Relationship Spread #1

Relationship Spread #1

 

 

Difficulty: Easy

This tarot spread is easy to read, like a convenient chart. In this spread, court cards generally indicate actual people with the same characteristics. Knights (or corresponding princes, but not kings) and queens are meant to represent actual men and women in this tarot spread. Look for patterns in the cards as always.

Card #1 is the overall significator of the relationship. The two columns on either side of the significator characterise each individual's role in the relationship. The relationship does not have to be romantic. In fact, it could be a relationship between a person and a group, or even how two groups relate.

The top row, cards #7 & #2, is about the conscious thoughts of each person, or what they think about the relationship and likewise how they view their partner.

The middle row, cards #6 & #3, reveals the way each individual feels about the other. Emotional awareness corresponds to a person's unconscious thoughts that run deep, affecting a person in ways he or she is not fully aware of.

The bottom row, cards #5 & #4, represents the way each person behaves, in other words the stance taken regarding the relationship. The way a person acts may be genuine, but sometimes people are phony and manipulative, so it is best to weigh this card against the other person's cards to determine how they match up.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Your Relationship #1 Reading

  You   Other Person
Thought             
Eight of Stakes
              
XIII. Death
Emotion             
Nine of Stakes
The Significator

Two of Swords
            
Six of Swords
External Stance             
Four of Cups
              
Eight of Cups

 

 

 

 

The Significator

Two of Swords

Reversed
Symbolism:
A sword protrudes from the mouth of a female, symbolizing a smooth talker or someone who has the ability to communicate forcefully.

Meaning:
The Two of Swords represents difficult decisions, indecision, and mental conflict. It suggests being at a crossroads, where a choice must be made, but there is uncertainty or unwillingness to make it. This card symbolizes balance and the need to weigh options carefully.

When reversed, it indicates dishonesty, manipulation, or a refusal to face the truth. It can also suggest that the choice has been made, but with negative consequences such as betrayal or deception.

Keywords:
Reversed: Betrayal, deceit, falsehood, avoidance.

 

 

 

 

The Querent's Thoughts

Eight of Stakes

Symbolism:
A woman impaled by stakes showcases the cruel extremes of humanity. The stakes, angled as if in motion, represent swiftness and urgency. The scene hints at a world in constant flux, with events moving at an uncontrollable pace.

Meaning:
The Eight of Stakes represents rapid movement, action, and the culmination of efforts. It suggests that things are falling into place, and progress is accelerating toward your goals. This card encourages you to stay focused and prepared for opportunities that arise swiftly. It may also indicate travel, communication, or the arrival of significant news.

Keywords:
Upright: Speed, progress, opportunity, communication, movement, momentum.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's Thoughts

XIII. Death

Symbolism:
Death is depicted as a cloaked, skeletal figure riding a dark horse with glowing red eyes. In one hand, it wields a scythe, its blade glinting in the moonlight, while the other hand scatters withered petals onto the barren ground. The landscape around them is bleak, with twisted trees and ruins, but in the distance, the faint glow of dawn promises renewal. At the figure's feet, flowers begin to bloom amid the decay.

Meaning:
Death symbolizes transformation, endings, and the promise of new beginnings. It encourages you to release what no longer serves you, making way for growth and renewal. This card often marks a significant transition or the closure of a chapter in life, reminding you that every ending carries the seed of a new beginning.

Keywords:
Upright: Transformation, endings, renewal, release, change, rebirth, closure.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Querent's Emotions

Nine of Stakes

Reversed
Symbolism:
A grotesque figure hangs upside down, pierced by nine stakes in a horrific display of defiance and suffering. The unsettling scene illustrates the resilience required to endure opposition and remain steadfast in the face of challenges.

Meaning:
The Nine of Stakes is a card of resilience and strength under pressure. It symbolizes the final push before success, encouraging you to persevere despite fatigue or hardship. This card warns of challenges but assures you that your determination will see you through.

Reversed, the card signals obstacles, delays, or setbacks. It may also indicate a need for rest or recovery before resuming the fight.

Keywords:
Reversed: Setbacks, fatigue, delays, obstacles, vulnerability.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's Emotions

Six of Swords

Symbolism:
Six swords impale a young female from every direction, capturing the grim tragedy of a life prematurely lost. The scene evokes a visceral sense of waste, portraying the haunting consequences of decisions or unavoidable circumstances.

Meaning:
The Six of Swords represents transition, movement, and the pursuit of peace or resolution after difficulty. It often signals leaving behind a painful situation, not without scars, but with the hope of finding clarity or refuge. The imagery highlights the weight of such transitions, emphasizing the emotional toll of moving forward.

Keywords:
Upright: Transition, journey, resolution, moving forward, healing, clarity.

 

 

 

 

The Querent's External Stance

Four of Cups

Reversed
Symbolism:
Two female vampires revel in the night, intoxicated by an excess of life force. Their satiation and indulgence highlight the dangers of overindulgence, while the cups represent both nourishment and excess.

Meaning:
The Four of Cups suggests the enjoyment of life, novelty, and pleasure. It indicates a time for exploration and a renewed sense of joy. This card can point to social events or gatherings where joy is found in connection and revelry. It also symbolizes the introduction of new opportunities, making it a time of emotional satisfaction and new connections.

Reversed, the card warns of weariness, aversion, or dissatisfaction despite indulgence. It may point to disillusionment with current pleasures or a sense of boredom in relationships.

Keywords:
Reversed: Weariness, dissatisfaction, aversion, boredom, disillusionment.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's External Stance

Eight of Cups

Symbolism:
Eight cups filled with life-giving sustenance fuel the party at dusk, urging the participants to break through to a new experience. The card reflects the need for a transformative journey.

Meaning:
The Eight of Cups signals a turning point, where something needs to be left behind in order to move toward new emotional growth. It often signifies the need to leave behind past emotional attachments to make room for new experiences. It can also point to personal growth and a desire to transcend superficial satisfaction.

Keywords:
Upright: Emotional transition, leaving the past behind, personal growth, transformation.

 

 

 

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