Relationship Spread #1

Relationship Spread #1

 

 

Difficulty: Easy

This tarot spread is easy to read, like a convenient chart. In this spread, court cards generally indicate actual people with the same characteristics. Knights (or corresponding princes, but not kings) and queens are meant to represent actual men and women in this tarot spread. Look for patterns in the cards as always.

Card #1 is the overall significator of the relationship. The two columns on either side of the significator characterise each individual's role in the relationship. The relationship does not have to be romantic. In fact, it could be a relationship between a person and a group, or even how two groups relate.

The top row, cards #7 & #2, is about the conscious thoughts of each person, or what they think about the relationship and likewise how they view their partner.

The middle row, cards #6 & #3, reveals the way each individual feels about the other. Emotional awareness corresponds to a person's unconscious thoughts that run deep, affecting a person in ways he or she is not fully aware of.

The bottom row, cards #5 & #4, represents the way each person behaves, in other words the stance taken regarding the relationship. The way a person acts may be genuine, but sometimes people are phony and manipulative, so it is best to weigh this card against the other person's cards to determine how they match up.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Your Relationship #1 Reading

  You   Other Person
Thought             
Nine of Cups
              
Eight of Swords
Emotion             
King of Pentagrams
The Significator

Five of Pentagrams
            
Four of Swords
External Stance             
XII. The Hanged Man
              
VIII. Strength

 

 

 

 

The Significator

Five of Pentagrams

Symbolism:
Outside of the devil's church, a vampire lies in a heap of his own vomit, symbolizing excess, indulgence, and the consequences of material excess. The scene reflects the dangers of overindulgence and losing control.

Meaning:
The Five of Pentagrams represents material loss, poverty, and hardship. It signifies a time of struggle, where one may feel destitute or faced with overwhelming financial or personal challenges. It warns of consequences from reckless decisions and suggests that emotional support or help may be needed to overcome this period.

Keywords:
Upright: Loss, poverty, hardship, crisis, vulnerability.

 

 

 

 

The Querent's Thoughts

Nine of Cups

Symbolism:
A male vampire sits at the peak of drunken contentment, a symbol of ultimate satisfaction and indulgence. The cups around him represent the emotional fulfillment that results from victory and excess.

Meaning:
The Nine of Cups represents emotional satisfaction, contentment, and fulfillment. It indicates that your desires are being met and that you are experiencing joy in its fullest form. It can also be a sign of physical satisfaction or emotional abundance, often linked to wishes being granted.

Keywords:
Upright: Contentment, fulfillment, satisfaction, emotional success, victory.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's Thoughts

Eight of Swords

Reversed
Symbolism:
A young woman lies motionless, stabbed from both the front and the back by swords. Unlike a self-inflicted fate, the wounds reveal a betrayal or attack from all sides, symbolizing entrapment and the powerlessness that stems from external forces.

Meaning:
The Eight of Swords signifies mental entrapment, limitation, and the feeling of being cornered. It highlights the power of negative thoughts or external pressures that leave you paralyzed. However, the card reminds you that escape is often possible if you change your mindset or perspective.

Reversed, the Eight of Swords reflects the breaking of these mental or emotional chains. It suggests newfound freedom, clarity, or the chance to overcome previously overwhelming challenges. However, it may also point to unexpected disasters or lingering traps yet to be avoided.

Keywords:
Reversed: Release, freedom, clarity, resolution, unforeseen disaster.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Querent's Emotions

King of Pentagrams

Reversed
Symbolism:
A wise king adorned with a large pentagram holds his reign in a posture of strength and control. He represents mastery over material resources and the ability to wield power with integrity and wisdom.

Meaning:
The King of Pentagrams signifies success, mastery, and the completion of a journey towards wealth and stability. This card speaks to practical wisdom, resourcefulness, and the ability to create long-lasting success. It encourages you to embody leadership and strategic thinking in your endeavors.

Reversed, it suggests a misuse of power, corruption, or an unwillingness to take responsibility for your actions. It may indicate a lack of integrity or wisdom in handling resources.

Keywords:
Reversed: Corruption, misuse of power, irresponsibility, lack of integrity.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's Emotions

Four of Swords

Reversed
Symbolism:
An effigy of a knight lies in a meditation pose upon his tomb, suggesting rest, retreat, or a time for inner reflection.

Meaning:
The Four of Swords indicates a need for rest, recuperation, and reflection. It suggests taking a step back to heal, recover, or regain mental clarity. It may represent a period of retreat or silence, where one needs to recharge before moving forward.

Reversed, this card could indicate the inability to take a break, exhaustion, or a failure to properly reflect before making decisions. It can also point to reluctance to rest or the postponement of necessary action.

Keywords:
Reversed: Exhaustion, mental fatigue, inability to rest, missed opportunities.

 

 

 

 

The Querent's External Stance

XII. The Hanged Man

Reversed
Symbolism:
The Hanged Man is shown suspended upside-down from a barren tree, his foot bound by a chain of silver. His expression is serene, as if willingly surrendering to his predicament. A pool of crimson liquid forms beneath him, reflecting a full moon, symbolizing surrender and the potential for transformation. Surrounding him, shadows twist into shapes of wings, hinting at the freedom that comes through letting go.

Meaning:
The Hanged Man represents surrender, perspective, and the need to pause. It encourages you to let go of control and view a situation from a different angle. This card often signals a period of waiting or self-sacrifice, where stepping back can lead to greater understanding or personal growth.

Reversed, the Hanged Man warns of resistance to change, stagnation, or clinging to outdated perspectives. It may suggest the need to take decisive action after prolonged inaction.

Keywords:
Reversed: Resistance, indecision, stagnation, delay, refusal to see another perspective, avoidance.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's External Stance

VIII. Strength

Reversed
Symbolism:
Strength is portrayed as a vampiric figure gently taming a feral wolf under the light of a crescent moon. The figure's touch is both commanding and tender, symbolizing the balance of power and compassion. The wolf, once a creature of wild aggression, now gazes at its tamer with loyalty and calm. Around them, thorny vines twist, a reminder of the challenges inherent in mastering one's inner beasts.

Meaning:
Strength embodies courage, inner power, and the triumph of compassion over brute force. It urges you to face challenges with patience and resilience, relying on your inner calm to overcome fear and adversity. This card often signals the need to master emotions, demonstrating that true strength lies in self-control and grace.

Reversed, Strength warns of self-doubt, impulsiveness, or being overwhelmed by your emotions. It may suggest a lack of confidence or reliance on force over finesse.

Keywords:
Reversed: Self-doubt, impulsiveness, overwhelm, lack of discipline, fear, imbalance.

 

 

 

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