Relationship Spread #1

Relationship Spread #1

 

 

Difficulty: Easy

This tarot spread is easy to read, like a convenient chart. In this spread, court cards generally indicate actual people with the same characteristics. Knights (or corresponding princes, but not kings) and queens are meant to represent actual men and women in this tarot spread. Look for patterns in the cards as always.

Card #1 is the overall significator of the relationship. The two columns on either side of the significator characterise each individual's role in the relationship. The relationship does not have to be romantic. In fact, it could be a relationship between a person and a group, or even how two groups relate.

The top row, cards #7 & #2, is about the conscious thoughts of each person, or what they think about the relationship and likewise how they view their partner.

The middle row, cards #6 & #3, reveals the way each individual feels about the other. Emotional awareness corresponds to a person's unconscious thoughts that run deep, affecting a person in ways he or she is not fully aware of.

The bottom row, cards #5 & #4, represents the way each person behaves, in other words the stance taken regarding the relationship. The way a person acts may be genuine, but sometimes people are phony and manipulative, so it is best to weigh this card against the other person's cards to determine how they match up.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Your Relationship #1 Reading

  You   Other Person
Thought             
Ten of Pentagrams
              
XVI. The Tower
Emotion             
Three of Cups
The Significator

Page of Cups
            
Six of Cups
External Stance             
Eight of Swords
              
Two of Swords

 

 

 

 

The Significator

Page of Cups

Reversed
Symbolism:
A young vampire sits in a prostate position, poised to consume a chalice filled with the most desirable sustenance. The image conveys a sense of eagerness and anticipation, focused on a new emotional journey or experience.

Meaning:
The Page of Cups represents youthful enthusiasm, creativity, and emotional curiosity. It symbolizes the beginning of new emotional experiences, such as love, art, or self-discovery. This card often represents an individual who is open-hearted, sensitive, and in tune with their emotions. It can also indicate a message or invitation related to feelings or creative pursuits.

Reversed, the Page of Cups suggests emotional immaturity, manipulation, or being too consumed by fantasy and illusion. It may indicate deception, emotional instability, or the inability to express one's true feelings.

Keywords:
Reversed: Emotional immaturity, manipulation, deception, instability, fantasy.

 

 

 

 

The Querent's Thoughts

Ten of Pentagrams

Symbolism:
An exotic dancer raises the energy of her audience, clasping pentagrams in hand. This scene represents the completion of a cycle, where comfort, security, and family are at the forefront of life.

Meaning:
The Ten of Pentagrams signifies family, wealth, and long-term security. It reflects a period of contentment, with all your material and emotional needs met. This card highlights the importance of legacy, home, and lasting success.

Keywords:
Upright: Family, wealth, legacy, security, completion.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's Thoughts

XVI. The Tower

Symbolism:
The Tower is shown as a crumbling gothic spire, struck by lightning and engulfed in flames. Figures are seen falling from the heights, their faces contorted in shock and despair. The dark sky above swirls with storm clouds, while the ground below splits open, exposing molten lava. Amid the destruction, a single raven perches on the rubble, symbolizing the potential for renewal through upheaval.

Meaning:
The Tower represents sudden upheaval, revelation, and the breaking down of false structures. It signals a dramatic, often unexpected event that shakes the foundations of your life, forcing you to confront harsh truths. While challenging, this card ultimately clears the way for genuine growth and transformation.

Keywords:
Upright: Upheaval, revelation, chaos, destruction, truth, transformation, awakening.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Querent's Emotions

Three of Cups

Symbolism:
Two overturned cups are washed clean, and a third toppled cup spills its all-seeing contents. The imagery suggests the end of a cycle, with emotions spilling over, marking a time for reflection, conclusion, and understanding.

Meaning:
The Three of Cups signifies celebration, community, and emotional fulfillment. It represents joyous reunions, friendship, and collective happiness. This card often points to success in group efforts or the enjoyment of time spent with loved ones, signaling an end to struggles and a period of peace.

Keywords:
Upright: Celebration, happiness, community, friendships, unity, emotional fulfillment.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's Emotions

Six of Cups

Symbolism:
Female vampires continue their revelry, fed by the life-giving substance that fuels their endless celebration. The reference to past times emphasizes nostalgia and the lingering effects of past experiences.

Meaning:
The Six of Cups is a card of nostalgia, happiness, and reminiscing. It indicates a return to simpler times, a reflection on happy memories, and the pleasure derived from the past. This card may also represent childhood or a situation that feels familiar, offering comfort and joy from what has already occurred.

Keywords:
Upright: Nostalgia, happy memories, reflection, childhood, comfort, familiar joy.

 

 

 

 

The Querent's External Stance

Eight of Swords

Reversed
Symbolism:
A young woman lies motionless, stabbed from both the front and the back by swords. Unlike a self-inflicted fate, the wounds reveal a betrayal or attack from all sides, symbolizing entrapment and the powerlessness that stems from external forces.

Meaning:
The Eight of Swords signifies mental entrapment, limitation, and the feeling of being cornered. It highlights the power of negative thoughts or external pressures that leave you paralyzed. However, the card reminds you that escape is often possible if you change your mindset or perspective.

Reversed, the Eight of Swords reflects the breaking of these mental or emotional chains. It suggests newfound freedom, clarity, or the chance to overcome previously overwhelming challenges. However, it may also point to unexpected disasters or lingering traps yet to be avoided.

Keywords:
Reversed: Release, freedom, clarity, resolution, unforeseen disaster.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's External Stance

Two of Swords

Reversed
Symbolism:
A sword protrudes from the mouth of a female, symbolizing a smooth talker or someone who has the ability to communicate forcefully.

Meaning:
The Two of Swords represents difficult decisions, indecision, and mental conflict. It suggests being at a crossroads, where a choice must be made, but there is uncertainty or unwillingness to make it. This card symbolizes balance and the need to weigh options carefully.

When reversed, it indicates dishonesty, manipulation, or a refusal to face the truth. It can also suggest that the choice has been made, but with negative consequences such as betrayal or deception.

Keywords:
Reversed: Betrayal, deceit, falsehood, avoidance.

 

 

 

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