Relationship Spread #1

Difficulty: Easy
This tarot spread is easy to read, like a convenient chart. In this spread, court cards generally indicate actual people with the same characteristics. Knights (or corresponding princes, but not kings) and queens are meant to represent actual men and women in this tarot spread. Look for patterns in the cards as always.
Card #1 is the overall significator of the relationship. The two columns on either side of the significator characterise each individual's role in the relationship. The relationship does not have to be romantic. In fact, it could be a relationship between a person and a group, or even how two groups relate.
The top row, cards #7 & #2, is about the conscious thoughts of each person, or what they think about the relationship and likewise how they view their partner.
The middle row, cards #6 & #3, reveals the way each individual feels about the other. Emotional awareness corresponds to a person's unconscious thoughts that run deep, affecting a person in ways he or she is not fully aware of.
The bottom row, cards #5 & #4, represents the way each person behaves, in other words the stance taken regarding the relationship. The way a person acts may be genuine, but sometimes people are phony and manipulative, so it is best to weigh this card against the other person's cards to determine how they match up.
Your Relationship #1 Reading
| You | Other Person | ||
| Thought | ![]() Six of Stakes |
![]() X. The Wheel of Fortune |
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| Emotion | ![]() King of Pentagrams |
The Significator![]() Four of Cups |
![]() IX. The Hermit |
| External Stance | ![]() Seven of Swords |
![]() Eight of Pentagrams |
The Significator
Four of Cups
Reversed
Symbolism:
Two female vampires revel in the night, intoxicated by an excess of life force. Their satiation and indulgence highlight the dangers of overindulgence, while the cups represent both nourishment and excess.
Meaning:
The Four of Cups suggests the enjoyment of life, novelty, and pleasure. It indicates a time for exploration and a renewed sense of joy. This card can point to social events or gatherings where joy is found in connection and revelry. It also symbolizes the introduction of new opportunities, making it a time of emotional satisfaction and new connections.
Reversed, the card warns of weariness, aversion, or dissatisfaction despite indulgence. It may point to disillusionment with current pleasures or a sense of boredom in relationships.
Keywords:
Reversed: Weariness, dissatisfaction, aversion, boredom, disillusionment.
The Querent's Thoughts
Six of Stakes
Symbolism:
A female cadaver, suspended by six stakes, serves as a macabre warning to all who pass. The stakes are arranged as a barrier, both defensive and triumphant, symbolizing victory achieved at a great cost. The ominous scene speaks of hard-won triumphs and the fulfillment of one's ambitions, albeit shadowed by loss.
Meaning:
The Six of Stakes signifies triumph and recognition. It represents a well-earned victory and the satisfaction of achieving goals through perseverance and hard work. This card heralds positive news and fulfillment of long-held desires. It also reminds you to remain humble and grateful in success.
Reversed, the Six warns of delays, paranoia, or feelings of insecurity despite external achievements. It can also point to betrayal or fear of losing one's position.
Keywords:
Upright: Victory, recognition, accomplishment, good news, fulfillment, hope.
Reversed: Delays, fear, betrayal, disloyalty, insecurity.
The Other Person's Thoughts
X. The Wheel of Fortune
Reversed
Symbolism:
The Wheel of Fortune appears as a rotating wheel carved from black obsidian, inscribed with arcane runes glowing faintly in red and gold. Around the wheel, shadowy figures—some triumphant, others despairing—are caught in its orbit, symbolizing the cyclical nature of fate. At its center, a single, unblinking eye peers outward, embodying the watchful presence of destiny and the unpredictable forces that govern life.
Meaning:
The Wheel of Fortune represents cycles, change, and the influence of fate. It reminds you that life is constantly shifting between highs and lows, and adaptability is key to navigating these changes. When this card appears, it often signals a turning point, a shift in fortune, or the hand of destiny at work. It encourages you to seize opportunities while being mindful of the bigger picture.
Reversed, the Wheel warns of resistance to change, misfortune, or feeling stuck in a negative cycle. It suggests learning from setbacks to break free and regain control.
Keywords:
Reversed: Stagnation, resistance, bad luck, missed opportunities, instability, lack of control.
The Querent's Emotions
King of Pentagrams
Reversed
Symbolism:
A wise king adorned with a large pentagram holds his reign in a posture of strength and control. He represents mastery over material resources and the ability to wield power with integrity and wisdom.
Meaning:
The King of Pentagrams signifies success, mastery, and the completion of a journey towards wealth and stability. This card speaks to practical wisdom, resourcefulness, and the ability to create long-lasting success. It encourages you to embody leadership and strategic thinking in your endeavors.
Reversed, it suggests a misuse of power, corruption, or an unwillingness to take responsibility for your actions. It may indicate a lack of integrity or wisdom in handling resources.
Keywords:
Reversed: Corruption, misuse of power, irresponsibility, lack of integrity.
The Other Person's Emotions
IX. The Hermit
Symbolism:
The Hermit is depicted as an ancient vampire cloaked in tattered robes, holding a lantern that emits an eerie, bluish glow. He stands atop a desolate mountain peak, surrounded by swirling mist. The lantern's light reveals faint traces of hidden paths, while his posture suggests quiet contemplation. The darkness around him symbolizes isolation, while the light represents the wisdom gained through introspection.
Meaning:
The Hermit signifies solitude, introspection, and the search for deeper truths. He encourages stepping back from external distractions to seek clarity and wisdom within. This card often appears when you need time alone to reflect on your journey or make decisions based on your inner guidance. It may also indicate the guidance of a mentor or wise figure.
Keywords:
Upright: Introspection, solitude, wisdom, self-reflection, spiritual journey, guidance.
The Querent's External Stance
Seven of Swords
Reversed
Symbolism:
A cunning thief is shown stealing five of seven swords, his movements calculated and deliberate. He takes only what he can carry, leaving just enough behind to avoid detection. This image portrays strategy, cleverness, and moral ambiguity, reflecting the complexity of navigating difficult situations.
Meaning:
The Seven of Swords represents strategy, cunning, and the courage to take calculated risks. It suggests that bold action may be necessary to achieve your goals, even if it challenges conventional ethics. The card also highlights the importance of discretion and planning in overcoming obstacles.
Reversed, the Seven of Swords warns of dangerous plans that may fail or expose you to harm. It can indicate quarrels, deceit, or gossip that undermines trust. This card urges caution and vigilance in the face of potential betrayal or missteps.
Keywords:
Reversed: Failure, exposure, betrayal, quarrels, gossip, danger.
The Other Person's External Stance
Eight of Pentagrams
Symbolism:
An exotic dancer adorned in pentagrams performs, her act representing craftsmanship and skill. She embodies the dedication to her craft, with a focus on discipline and mastery.
Meaning:
The Eight of Pentagrams speaks to hard work, craftsmanship, and the pursuit of excellence. It suggests a time of preparation and dedication to one's skills. Whether in a professional or personal capacity, this card encourages you to continue honing your abilities and remain committed to your goals.
Keywords:
Upright: Craftsmanship, dedication, skill, preparation, hard work.
