Relationship Spread #1

Relationship Spread #1

 

 

Difficulty: Easy

This tarot spread is easy to read, like a convenient chart. In this spread, court cards generally indicate actual people with the same characteristics. Knights (or corresponding princes, but not kings) and queens are meant to represent actual men and women in this tarot spread. Look for patterns in the cards as always.

Card #1 is the overall significator of the relationship. The two columns on either side of the significator characterise each individual's role in the relationship. The relationship does not have to be romantic. In fact, it could be a relationship between a person and a group, or even how two groups relate.

The top row, cards #7 & #2, is about the conscious thoughts of each person, or what they think about the relationship and likewise how they view their partner.

The middle row, cards #6 & #3, reveals the way each individual feels about the other. Emotional awareness corresponds to a person's unconscious thoughts that run deep, affecting a person in ways he or she is not fully aware of.

The bottom row, cards #5 & #4, represents the way each person behaves, in other words the stance taken regarding the relationship. The way a person acts may be genuine, but sometimes people are phony and manipulative, so it is best to weigh this card against the other person's cards to determine how they match up.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Your Relationship #1 Reading

  You   Other Person
Thought             
XVI. The Tower
              
XII. The Hanged Man
Emotion             
0. The Fool
The Significator

I. The Magician
            
IV. The Emperor
External Stance             
II. The Priestess
              
XIV. Temperance

 

 

 

 

The Significator

I. The Magician

Symbolism:
The Magician is depicted as a Nosferatu vampire standing in a commanding pose, a sphere of influence hovering above his outstretched hand. This sphere glows with an otherworldly light, symbolizing his power to manipulate unseen forces. His posture exudes confidence, and the tools of his craft—representing the elements—are subtly embedded in the imagery, hinting at his mastery over earth, air, fire, and water. The shadows around him pulse with potential, representing untapped energy and possibility.

Meaning:
The Magician embodies willpower, creativity, and the ability to manifest one's desires. He is the ultimate initiator, reminding you that you have the power within to transform ideas into reality. This card urges action and focus, calling upon the seeker to harness their innate talents and take charge of their destiny. In situations requiring ingenuity or problem-solving, the Magician assures you that all the tools you need are at your disposal.

Keywords:
Upright: Initiative, willpower, manifestation, skill, confidence, resourcefulness, creation.

 

 

 

 

The Querent's Thoughts

XVI. The Tower

Reversed
Symbolism:
The Tower is shown as a crumbling gothic spire, struck by lightning and engulfed in flames. Figures are seen falling from the heights, their faces contorted in shock and despair. The dark sky above swirls with storm clouds, while the ground below splits open, exposing molten lava. Amid the destruction, a single raven perches on the rubble, symbolizing the potential for renewal through upheaval.

Meaning:
The Tower represents sudden upheaval, revelation, and the breaking down of false structures. It signals a dramatic, often unexpected event that shakes the foundations of your life, forcing you to confront harsh truths. While challenging, this card ultimately clears the way for genuine growth and transformation.

Reversed, the Tower suggests avoiding necessary change or clinging to unstable circumstances. It may warn of delayed consequences or a refusal to face reality.

Keywords:
Reversed: Resistance, avoidance, delayed change, denial, suppressed upheaval, lingering instability.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's Thoughts

XII. The Hanged Man

Symbolism:
The Hanged Man is shown suspended upside-down from a barren tree, his foot bound by a chain of silver. His expression is serene, as if willingly surrendering to his predicament. A pool of crimson liquid forms beneath him, reflecting a full moon, symbolizing surrender and the potential for transformation. Surrounding him, shadows twist into shapes of wings, hinting at the freedom that comes through letting go.

Meaning:
The Hanged Man represents surrender, perspective, and the need to pause. It encourages you to let go of control and view a situation from a different angle. This card often signals a period of waiting or self-sacrifice, where stepping back can lead to greater understanding or personal growth.

Keywords:
Upright: Surrender, perspective, pause, letting go, reflection, patience, transformation.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Querent's Emotions

0. The Fool

Symbolism:
The Fool is depicted as a pale, ethereal figure walking a misty, crumbling path, a bundle tied to a staff slung over their shoulder. They gaze skyward, unaware of the jagged cliff at their feet. A spectral wolf follows close behind, snarling a silent warning. Overhead, a full moon illuminates their journey, hinting at the mystery and potential of new beginnings. In their hand, a delicate white rose symbolizes innocence and purity.

Meaning:
The Fool represents beginnings, spontaneity, and boundless potential. It urges you to take a leap of faith, trusting in the journey ahead. While the path may be uncertain, embracing the unknown opens the door to growth, discovery, and self-expression.

Keywords:
Upright: New beginnings, innocence, spontaneity, potential, trust, adventure, curiosity.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's Emotions

IV. The Emperor

Reversed
Symbolism:
The Emperor is a Nosferatu seated on a blood-soaked throne, gripping the Hand of Glory as his scepter of authority. His crimson cloak flows like a river of lifeblood, symbolizing his dominion over life and death. Behind him, a craggy fortress rises, representing stability and the structures of power. His stern, commanding gaze reinforces his role as a protector and enforcer of order.

Meaning:
The Emperor symbolizes authority, stability, and protection. He represents the need for structure and discipline to achieve goals and maintain order. As a figure of leadership, he encourages reason and conviction in decision-making. This card often indicates a time to take control of your environment or to rely on a strong, supportive figure for guidance.

Reversed, the Emperor warns of rigidity, tyranny, or a loss of control. It may signify struggles with authority, immaturity, or the misuse of power.

Keywords:
Reversed: Tyranny, rigidity, immaturity, chaos, rebellion, over-control.

 

 

 

 

The Querent's External Stance

II. The Priestess

Reversed
Symbolism:
The High Priestess holds a luminous sphere of power close to her womb, symbolizing the nurturing of secrets and inner knowledge. She is cloaked in flowing robes of dark and silvery hues, blending shadow and light to represent duality and balance. Behind her, the faint outline of a moonlit landscape hints at the cycles of nature and the mysteries of the subconscious. Her gaze is serene yet penetrating, as though she sees through to the core of truth.

Meaning:
The High Priestess signifies intuition, hidden wisdom, and the power of stillness. She encourages introspection and the pursuit of knowledge that lies beneath the surface. This card often appears when it is time to listen to your inner voice and trust the subtle cues of your environment. It may suggest secrets yet to be revealed or a need to delve deeper into your own emotions and spirituality.

Reversed, the High Priestess warns of superficiality, a lack of depth, or ignoring your intuition. It may indicate ego-driven decisions or the danger of being swayed by appearances without seeking the truth.

Keywords:
Reversed: Superficiality, ego, neglecting intuition, confusion, conceit.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's External Stance

XIV. Temperance

Symbolism:
Temperance is represented by a vampiric figure gracefully pouring a stream of crimson liquid from one chalice into another, symbolizing balance and harmony. She stands with one foot in a dark pool and the other on solid ground, representing the interplay between emotion and reason. Her wings are half-feathered, half-batlike, indicating the union of opposing forces. The background shifts between twilight and dawn, underscoring equilibrium.

Meaning:
Temperance embodies balance, moderation, and the harmonious blending of opposites. It encourages patience and the careful integration of different aspects of your life. This card often suggests the need for self-restraint, collaboration, or finding common ground in a situation.

Keywords:
Upright: Balance, harmony, moderation, patience, integration, adaptability, calm.