Relationship Spread #1

Relationship Spread #1

 

 

Difficulty: Easy

This tarot spread is easy to read, like a convenient chart. In this spread, court cards generally indicate actual people with the same characteristics. Knights (or corresponding princes, but not kings) and queens are meant to represent actual men and women in this tarot spread. Look for patterns in the cards as always.

Card #1 is the overall significator of the relationship. The two columns on either side of the significator characterise each individual's role in the relationship. The relationship does not have to be romantic. In fact, it could be a relationship between a person and a group, or even how two groups relate.

The top row, cards #7 & #2, is about the conscious thoughts of each person, or what they think about the relationship and likewise how they view their partner.

The middle row, cards #6 & #3, reveals the way each individual feels about the other. Emotional awareness corresponds to a person's unconscious thoughts that run deep, affecting a person in ways he or she is not fully aware of.

The bottom row, cards #5 & #4, represents the way each person behaves, in other words the stance taken regarding the relationship. The way a person acts may be genuine, but sometimes people are phony and manipulative, so it is best to weigh this card against the other person's cards to determine how they match up.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Your Relationship #1 Reading

  You   Other Person
Thought             
Ten of Pentagrams
              
Ten of Cups
Emotion             
XII. The Hanged Man
The Significator

Seven of Stakes
            
Three of Cups
External Stance             
Knight of Pentagrams
              
Eight of Stakes

 

 

 

 

The Significator

Seven of Stakes

Symbolism:
Seven stakes hold yet another of Vlad's impaled victims, a stark message to those who would challenge his authority. The grim imagery portrays valor and defiance in the face of overwhelming odds. The stakes symbolize both the challenges and the power of standing one's ground.

Meaning:
The Seven of Stakes is a card of courage and determination. It urges you to stand your ground and defend your beliefs, even when faced with opposition. Success is possible, but it requires resilience and confidence in your convictions. This card often appears when there is competition or conflict, serving as a reminder to hold firm.

Keywords:
Upright: Valor, perseverance, defiance, determination, strength.

 

 

 

 

The Querent's Thoughts

Ten of Pentagrams

Reversed
Symbolism:
An exotic dancer raises the energy of her audience, clasping pentagrams in hand. This scene represents the completion of a cycle, where comfort, security, and family are at the forefront of life.

Meaning:
The Ten of Pentagrams signifies family, wealth, and long-term security. It reflects a period of contentment, with all your material and emotional needs met. This card highlights the importance of legacy, home, and lasting success.

Reversed, it may indicate loss, risk, or a breakdown in familial or financial security. It warns against deception or mismanagement of resources, which can lead to loss or instability.

Keywords:
Reversed: Loss, risk, instability, mismanagement, deception.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's Thoughts

Ten of Cups

Reversed
Symbolism:
Ten used cups sit in storage, while a skull watches over them. The imagery suggests a sense of completion, fulfillment, and the closing of a chapter, but also a reminder that all things come to an end.

Meaning:
The Ten of Cups represents emotional fulfillment, contentment, and happiness in relationships. It is the ultimate expression of emotional satisfaction, often symbolizing harmony in family life, long-lasting love, or the completion of an emotional journey. It suggests a sense of peace and joy, where all emotions align, and dreams come true.

Reversed, this card warns of emotional disconnection or the end of a previously harmonious situation. It may indicate broken relationships, family conflicts, or feelings of dissatisfaction despite outward appearances.

Keywords:
Reversed: Disconnection, broken relationships, emotional dissatisfaction, family conflicts.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Querent's Emotions

XII. The Hanged Man

Symbolism:
The Hanged Man is shown suspended upside-down from a barren tree, his foot bound by a chain of silver. His expression is serene, as if willingly surrendering to his predicament. A pool of crimson liquid forms beneath him, reflecting a full moon, symbolizing surrender and the potential for transformation. Surrounding him, shadows twist into shapes of wings, hinting at the freedom that comes through letting go.

Meaning:
The Hanged Man represents surrender, perspective, and the need to pause. It encourages you to let go of control and view a situation from a different angle. This card often signals a period of waiting or self-sacrifice, where stepping back can lead to greater understanding or personal growth.

Keywords:
Upright: Surrender, perspective, pause, letting go, reflection, patience, transformation.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's Emotions

Three of Cups

Symbolism:
Two overturned cups are washed clean, and a third toppled cup spills its all-seeing contents. The imagery suggests the end of a cycle, with emotions spilling over, marking a time for reflection, conclusion, and understanding.

Meaning:
The Three of Cups signifies celebration, community, and emotional fulfillment. It represents joyous reunions, friendship, and collective happiness. This card often points to success in group efforts or the enjoyment of time spent with loved ones, signaling an end to struggles and a period of peace.

Keywords:
Upright: Celebration, happiness, community, friendships, unity, emotional fulfillment.

 

 

 

 

The Querent's External Stance

Knight of Pentagrams

Reversed
Symbolism:
A knight bearing a pentagram signals the arrival of important news, symbolizing responsibility, discipline, and service. His steady demeanor suggests that success is achieved through diligent work and careful planning.

Meaning:
The Knight of Pentagrams represents service, responsibility, and a strong work ethic. It suggests that you are in a position to fulfill your obligations and take care of important matters. This card encourages patience and diligence in your endeavors.

Reversed, it points to laziness, stagnation, or a lack of progress. It may indicate that you are avoiding responsibilities or failing to take action in a timely manner.

Keywords:
Reversed: Laziness, stagnation, procrastination, neglect of duty.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's External Stance

Eight of Stakes

Symbolism:
A woman impaled by stakes showcases the cruel extremes of humanity. The stakes, angled as if in motion, represent swiftness and urgency. The scene hints at a world in constant flux, with events moving at an uncontrollable pace.

Meaning:
The Eight of Stakes represents rapid movement, action, and the culmination of efforts. It suggests that things are falling into place, and progress is accelerating toward your goals. This card encourages you to stay focused and prepared for opportunities that arise swiftly. It may also indicate travel, communication, or the arrival of significant news.

Keywords:
Upright: Speed, progress, opportunity, communication, movement, momentum.

 

 

 

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