Relationship Spread #1

Relationship Spread #1

 

 

Difficulty: Easy

This tarot spread is easy to read, like a convenient chart. In this spread, court cards generally indicate actual people with the same characteristics. Knights (or corresponding princes, but not kings) and queens are meant to represent actual men and women in this tarot spread. Look for patterns in the cards as always.

Card #1 is the overall significator of the relationship. The two columns on either side of the significator characterise each individual's role in the relationship. The relationship does not have to be romantic. In fact, it could be a relationship between a person and a group, or even how two groups relate.

The top row, cards #7 & #2, is about the conscious thoughts of each person, or what they think about the relationship and likewise how they view their partner.

The middle row, cards #6 & #3, reveals the way each individual feels about the other. Emotional awareness corresponds to a person's unconscious thoughts that run deep, affecting a person in ways he or she is not fully aware of.

The bottom row, cards #5 & #4, represents the way each person behaves, in other words the stance taken regarding the relationship. The way a person acts may be genuine, but sometimes people are phony and manipulative, so it is best to weigh this card against the other person's cards to determine how they match up.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Your Relationship #1 Reading

  You   Other Person
Thought             
0. The Fool
              
XVI. The Tower
Emotion             
Five of Stakes
The Significator

XIII. Death
            
Six of Pentagrams
External Stance             
Two of Swords
              
Ace of Cups

 

 

 

 

The Significator

XIII. Death

Symbolism:
Death is depicted as a cloaked, skeletal figure riding a dark horse with glowing red eyes. In one hand, it wields a scythe, its blade glinting in the moonlight, while the other hand scatters withered petals onto the barren ground. The landscape around them is bleak, with twisted trees and ruins, but in the distance, the faint glow of dawn promises renewal. At the figure's feet, flowers begin to bloom amid the decay.

Meaning:
Death symbolizes transformation, endings, and the promise of new beginnings. It encourages you to release what no longer serves you, making way for growth and renewal. This card often marks a significant transition or the closure of a chapter in life, reminding you that every ending carries the seed of a new beginning.

Keywords:
Upright: Transformation, endings, renewal, release, change, rebirth, closure.

 

 

 

 

The Querent's Thoughts

0. The Fool

Reversed
Symbolism:
The Fool is depicted as a pale, ethereal figure walking a misty, crumbling path, a bundle tied to a staff slung over their shoulder. They gaze skyward, unaware of the jagged cliff at their feet. A spectral wolf follows close behind, snarling a silent warning. Overhead, a full moon illuminates their journey, hinting at the mystery and potential of new beginnings. In their hand, a delicate white rose symbolizes innocence and purity.

Meaning:
The Fool represents beginnings, spontaneity, and boundless potential. It urges you to take a leap of faith, trusting in the journey ahead. While the path may be uncertain, embracing the unknown opens the door to growth, discovery, and self-expression.

Reversed, the Fool warns of recklessness, naivety, or hesitation. It suggests the need to pause and consider potential consequences before plunging ahead.

Keywords:
Reversed: Recklessness, foolishness, naivety, hesitation, fear of the unknown, poor judgment.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's Thoughts

XVI. The Tower

Symbolism:
The Tower is shown as a crumbling gothic spire, struck by lightning and engulfed in flames. Figures are seen falling from the heights, their faces contorted in shock and despair. The dark sky above swirls with storm clouds, while the ground below splits open, exposing molten lava. Amid the destruction, a single raven perches on the rubble, symbolizing the potential for renewal through upheaval.

Meaning:
The Tower represents sudden upheaval, revelation, and the breaking down of false structures. It signals a dramatic, often unexpected event that shakes the foundations of your life, forcing you to confront harsh truths. While challenging, this card ultimately clears the way for genuine growth and transformation.

Keywords:
Upright: Upheaval, revelation, chaos, destruction, truth, transformation, awakening.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Querent's Emotions

Five of Stakes

Symbolism:
A man trapped in a pit, impaled by five stakes, fights against overwhelming odds. The struggle is real and relentless, representing competition, ambition, and the challenges faced in the pursuit of success. His tattered state hints at the toll such pursuits can take on one's spirit.

Meaning:
The Five of Stakes represents conflict, rivalry, and the test of one's determination. It reflects the spirited competition and the drive to rise above challenges. While the fight may be strenuous, it also forges resilience and sharpens your focus. This card encourages perseverance despite obstacles.

Keywords:
Upright: Competition, rivalry, ambition, perseverance, resilience.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's Emotions

Six of Pentagrams

Symbolism:
Two men beg a seductive vampire, one drained, the other eager for his turn. This scene represents generosity, power dynamics, and the exchange of resources—both material and emotional.

Meaning:
The Six of Pentagrams signifies giving and receiving, with a focus on generosity and balance in exchanges. It may indicate a time when you are helping others or receiving aid, and it highlights the importance of fairness and reciprocity. It suggests prosperity through kindness, vigilance, and prudence.

Keywords:
Upright: Generosity, aid, balance, prosperity, reciprocity.

 

 

 

 

The Querent's External Stance

Two of Swords

Symbolism:
A woman stands holding two crossed swords, her eyes veiled. This imagery reflects a difficult choice or mental conflict, where decisions are held at bay. The crossed swords suggest that balance and equanimity are required, but the veiled eyes hint at hesitation or avoidance.

Meaning:
The Two of Swords represents a situation where you are facing a decision but may be avoiding it. The veil over the woman's eyes suggests a mental block, where the truth is not being seen or acknowledged. It calls for careful contemplation to find balance and make a choice, urging you to confront your indecision.

Keywords:
Upright: Decision, mental conflict, balance, choices, indecision.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's External Stance

Ace of Cups

Symbolism:
A pale hand drains the life force out of a female who has sacrificed herself to fill an unholy grail. This act of devotion and consumption illustrates the intense, transformative power of emotional energy. The grail symbolizes the heart, while the act of sacrifice represents the giving and receiving of love, both nourishing and consuming.

Meaning:
The Ace of Cups represents new beginnings in matters of the heart, overflowing with emotional potential. It is a card of love, joy, and emotional fulfillment, suggesting the start of a fresh emotional journey or a deepened connection with others. It signifies a time of abundance, where feelings of happiness, empathy, and compassion can fill your life.

Keywords:
Upright: New beginnings, emotional fulfillment, love, joy, abundance, compassion.

 

 

 

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