Relationship Spread #1

Difficulty: Easy
This tarot spread is easy to read, like a convenient chart. In this spread, court cards generally indicate actual people with the same characteristics. Knights (or corresponding princes, but not kings) and queens are meant to represent actual men and women in this tarot spread. Look for patterns in the cards as always.
Card #1 is the overall significator of the relationship. The two columns on either side of the significator characterise each individual's role in the relationship. The relationship does not have to be romantic. In fact, it could be a relationship between a person and a group, or even how two groups relate.
The top row, cards #7 & #2, is about the conscious thoughts of each person, or what they think about the relationship and likewise how they view their partner.
The middle row, cards #6 & #3, reveals the way each individual feels about the other. Emotional awareness corresponds to a person's unconscious thoughts that run deep, affecting a person in ways he or she is not fully aware of.
The bottom row, cards #5 & #4, represents the way each person behaves, in other words the stance taken regarding the relationship. The way a person acts may be genuine, but sometimes people are phony and manipulative, so it is best to weigh this card against the other person's cards to determine how they match up.
Your Relationship #1 Reading
| You | Other Person | ||
| Thought | ![]() Seven of Swords |
![]() II. The Priestess |
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| Emotion | ![]() Ten of Stakes |
The Significator![]() Ten of Cups |
![]() Page of Cups |
| External Stance | ![]() X. The Wheel of Fortune |
![]() Eight of Cups |
The Significator
Ten of Cups
Symbolism:
Ten used cups sit in storage, while a skull watches over them. The imagery suggests a sense of completion, fulfillment, and the closing of a chapter, but also a reminder that all things come to an end.
Meaning:
The Ten of Cups represents emotional fulfillment, contentment, and happiness in relationships. It is the ultimate expression of emotional satisfaction, often symbolizing harmony in family life, long-lasting love, or the completion of an emotional journey. It suggests a sense of peace and joy, where all emotions align, and dreams come true.
Keywords:
Upright: Emotional fulfillment, harmony, happiness, peace, contentment, family unity.
The Querent's Thoughts
Seven of Swords
Reversed
Symbolism:
A cunning thief is shown stealing five of seven swords, his movements calculated and deliberate. He takes only what he can carry, leaving just enough behind to avoid detection. This image portrays strategy, cleverness, and moral ambiguity, reflecting the complexity of navigating difficult situations.
Meaning:
The Seven of Swords represents strategy, cunning, and the courage to take calculated risks. It suggests that bold action may be necessary to achieve your goals, even if it challenges conventional ethics. The card also highlights the importance of discretion and planning in overcoming obstacles.
Reversed, the Seven of Swords warns of dangerous plans that may fail or expose you to harm. It can indicate quarrels, deceit, or gossip that undermines trust. This card urges caution and vigilance in the face of potential betrayal or missteps.
Keywords:
Reversed: Failure, exposure, betrayal, quarrels, gossip, danger.
The Other Person's Thoughts
II. The Priestess
Symbolism:
The High Priestess holds a luminous sphere of power close to her womb, symbolizing the nurturing of secrets and inner knowledge. She is cloaked in flowing robes of dark and silvery hues, blending shadow and light to represent duality and balance. Behind her, the faint outline of a moonlit landscape hints at the cycles of nature and the mysteries of the subconscious. Her gaze is serene yet penetrating, as though she sees through to the core of truth.
Meaning:
The High Priestess signifies intuition, hidden wisdom, and the power of stillness. She encourages introspection and the pursuit of knowledge that lies beneath the surface. This card often appears when it is time to listen to your inner voice and trust the subtle cues of your environment. It may suggest secrets yet to be revealed or a need to delve deeper into your own emotions and spirituality.
Keywords:
Upright: Intuition, mystery, inner wisdom, reflection, subconscious, patience, hidden truths.
The Querent's Emotions
Ten of Stakes
Symbolism:
Amidst a sea of blood and carnage, a corpse is barely discernible, overshadowed by the horror of the scene. The sheer brutality suggests the weight of betrayal, excessive burdens, or a struggle too great to bear.
Meaning:
The Ten of Stakes signifies the culmination of challenges and the weight of responsibilities. It warns of being overburdened or taking on too much. This card serves as a reminder to reassess priorities and delegate tasks when necessary. While it reflects exhaustion, it also suggests that an end to the struggle is near.
Keywords:
Upright: Burden, responsibility, exhaustion, completion, struggle.
Reversed: Oppression, brutality, bad luck, overextension, relief.
The Other Person's Emotions
Page of Cups
Reversed
Symbolism:
A young vampire sits in a prostate position, poised to consume a chalice filled with the most desirable sustenance. The image conveys a sense of eagerness and anticipation, focused on a new emotional journey or experience.
Meaning:
The Page of Cups represents youthful enthusiasm, creativity, and emotional curiosity. It symbolizes the beginning of new emotional experiences, such as love, art, or self-discovery. This card often represents an individual who is open-hearted, sensitive, and in tune with their emotions. It can also indicate a message or invitation related to feelings or creative pursuits.
Reversed, the Page of Cups suggests emotional immaturity, manipulation, or being too consumed by fantasy and illusion. It may indicate deception, emotional instability, or the inability to express one's true feelings.
Keywords:
Reversed: Emotional immaturity, manipulation, deception, instability, fantasy.
The Querent's External Stance
X. The Wheel of Fortune
Reversed
Symbolism:
The Wheel of Fortune appears as a rotating wheel carved from black obsidian, inscribed with arcane runes glowing faintly in red and gold. Around the wheel, shadowy figures—some triumphant, others despairing—are caught in its orbit, symbolizing the cyclical nature of fate. At its center, a single, unblinking eye peers outward, embodying the watchful presence of destiny and the unpredictable forces that govern life.
Meaning:
The Wheel of Fortune represents cycles, change, and the influence of fate. It reminds you that life is constantly shifting between highs and lows, and adaptability is key to navigating these changes. When this card appears, it often signals a turning point, a shift in fortune, or the hand of destiny at work. It encourages you to seize opportunities while being mindful of the bigger picture.
Reversed, the Wheel warns of resistance to change, misfortune, or feeling stuck in a negative cycle. It suggests learning from setbacks to break free and regain control.
Keywords:
Reversed: Stagnation, resistance, bad luck, missed opportunities, instability, lack of control.
The Other Person's External Stance
Eight of Cups
Reversed
Symbolism:
Eight cups filled with life-giving sustenance fuel the party at dusk, urging the participants to break through to a new experience. The card reflects the need for a transformative journey.
Meaning:
The Eight of Cups signals a turning point, where something needs to be left behind in order to move toward new emotional growth. It often signifies the need to leave behind past emotional attachments to make room for new experiences. It can also point to personal growth and a desire to transcend superficial satisfaction.
Reversed, it suggests a period of emotional abundance, joy, and fulfillment. It may also represent staying in a comfort zone when it's time to move forward.
Keywords:
Reversed: Abundance, contentment, staying in comfort, fulfillment, joy.
