Relationship Spread #1
Difficulty: Easy
This tarot spread is easy to read, like a convenient chart. In this spread, court cards generally indicate actual people with the same characteristics. Knights (or corresponding princes, but not kings) and queens are meant to represent actual men and women in this tarot spread. Look for patterns in the cards as always.
Card #1 is the overall significator of the relationship. The two columns on either side of the significator characterise each individual's role in the relationship. The relationship does not have to be romantic. In fact, it could be a relationship between a person and a group, or even how two groups relate.
The top row, cards #7 & #2, is about the conscious thoughts of each person, or what they think about the relationship and likewise how they view their partner.
The middle row, cards #6 & #3, reveals the way each individual feels about the other. Emotional awareness corresponds to a person's unconscious thoughts that run deep, affecting a person in ways he or she is not fully aware of.
The bottom row, cards #5 & #4, represents the way each person behaves, in other words the stance taken regarding the relationship. The way a person acts may be genuine, but sometimes people are phony and manipulative, so it is best to weigh this card against the other person's cards to determine how they match up.
Your Relationship #1 Reading
You | Other Person | ||
Thought | ![]() Nine of Cups |
![]() Two of Swords |
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Emotion | ![]() Two of Pentagrams |
The Significator![]() Four of Cups |
![]() King of Cups |
External Stance | ![]() 0. The Fool |
![]() Six of Swords |

The Significator
Four of Cups
Symbolism:
Two female vampires revel in the night, intoxicated by an excess of life force. Their satiation and indulgence highlight the dangers of overindulgence, while the cups represent both nourishment and excess.
Meaning:
The Four of Cups suggests the enjoyment of life, novelty, and pleasure. It indicates a time for exploration and a renewed sense of joy. This card can point to social events or gatherings where joy is found in connection and revelry. It also symbolizes the introduction of new opportunities, making it a time of emotional satisfaction and new connections.
Keywords:
Upright: Novelty, enjoyment, pleasure, social connections, indulgence.

The Querent's Thoughts
Nine of Cups
Reversed
Symbolism:
A male vampire sits at the peak of drunken contentment, a symbol of ultimate satisfaction and indulgence. The cups around him represent the emotional fulfillment that results from victory and excess.
Meaning:
The Nine of Cups represents emotional satisfaction, contentment, and fulfillment. It indicates that your desires are being met and that you are experiencing joy in its fullest form. It can also be a sign of physical satisfaction or emotional abundance, often linked to wishes being granted.
Reversed, it warns of complacency, indulgence without fulfillment, or shallow pleasures that fail to bring long-lasting happiness.
Keywords:
Reversed: Complacency, shallow pleasures, unfulfilled desires, indulgence.

The Other Person's Thoughts
Two of Swords
Symbolism:
A woman stands holding two crossed swords, her eyes veiled. This imagery reflects a difficult choice or mental conflict, where decisions are held at bay. The crossed swords suggest that balance and equanimity are required, but the veiled eyes hint at hesitation or avoidance.
Meaning:
The Two of Swords represents a situation where you are facing a decision but may be avoiding it. The veil over the woman's eyes suggests a mental block, where the truth is not being seen or acknowledged. It calls for careful contemplation to find balance and make a choice, urging you to confront your indecision.
Keywords:
Upright: Decision, mental conflict, balance, choices, indecision.

The Querent's Emotions
Two of Pentagrams
Symbolism:
A young female vampire holds two pentagrams in her hands while seated in her dungeon. She appears to be balancing both objects, a representation of adaptability and change. The setting suggests a careful juggling of duties, with an eye on the future and a mind on the present.
Meaning:
The Two of Pentagrams is a card of adaptability, change, and managing multiple responsibilities. It suggests that you may be juggling different aspects of your life—finances, work, relationships—and must find balance to avoid becoming overwhelmed. It invites flexibility and encourages you to embrace change rather than resist it.
Keywords:
Upright: Balance, adaptability, change, flexibility, resourcefulness.

The Other Person's Emotions
King of Cups
Symbolism:
Seated upon his throne, the King clasps a full chalice in hand. The King embodies emotional mastery, wisdom, and balance, symbolizing the ability to rule over emotions and guide others with compassion.
Meaning:
The King of Cups represents emotional maturity, control, and wisdom. He is a master of his feelings and uses his emotional intelligence to guide others. This card signifies someone who is emotionally stable, compassionate, and deeply understanding. The King offers counsel, support, and emotional protection to others and is often a symbol of balance in relationships and emotional wellbeing.
Keywords:
Upright: Emotional maturity, wisdom, stability, compassion, emotional intelligence, guidance.

The Querent's External Stance
0. The Fool
Reversed
Symbolism:
The Fool is depicted as a pale, ethereal figure walking a misty, crumbling path, a bundle tied to a staff slung over their shoulder. They gaze skyward, unaware of the jagged cliff at their feet. A spectral wolf follows close behind, snarling a silent warning. Overhead, a full moon illuminates their journey, hinting at the mystery and potential of new beginnings. In their hand, a delicate white rose symbolizes innocence and purity.
Meaning:
The Fool represents beginnings, spontaneity, and boundless potential. It urges you to take a leap of faith, trusting in the journey ahead. While the path may be uncertain, embracing the unknown opens the door to growth, discovery, and self-expression.
Reversed, the Fool warns of recklessness, naivety, or hesitation. It suggests the need to pause and consider potential consequences before plunging ahead.
Keywords:
Reversed: Recklessness, foolishness, naivety, hesitation, fear of the unknown, poor judgment.

The Other Person's External Stance
Six of Swords
Reversed
Symbolism:
Six swords impale a young female from every direction, capturing the grim tragedy of a life prematurely lost. The scene evokes a visceral sense of waste, portraying the haunting consequences of decisions or unavoidable circumstances.
Meaning:
The Six of Swords represents transition, movement, and the pursuit of peace or resolution after difficulty. It often signals leaving behind a painful situation, not without scars, but with the hope of finding clarity or refuge. The imagery highlights the weight of such transitions, emphasizing the emotional toll of moving forward.
Reversed, this card signifies declarations, confessions, or emotional outbursts that bring hidden truths to light. It may also suggest an unexpected emotional proposal, potentially tied to love or vulnerability.
Keywords:
Reversed: Declaration, confession, outburst, exposure, proposal of love.