beg a seductive vampire, one drained, the other eager for his turn. This scene represents generosity, power dynamics, and the exchange of resources—both material and emotional.

Meaning:
The Six of Pentagrams signifies giving and receiving, with a focus on generosity and balance in exchanges. It may indicate a time when you are helping others or receiving aid, and it highlights the importance of fairness and reciprocity. It suggests prosperity through kindness, vigilance, and prudence.

Keywords:
Upright: Generosity, aid, balance, prosperity, reciprocity.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's Emotions

Four of Cups

Reversed
Symbolism:
Two female vampires revel in the night, intoxicated by an excess of life force. Their satiation and indulgence highlight the dangers of overindulgence, while the cups represent both nourishment and excess.

Meaning:
The Four of Cups suggests the enjoyment of life, novelty, and pleasure. It indicates a time for exploration and a renewed sense of joy. This card can point to social events or gatherings where joy is found in connection and revelry. It also symbolizes the introduction of new opportunities, making it a time of emotional satisfaction and new connections.

Reversed, the card warns of weariness, aversion, or dissatisfaction despite indulgence. It may point to disillusionment with current pleasures or a sense of boredom in relationships.

Keywords:
Reversed: Weariness, dissatisfaction, aversion, boredom, disillusionment.

 

 

 

 

The Querent's External Stance

Five of Pentagrams

Reversed
Symbolism:
Outside of the devil's church, a vampire lies in a heap of his own vomit, symbolizing excess, indulgence, and the consequences of material excess. The scene reflects the dangers of overindulgence and losing control.

Meaning:
The Five of Pentagrams represents material loss, poverty, and hardship. It signifies a time of struggle, where one may feel destitute or faced with overwhelming financial or personal challenges. It warns of consequences from reckless decisions and suggests that emotional support or help may be needed to overcome this period.

Reversed, it points to chaos, insecurity, and failed endeavors. It may indicate that the situation is worsened by your own actions or choices, leading to ruin, envy, or bad outcomes.

Keywords:
Reversed: Chaos, ruin, envy, insecurity, wasted opportunities.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's External Stance

Seven of Swords

Symbolism:
A cunning thief is shown stealing five of seven swords, his movements calculated and deliberate. He takes only what he can carry, leaving just enough behind to avoid detection. This image portrays strategy, cleverness, and moral ambiguity, reflecting the complexity of navigating difficult situations.

Meaning:
The Seven of Swords represents strategy, cunning, and the courage to take calculated risks. It suggests that bold action may be necessary to achieve your goals, even if it challenges conventional ethics. The card also highlights the importance of discretion and planning in overcoming obstacles.

Keywords:
Upright: Strategy, cunning, cleverness, calculated risk, bravery, justified action.

 

 

 

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