Relationship Spread #1

Difficulty: Easy

This tarot spread is easy to read, like a convenient chart. In this spread, court cards generally indicate actual people with the same characteristics. Knights (or corresponding princes, but not kings) and queens are meant to represent actual men and women in this tarot spread. Look for patterns in the cards as always.

Card #1 is the overall significator of the relationship. The two columns on either side of the significator characterise each individual's role in the relationship. The relationship does not have to be romantic. In fact, it could be a relationship between a person and a group, or even how two groups relate.

The top row, cards #7 & #2, is about the conscious thoughts of each person, or what they think about the relationship and likewise how they view their partner.

The middle row, cards #6 & #3, reveals the way each individual feels about the other. Emotional awareness corresponds to a person's unconscious thoughts that run deep, affecting a person in ways he or she is not fully aware of.

The bottom row, cards #5 & #4, represents the way each person behaves, in other words the stance taken regarding the relationship. The way a person acts may be genuine, but sometimes people are phony and manipulative, so it is best to weigh this card against the other person's cards to determine how they match up.

Your Relationship #1 Reading

	You		Other Person
Thought	Knight of Cups		XVI. The Tower
Emotion	Four of Cups	The Significator Knight of Stakes	XIII. Death
External Stance	Eight of Cups		Nine of Stakes

Symbolism:
A pale knight rides a black horse, embodying contrast and duality. His determined expression and swift movement suggest ambition and change, while the dark tones hint at the risks associated with bold actions.

Meaning:
The Knight of Stakes represents action, change, and determination. It signifies movement, whether physical or metaphorical, and encourages you to embrace transformation with courage. This card often appears when major changes or decisions are on the horizon.

Keywords:
Upright: Action, change, determination, ambition, transformation.

Symbolism:
A white Knight rides a nightmare, holding a full cup and a full stomach. The imagery suggests a journey, perhaps one of passion or emotion, undertaken with both purpose and indulgence.

Meaning:
The Knight of Cups represents emotional pursuit, charm, and idealism. This card signifies someone who is romantic, passionate, and driven by emotions and desires. It often indicates an invitation, proposal, or movement towards a goal based on emotional fulfillment. The Knight is a messenger, bringing forth opportunities for love, creativity, or spiritual connection.

Keywords:
Upright: Romance, passion, idealism, emotional pursuit, invitations, messages, charm.

Reversed
Symbolism:
The Tower is shown as a crumbling gothic spire, struck by lightning and engulfed in flames. Figures are seen falling from the heights, their faces contorted in shock and despair. The dark sky above swirls with storm clouds, while the ground below splits open, exposing molten lava. Amid the destruction, a single raven perches on the rubble, symbolizing the potential for renewal through upheaval.

Meaning:
The Tower represents sudden upheaval, revelation, and the breaking down of false structures. It signals a dramatic, often unexpected event that shakes the foundations of your life, forcing you to confront harsh truths. While challenging, this card ultimately clears the way for genuine growth and transformation.

Reversed, the Tower suggests avoiding necessary change or clinging to unstable circumstances. It may warn of delayed consequences or a refusal to face reality.

Keywords:
Reversed: Resistance, avoidance, delayed change, denial, suppressed upheaval, lingering instability.

Reversed
Symbolism:
Two female vampires revel in the night, intoxicated by an excess of life force. Their satiation and indulgence highlight the dangers of overindulgence, while the cups represent both nourishment and excess.

Meaning:
The Four of Cups suggests the enjoyment of life, novelty, and pleasure. It indicates a time for exploration and a renewed sense of joy. This card can point to social events or gatherings where joy is found in connection and revelry. It also symbolizes the introduction of new opportunities, making it a time of emotional satisfaction and new connections.

Reversed, the card warns of weariness, aversion, or dissatisfaction despite indulgence. It may point to disillusionment with current pleasures or a sense of boredom in relationships.

Keywords:
Reversed: Weariness, dissatisfaction, aversion, boredom, disillusionment.

Symbolism:
Death is depicted as a cloaked, skeletal figure riding a dark horse with glowing red eyes. In one hand, it wields a scythe, its blade glinting in the moonlight, while the other hand scatters withered petals onto the barren ground. The landscape around them is bleak, with twisted trees and ruins, but in the distance, the faint glow of dawn promises renewal. At the figure's feet, flowers begin to bloom amid the decay.

Meaning:
Death symbolizes transformation, endings, and the promise of new beginnings. It encourages you to release what no longer serves you, making way for growth and renewal. This card often marks a significant transition or the closure of a chapter in life, reminding you that every ending carries the seed of a new beginning.

Keywords:
Upright: Transformation, endings, renewal, release, change, rebirth, closure.

Reversed
Symbolism:
Eight cups filled with life-giving sustenance fuel the party at dusk, urging the participants to break through to a new experience. The card reflects the need for a transformative journey.

Meaning:
The Eight of Cups signals a turning point, where something needs to be left behind in order to move toward new emotional growth. It often signifies the need to leave behind past emotional attachments to make room for new experiences. It can also point to personal growth and a desire to transcend superficial satisfaction.

Reversed, it suggests a period of emotional abundance, joy, and fulfillment. It may also represent staying in a comfort zone when it's time to move forward.

Keywords:
Reversed: Abundance, contentment, staying in comfort, fulfillment, joy.

Reversed
Symbolism:
A grotesque figure hangs upside down, pierced by nine stakes in a horrific display of defiance and suffering. The unsettling scene illustrates the resilience required to endure opposition and remain steadfast in the face of challenges.

Meaning:
The Nine of Stakes is a card of resilience and strength under pressure. It symbolizes the final push before success, encouraging you to persevere despite fatigue or hardship. This card warns of challenges but assures you that your determination will see you through.

Reversed, the card signals obstacles, delays, or setbacks. It may also indicate a need for rest or recovery before resuming the fight.

Keywords:
Reversed: Setbacks, fatigue, delays, obstacles, vulnerability.