Relationship Spread #1

Relationship Spread #1

 

 

Difficulty: Easy

This tarot spread is easy to read, like a convenient chart. In this spread, court cards generally indicate actual people with the same characteristics. Knights (or corresponding princes, but not kings) and queens are meant to represent actual men and women in this tarot spread. Look for patterns in the cards as always.

Card #1 is the overall significator of the relationship. The two columns on either side of the significator characterise each individual's role in the relationship. The relationship does not have to be romantic. In fact, it could be a relationship between a person and a group, or even how two groups relate.

The top row, cards #7 & #2, is about the conscious thoughts of each person, or what they think about the relationship and likewise how they view their partner.

The middle row, cards #6 & #3, reveals the way each individual feels about the other. Emotional awareness corresponds to a person's unconscious thoughts that run deep, affecting a person in ways he or she is not fully aware of.

The bottom row, cards #5 & #4, represents the way each person behaves, in other words the stance taken regarding the relationship. The way a person acts may be genuine, but sometimes people are phony and manipulative, so it is best to weigh this card against the other person's cards to determine how they match up.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Your Relationship #1 Reading

  You   Other Person
Thought             
King of Swords
              
King of Stakes
Emotion             
Three of Pentagrams
The Significator

Seven of Stakes
            
Ten of Cups
External Stance             
Nine of Swords
              
Ten of Stakes

 

 

 

 

The Significator

Seven of Stakes

Reversed
Symbolism:
Seven stakes hold yet another of Vlad's impaled victims, a stark message to those who would challenge his authority. The grim imagery portrays valor and defiance in the face of overwhelming odds. The stakes symbolize both the challenges and the power of standing one's ground.

Meaning:
The Seven of Stakes is a card of courage and determination. It urges you to stand your ground and defend your beliefs, even when faced with opposition. Success is possible, but it requires resilience and confidence in your convictions. This card often appears when there is competition or conflict, serving as a reminder to hold firm.

Reversed, the card warns of indecision, confusion, or embarrassment. It may also signal an overreaction to perceived threats, leading to unnecessary conflict.

Keywords:
Reversed: Indecision, confusion, overreaction, fear, uncertainty.

 

 

 

 

The Querent's Thoughts

King of Swords

Symbolism:
The King of Swords sits on his throne, holding two swords of justice crossed in front of him. His gaze is piercing and authoritative, reflecting a mastery of reason and balance. The environment around him is austere, emphasizing his focus on logic, law, and the pursuit of truth. His presence radiates power, intellect, and discipline.

Meaning:
The King of Swords symbolizes authority, rationality, and the power of thought. He embodies clarity, fair judgment, and leadership, urging you to approach situations with logic and integrity. This card often appears when strong leadership or impartiality is needed to resolve a conflict or make a critical decision.

Keywords:
Upright: Authority, clarity, intellect, fairness, leadership, logical reasoning.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's Thoughts

King of Stakes

Reversed
Symbolism:
The King of Stakes sits confidently in his domain, surrounded by the grim trophies of his reign. His impaled victims act as a wall of protection, symbolizing his authority, control, and the cost of maintaining power.

Meaning:
The King of Stakes represents authority, leadership, and honesty. He encourages you to act with integrity and take responsibility for your decisions. This card often signals success, stability, or the arrival of significant news, particularly regarding inheritance or financial matters.

Reversed, the King warns of a difficult but fair leader or challenges with authority figures. It may also suggest rigidity or an overly austere approach to life.

Keywords:
Reversed: Rigidity, austere leadership, fairness with difficulty, conflict with authority.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Querent's Emotions

Three of Pentagrams

Symbolism:
Three upright coffins sit in a dungeon, each holding a sleeping vampire. This scene symbolizes craftsmanship, mastery, and recognition. The coffins represent the culmination of skilled labor, each one a testament to work well done and renown earned.

Meaning:
The Three of Pentagrams speaks to skill, artistry, and the recognition of one's talents. It suggests that your hard work is being acknowledged, and you are on the path to success through dedication and mastery. This card can point to collaboration and the value of teamwork in achieving greater things.

Keywords:
Upright: Mastery, skill, recognition, teamwork, craftsmanship, accomplishment.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's Emotions

Ten of Cups

Symbolism:
Ten used cups sit in storage, while a skull watches over them. The imagery suggests a sense of completion, fulfillment, and the closing of a chapter, but also a reminder that all things come to an end.

Meaning:
The Ten of Cups represents emotional fulfillment, contentment, and happiness in relationships. It is the ultimate expression of emotional satisfaction, often symbolizing harmony in family life, long-lasting love, or the completion of an emotional journey. It suggests a sense of peace and joy, where all emotions align, and dreams come true.

Keywords:
Upright: Emotional fulfillment, harmony, happiness, peace, contentment, family unity.

 

 

 

 

The Querent's External Stance

Nine of Swords

Symbolism:
Nine swords hang ominously on the wall, their sharp edges glinting faintly in the dim light. Below, a female vampire clutches her chest, overwhelmed by anxiety. Her surroundings are fortified excessively, reflecting her insecurities and fears of vulnerability. The scene captures a suffocating sense of dread and the heavy toll of mental anguish.

Meaning:
The Nine of Swords represents anxiety, fear, and despair. It signifies sleepless nights, obsessive thoughts, and the burden of worries that may or may not be grounded in reality. This card calls attention to the self-inflicted nature of some fears, urging reflection and perspective.

Keywords:
Upright: Anxiety, fear, despair, worry, nightmares, obsession, mental overload.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's External Stance

Ten of Stakes

Reversed
Symbolism:
Amidst a sea of blood and carnage, a corpse is barely discernible, overshadowed by the horror of the scene. The sheer brutality suggests the weight of betrayal, excessive burdens, or a struggle too great to bear.

Meaning:
The Ten of Stakes signifies the culmination of challenges and the weight of responsibilities. It warns of being overburdened or taking on too much. This card serves as a reminder to reassess priorities and delegate tasks when necessary. While it reflects exhaustion, it also suggests that an end to the struggle is near.

Reversed, the card warns of oppression, excessive force, or bad luck. It may also indicate that you are holding on to burdens that could be released.

Keywords:
Reversed: Oppression, brutality, bad luck, overextension, relief.

 

 

 

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