Relationship Spread #1

Relationship Spread #1

 

 

Difficulty: Easy

This tarot spread is easy to read, like a convenient chart. In this spread, court cards generally indicate actual people with the same characteristics. Knights (or corresponding princes, but not kings) and queens are meant to represent actual men and women in this tarot spread. Look for patterns in the cards as always.

Card #1 is the overall significator of the relationship. The two columns on either side of the significator characterise each individual's role in the relationship. The relationship does not have to be romantic. In fact, it could be a relationship between a person and a group, or even how two groups relate.

The top row, cards #7 & #2, is about the conscious thoughts of each person, or what they think about the relationship and likewise how they view their partner.

The middle row, cards #6 & #3, reveals the way each individual feels about the other. Emotional awareness corresponds to a person's unconscious thoughts that run deep, affecting a person in ways he or she is not fully aware of.

The bottom row, cards #5 & #4, represents the way each person behaves, in other words the stance taken regarding the relationship. The way a person acts may be genuine, but sometimes people are phony and manipulative, so it is best to weigh this card against the other person's cards to determine how they match up.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Your Relationship #1 Reading

  You   Other Person
Thought             
Queen of Stakes
              
Five of Stakes
Emotion             
Knight of Cups
The Significator

Six of Swords
            
Six of Stakes
External Stance             
Knight of Stakes
              
Seven of Cups

 

 

 

 

The Significator

Six of Swords

Reversed
Symbolism:
Six swords impale a young female from every direction, capturing the grim tragedy of a life prematurely lost. The scene evokes a visceral sense of waste, portraying the haunting consequences of decisions or unavoidable circumstances.

Meaning:
The Six of Swords represents transition, movement, and the pursuit of peace or resolution after difficulty. It often signals leaving behind a painful situation, not without scars, but with the hope of finding clarity or refuge. The imagery highlights the weight of such transitions, emphasizing the emotional toll of moving forward.

Reversed, this card signifies declarations, confessions, or emotional outbursts that bring hidden truths to light. It may also suggest an unexpected emotional proposal, potentially tied to love or vulnerability.

Keywords:
Reversed: Declaration, confession, outburst, exposure, proposal of love.

 

 

 

 

The Querent's Thoughts

Queen of Stakes

Reversed
Symbolism:
The Queen of Stakes stands proudly, her fangs bared in defiance. The impaled victims behind her serve as a stark reminder of her strength and resolve. She is both nurturing and fierce, embodying the duality of creation and destruction.

Meaning:
The Queen of Stakes symbolizes independence, confidence, and the ability to lead with compassion and strength. She encourages you to harness your inner power and remain true to yourself. This card often indicates success in business or personal endeavors.

Reversed, the Queen warns of jealousy, deceit, or opposition. It may also suggest a lack of self-confidence or struggles with balancing emotions.

Keywords:
Reversed: Jealousy, deceit, insecurity, opposition, imbalance.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's Thoughts

Five of Stakes

Reversed
Symbolism:
A man trapped in a pit, impaled by five stakes, fights against overwhelming odds. The struggle is real and relentless, representing competition, ambition, and the challenges faced in the pursuit of success. His tattered state hints at the toll such pursuits can take on one's spirit.

Meaning:
The Five of Stakes represents conflict, rivalry, and the test of one's determination. It reflects the spirited competition and the drive to rise above challenges. While the fight may be strenuous, it also forges resilience and sharpens your focus. This card encourages perseverance despite obstacles.

Reversed, the card warns of deceit, disputes, or challenges born from misunderstandings. It calls for honesty and clarity in your actions.

Keywords:
Reversed: Disputes, deception, confusion, hypocrisy.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Querent's Emotions

Knight of Cups

Reversed
Symbolism:
A white Knight rides a nightmare, holding a full cup and a full stomach. The imagery suggests a journey, perhaps one of passion or emotion, undertaken with both purpose and indulgence.

Meaning:
The Knight of Cups represents emotional pursuit, charm, and idealism. This card signifies someone who is romantic, passionate, and driven by emotions and desires. It often indicates an invitation, proposal, or movement towards a goal based on emotional fulfillment. The Knight is a messenger, bringing forth opportunities for love, creativity, or spiritual connection.

Reversed, the card represents trickery, manipulation, and deceit. It points to an individual whose actions are guided by ulterior motives or emotional immaturity. It may also indicate an idealized vision of love or relationships that leads to disappointment.

Keywords:
Reversed: Trickery, manipulation, deceit, emotional immaturity, disappointment.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's Emotions

Six of Stakes

Symbolism:
A female cadaver, suspended by six stakes, serves as a macabre warning to all who pass. The stakes are arranged as a barrier, both defensive and triumphant, symbolizing victory achieved at a great cost. The ominous scene speaks of hard-won triumphs and the fulfillment of one's ambitions, albeit shadowed by loss.

Meaning:
The Six of Stakes signifies triumph and recognition. It represents a well-earned victory and the satisfaction of achieving goals through perseverance and hard work. This card heralds positive news and fulfillment of long-held desires. It also reminds you to remain humble and grateful in success.

Reversed, the Six warns of delays, paranoia, or feelings of insecurity despite external achievements. It can also point to betrayal or fear of losing one's position.

Keywords:
Upright: Victory, recognition, accomplishment, good news, fulfillment, hope.

Reversed: Delays, fear, betrayal, disloyalty, insecurity.

 

 

 

 

The Querent's External Stance

Knight of Stakes

Reversed
Symbolism:
A pale knight rides a black horse, embodying contrast and duality. His determined expression and swift movement suggest ambition and change, while the dark tones hint at the risks associated with bold actions.

Meaning:
The Knight of Stakes represents action, change, and determination. It signifies movement, whether physical or metaphorical, and encourages you to embrace transformation with courage. This card often appears when major changes or decisions are on the horizon.

Reversed, it warns of discord, hasty decisions, or separation. It may also suggest being overly impulsive or struggling to adapt to change.

Keywords:
Reversed: Discord, haste, separation, impulsiveness, resistance to change.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's External Stance

Seven of Cups

Reversed
Symbolism:
An unfortunate vampire has run out of the “good stuff” and must now rely on less desirable means. The card hints at illusions and unattainable desires, emphasizing the fantasy of having everything.

Meaning:
The Seven of Cups is a card of illusions, choices, and confusion. It represents the overwhelming number of options or fantasies that may lead to unrealistic expectations. This card calls for discernment and clarity, urging you to focus on what truly matters rather than being distracted by distractions or fleeting desires.

Reversed, it signals a clearing of confusion, making important decisions, and taking practical steps toward goals. It can also represent clarity after a period of uncertainty.

Keywords:
Reversed: Clarity, decision-making, focus, discernment, realistic goals.

 

 

 

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