Relationship Spread #1

Relationship Spread #1

 

 

Difficulty: Easy

This tarot spread is easy to read, like a convenient chart. In this spread, court cards generally indicate actual people with the same characteristics. Knights (or corresponding princes, but not kings) and queens are meant to represent actual men and women in this tarot spread. Look for patterns in the cards as always.

Card #1 is the overall significator of the relationship. The two columns on either side of the significator characterise each individual's role in the relationship. The relationship does not have to be romantic. In fact, it could be a relationship between a person and a group, or even how two groups relate.

The top row, cards #7 & #2, is about the conscious thoughts of each person, or what they think about the relationship and likewise how they view their partner.

The middle row, cards #6 & #3, reveals the way each individual feels about the other. Emotional awareness corresponds to a person's unconscious thoughts that run deep, affecting a person in ways he or she is not fully aware of.

The bottom row, cards #5 & #4, represents the way each person behaves, in other words the stance taken regarding the relationship. The way a person acts may be genuine, but sometimes people are phony and manipulative, so it is best to weigh this card against the other person's cards to determine how they match up.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Your Relationship #1 Reading

  You   Other Person
Thought             
Page of Swords
              
Six of Stakes
Emotion             
III. The Empress
The Significator

Five of Cups
            
Eight of Cups
External Stance             
Three of Swords
              
Queen of Stakes

 

 

 

 

The Significator

Five of Cups

Symbolism:
Five toppled cups form a pentagram, with something undiscernible at the center. The destruction and loss are apparent, yet the hidden element suggests that something valuable might still remain.

Meaning:
The Five of Cups represents loss, grief, and emotional upset. It suggests the need to process and mourn a loss, be it personal or emotional. This card encourages you to acknowledge your sorrow while being open to healing. It is also a reminder to focus not just on what has been lost but on what remains.

Keywords:
Upright: Loss, grief, sorrow, reflection, healing, emotional challenges.

 

 

 

 

The Querent's Thoughts

Page of Swords

Symbolism:
A young Page stands vigilant, holding his sword balanced with its tip pointed earthward. His posture conveys readiness, alertness, and a cautious approach to potential threats. Though at rest, his eyes scan the horizon, reflecting curiosity and a hunger for knowledge.

Meaning:
The Page of Swords represents curiosity, observation, and a keen intellect. It suggests a time for learning, exploration, or gathering information before acting. This card often represents someone who is eager to uncover truths or defend their beliefs with determination.

Keywords:
Upright: Vigilance, observation, curiosity, intellect, communication, preparation.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's Thoughts

Six of Stakes

Reversed
Symbolism:
A female cadaver, suspended by six stakes, serves as a macabre warning to all who pass. The stakes are arranged as a barrier, both defensive and triumphant, symbolizing victory achieved at a great cost. The ominous scene speaks of hard-won triumphs and the fulfillment of one's ambitions, albeit shadowed by loss.

Meaning:
The Six of Stakes signifies triumph and recognition. It represents a well-earned victory and the satisfaction of achieving goals through perseverance and hard work. This card heralds positive news and fulfillment of long-held desires. It also reminds you to remain humble and grateful in success.

Reversed, the Six warns of delays, paranoia, or feelings of insecurity despite external achievements. It can also point to betrayal or fear of losing one's position.

Keywords:
Reversed: Delays, fear, betrayal, disloyalty, insecurity.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Querent's Emotions

III. The Empress

Symbolism:
The Empress sits upon her throne, her presence commanding yet nurturing. She holds the Hand of Glory, a macabre artifact symbolizing her power to claim whatever she desires. Her surroundings are lush and fertile, with dark roses blooming amidst the decay—symbols of beauty and abundance arising from even the grimmest conditions. Her expression is one of calm authority, radiating life-giving energy.

Meaning:
The Empress represents creation, fertility, and the nurturing aspects of life. She signifies abundance and the ability to bring ideas, projects, or relationships to fruition. This card invites you to connect with your creative or maternal instincts and embrace the cycles of growth and renewal. It may also point to emotional or physical abundance and a celebration of life's pleasures.

Keywords:
Upright: Fertility, abundance, creation, nurturing, beauty, growth, motherhood, diplomacy.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's Emotions

Eight of Cups

Reversed
Symbolism:
Eight cups filled with life-giving sustenance fuel the party at dusk, urging the participants to break through to a new experience. The card reflects the need for a transformative journey.

Meaning:
The Eight of Cups signals a turning point, where something needs to be left behind in order to move toward new emotional growth. It often signifies the need to leave behind past emotional attachments to make room for new experiences. It can also point to personal growth and a desire to transcend superficial satisfaction.

Reversed, it suggests a period of emotional abundance, joy, and fulfillment. It may also represent staying in a comfort zone when it's time to move forward.

Keywords:
Reversed: Abundance, contentment, staying in comfort, fulfillment, joy.

 

 

 

 

The Querent's External Stance

Three of Swords

Symbolism:
Three swords pierce a heart, set against a backdrop of dark, foreboding clouds. The heart bleeds, symbolizing the deep pain of betrayal and heartbreak. The ominous sky reinforces the emotional intensity and the sorrow attached to this card.

Meaning:
The Three of Swords is a card of emotional pain, heartbreak, and grief. It represents suffering from loss, betrayal, or separation. The heart pierced by swords highlights the emotional wound, urging you to confront the pain to begin healing.

Keywords:
Upright: Heartbreak, sorrow, grief, emotional pain, loss.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's External Stance

Queen of Stakes

Reversed
Symbolism:
The Queen of Stakes stands proudly, her fangs bared in defiance. The impaled victims behind her serve as a stark reminder of her strength and resolve. She is both nurturing and fierce, embodying the duality of creation and destruction.

Meaning:
The Queen of Stakes symbolizes independence, confidence, and the ability to lead with compassion and strength. She encourages you to harness your inner power and remain true to yourself. This card often indicates success in business or personal endeavors.

Reversed, the Queen warns of jealousy, deceit, or opposition. It may also suggest a lack of self-confidence or struggles with balancing emotions.

Keywords:
Reversed: Jealousy, deceit, insecurity, opposition, imbalance.

 

 

 

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