Relationship Spread #1

Relationship Spread #1

 

 

Difficulty: Easy

This tarot spread is easy to read, like a convenient chart. In this spread, court cards generally indicate actual people with the same characteristics. Knights (or corresponding princes, but not kings) and queens are meant to represent actual men and women in this tarot spread. Look for patterns in the cards as always.

Card #1 is the overall significator of the relationship. The two columns on either side of the significator characterise each individual's role in the relationship. The relationship does not have to be romantic. In fact, it could be a relationship between a person and a group, or even how two groups relate.

The top row, cards #7 & #2, is about the conscious thoughts of each person, or what they think about the relationship and likewise how they view their partner.

The middle row, cards #6 & #3, reveals the way each individual feels about the other. Emotional awareness corresponds to a person's unconscious thoughts that run deep, affecting a person in ways he or she is not fully aware of.

The bottom row, cards #5 & #4, represents the way each person behaves, in other words the stance taken regarding the relationship. The way a person acts may be genuine, but sometimes people are phony and manipulative, so it is best to weigh this card against the other person's cards to determine how they match up.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Your Relationship #1 Reading

  You   Other Person
Thought             
Eight of Swords
              
Five of Stakes
Emotion             
XIII. Death
The Significator

XI. Justice
            
Page of Swords
External Stance             
VI. The Lovers
              
Knight of Cups

 

 

 

 

The Significator

XI. Justice

Reversed
Symbolism:
Justice is depicted as a pale, vampiric figure holding a pair of scales in one hand and a blood-stained sword in the other. One side of the scale holds a black feather, while the other holds a human heart, symbolizing the balance between moral accountability and emotional truth. Her blindfold is sheer, hinting at impartiality tempered with insight. Behind her, a blood-red curtain reveals fragmented mirrors reflecting distorted truths.

Meaning:
Justice embodies fairness, truth, and accountability. She calls for honesty and objectivity in your actions and decisions, ensuring that you consider all perspectives before rendering judgment. This card often signals the need to weigh your choices carefully and to take responsibility for the consequences of past actions.

Reversed, Justice suggests imbalance, dishonesty, or unfair treatment. It may indicate a refusal to acknowledge the truth or an avoidance of accountability for your actions.

Keywords:
Reversed: Dishonesty, unfairness, imbalance, corruption, denial of truth, avoidance.

 

 

 

 

The Querent's Thoughts

Eight of Swords

Reversed
Symbolism:
A young woman lies motionless, stabbed from both the front and the back by swords. Unlike a self-inflicted fate, the wounds reveal a betrayal or attack from all sides, symbolizing entrapment and the powerlessness that stems from external forces.

Meaning:
The Eight of Swords signifies mental entrapment, limitation, and the feeling of being cornered. It highlights the power of negative thoughts or external pressures that leave you paralyzed. However, the card reminds you that escape is often possible if you change your mindset or perspective.

Reversed, the Eight of Swords reflects the breaking of these mental or emotional chains. It suggests newfound freedom, clarity, or the chance to overcome previously overwhelming challenges. However, it may also point to unexpected disasters or lingering traps yet to be avoided.

Keywords:
Reversed: Release, freedom, clarity, resolution, unforeseen disaster.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's Thoughts

Five of Stakes

Reversed
Symbolism:
A man trapped in a pit, impaled by five stakes, fights against overwhelming odds. The struggle is real and relentless, representing competition, ambition, and the challenges faced in the pursuit of success. His tattered state hints at the toll such pursuits can take on one's spirit.

Meaning:
The Five of Stakes represents conflict, rivalry, and the test of one's determination. It reflects the spirited competition and the drive to rise above challenges. While the fight may be strenuous, it also forges resilience and sharpens your focus. This card encourages perseverance despite obstacles.

Reversed, the card warns of deceit, disputes, or challenges born from misunderstandings. It calls for honesty and clarity in your actions.

Keywords:
Reversed: Disputes, deception, confusion, hypocrisy.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Querent's Emotions

XIII. Death

Symbolism:
Death is depicted as a cloaked, skeletal figure riding a dark horse with glowing red eyes. In one hand, it wields a scythe, its blade glinting in the moonlight, while the other hand scatters withered petals onto the barren ground. The landscape around them is bleak, with twisted trees and ruins, but in the distance, the faint glow of dawn promises renewal. At the figure's feet, flowers begin to bloom amid the decay.

Meaning:
Death symbolizes transformation, endings, and the promise of new beginnings. It encourages you to release what no longer serves you, making way for growth and renewal. This card often marks a significant transition or the closure of a chapter in life, reminding you that every ending carries the seed of a new beginning.

Keywords:
Upright: Transformation, endings, renewal, release, change, rebirth, closure.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's Emotions

Page of Swords

Reversed
Symbolism:
A young Page stands vigilant, holding his sword balanced with its tip pointed earthward. His posture conveys readiness, alertness, and a cautious approach to potential threats. Though at rest, his eyes scan the horizon, reflecting curiosity and a hunger for knowledge.

Meaning:
The Page of Swords represents curiosity, observation, and a keen intellect. It suggests a time for learning, exploration, or gathering information before acting. This card often represents someone who is eager to uncover truths or defend their beliefs with determination.

Reversed, the Page of Swords warns of unforeseen challenges or a lack of preparedness. It may indicate misinformation, impulsiveness, or difficulties stemming from inadequate planning or premature action.

Keywords:
Reversed: Misinformation, impulsiveness, confusion, unpreparedness, difficulty.

 

 

 

 

The Querent's External Stance

VI. The Lovers

Reversed
Symbolism:
The Lovers stand under a blood-red moon, their forms entwined yet distinct. One figure appears human, while the other is clearly vampiric, emphasizing the tension between attraction and duality. Between them, a single rose blooms, its petals tinged with crimson—a symbol of both love and sacrifice. In the background, a shadowy figure looms, hinting at the influence of external forces or choices yet to be made.

Meaning:
The Lovers symbolize connection, union, and the choices that shape our relationships and paths. This card often appears during moments of deep emotional connection or when a major decision requires alignment with your values and desires. It reminds you to consider the balance of give and take in relationships, whether romantic, platonic, or spiritual.

Reversed, this card warns of disharmony, imbalance, or misaligned priorities in relationships. It may also suggest indecision or a failure to honor your personal values.

Keywords:
Reversed: Disharmony, imbalance, misalignment, indecision, temptation, conflict.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's External Stance

Knight of Cups

Reversed
Symbolism:
A white Knight rides a nightmare, holding a full cup and a full stomach. The imagery suggests a journey, perhaps one of passion or emotion, undertaken with both purpose and indulgence.

Meaning:
The Knight of Cups represents emotional pursuit, charm, and idealism. This card signifies someone who is romantic, passionate, and driven by emotions and desires. It often indicates an invitation, proposal, or movement towards a goal based on emotional fulfillment. The Knight is a messenger, bringing forth opportunities for love, creativity, or spiritual connection.

Reversed, the card represents trickery, manipulation, and deceit. It points to an individual whose actions are guided by ulterior motives or emotional immaturity. It may also indicate an idealized vision of love or relationships that leads to disappointment.

Keywords:
Reversed: Trickery, manipulation, deceit, emotional immaturity, disappointment.

 

 

 

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