Relationship Spread #1

Difficulty: Easy
This tarot spread is easy to read, like a convenient chart. In this spread, court cards generally indicate actual people with the same characteristics. Knights (or corresponding princes, but not kings) and queens are meant to represent actual men and women in this tarot spread. Look for patterns in the cards as always.
Card #1 is the overall significator of the relationship. The two columns on either side of the significator characterise each individual's role in the relationship. The relationship does not have to be romantic. In fact, it could be a relationship between a person and a group, or even how two groups relate.
The top row, cards #7 & #2, is about the conscious thoughts of each person, or what they think about the relationship and likewise how they view their partner.
The middle row, cards #6 & #3, reveals the way each individual feels about the other. Emotional awareness corresponds to a person's unconscious thoughts that run deep, affecting a person in ways he or she is not fully aware of.
The bottom row, cards #5 & #4, represents the way each person behaves, in other words the stance taken regarding the relationship. The way a person acts may be genuine, but sometimes people are phony and manipulative, so it is best to weigh this card against the other person's cards to determine how they match up.
Your Relationship #1 Reading
| You | Other Person | ||
| Thought | ![]() Five of Cups |
![]() Nine of Pentagrams |
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| Emotion | ![]() Seven of Swords |
The Significator![]() Six of Stakes |
![]() Page of Pentagrams |
| External Stance | ![]() Six of Pentagrams |
![]() Two of Cups |
The Significator
Six of Stakes
Reversed
Symbolism:
A female cadaver, suspended by six stakes, serves as a macabre warning to all who pass. The stakes are arranged as a barrier, both defensive and triumphant, symbolizing victory achieved at a great cost. The ominous scene speaks of hard-won triumphs and the fulfillment of one's ambitions, albeit shadowed by loss.
Meaning:
The Six of Stakes signifies triumph and recognition. It represents a well-earned victory and the satisfaction of achieving goals through perseverance and hard work. This card heralds positive news and fulfillment of long-held desires. It also reminds you to remain humble and grateful in success.
Reversed, the Six warns of delays, paranoia, or feelings of insecurity despite external achievements. It can also point to betrayal or fear of losing one's position.
Keywords:
Reversed: Delays, fear, betrayal, disloyalty, insecurity.
The Querent's Thoughts
Five of Cups
Reversed
Symbolism:
Five toppled cups form a pentagram, with something undiscernible at the center. The destruction and loss are apparent, yet the hidden element suggests that something valuable might still remain.
Meaning:
The Five of Cups represents loss, grief, and emotional upset. It suggests the need to process and mourn a loss, be it personal or emotional. This card encourages you to acknowledge your sorrow while being open to healing. It is also a reminder to focus not just on what has been lost but on what remains.
Reversed, it indicates recovery, the return of what was lost, or the resolution of past grief. It may also point to false hope or unresolved emotional baggage that still lingers.
Keywords:
Reversed: Recovery, resolution, overcoming grief, false hope, emotional baggage.
The Other Person's Thoughts
Nine of Pentagrams
Reversed
Symbolism:
A voluptuous woman with her familiar in hand prepares for astral travel, representing accomplishment and the ability to reach higher realms. She symbolizes wisdom and the ability to manifest one's desires through focused intent.
Meaning:
The Nine of Pentagrams represents success, accomplishment, and the manifestation of your goals. It signifies that you have worked hard to achieve security and comfort and that your efforts are beginning to bear fruit. This card encourages confidence and a sense of accomplishment.
Reversed, it warns against vanity, insecurity, or unfulfilled projects. It may indicate that your success is threatened by your own egotism or a lack of confidence in your abilities.
Keywords:
Reversed: Vanity, insecurity, missed opportunities, egotism.
The Querent's Emotions
Seven of Swords
Symbolism:
A cunning thief is shown stealing five of seven swords, his movements calculated and deliberate. He takes only what he can carry, leaving just enough behind to avoid detection. This image portrays strategy, cleverness, and moral ambiguity, reflecting the complexity of navigating difficult situations.
Meaning:
The Seven of Swords represents strategy, cunning, and the courage to take calculated risks. It suggests that bold action may be necessary to achieve your goals, even if it challenges conventional ethics. The card also highlights the importance of discretion and planning in overcoming obstacles.
Keywords:
Upright: Strategy, cunning, cleverness, calculated risk, bravery, justified action.
The Other Person's Emotions
Page of Pentagrams
Symbolism:
A young man clasps a pentagram, recognizing that he holds the power to shape his own destiny. This card represents potential and the beginning of a journey towards material or intellectual success.
Meaning:
The Page of Pentagrams signifies learning, new beginnings, and opportunities to grow. It points to a time when you are focused on laying the groundwork for future success. This card encourages you to be practical and take small, deliberate steps toward your goals.
Keywords:
Upright: Learning, potential, opportunities, practicality, new beginnings.
The Querent's External Stance
Six of Pentagrams
Symbolism:
Two men beg a seductive vampire, one drained, the other eager for his turn. This scene represents generosity, power dynamics, and the exchange of resources—both material and emotional.
Meaning:
The Six of Pentagrams signifies giving and receiving, with a focus on generosity and balance in exchanges. It may indicate a time when you are helping others or receiving aid, and it highlights the importance of fairness and reciprocity. It suggests prosperity through kindness, vigilance, and prudence.
Keywords:
Upright: Generosity, aid, balance, prosperity, reciprocity.
The Other Person's External Stance
Two of Cups
Symbolism:
A young, nude female chained to a dungeon wall is drained of her life force, which fills two cups symbolic of a master's love for bloodlust. The connection between the figures emphasizes emotional entanglement, power dynamics, and the intertwined nature of love and suffering.
Meaning:
The Two of Cups is a card of deep emotional connection, partnership, and harmony. It signifies love, mutual respect, and the bonding between two individuals, whether in a romantic or platonic context. It is the union of two hearts, often indicating the beginning of a significant relationship or partnership.
Keywords:
Upright: Love, partnership, harmony, mutual respect, emotional connection.
